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My perennial life...

5 days ago. Tue 12 Feb 2019 06:56:33 AM IST

 

Once innocence is lost it can never be translated in its purest form to another relationship. That is what makes your first experience so special. Your first person seems so special. The first time you have ever experienced how amazing it is to be yourself without restrictions, to be understood without judgement, to be connected with your body and mind. It's pure attraction. Your first sets the benchmark for all future experiences and expectations. It's been my experience in discussions with many of my friends that the first experience has not ended well, and that time may fade some memories and bring healing to a broken heart but that person is never erased from your mind, their presence is never entirely forgotten. But for anyone that has recently experienced this, know that the most important memory to come is number two, the one who can see you with your scar and hesitations and be there for you unconditionally. Who puts your needs above their own, who will make sure you are safe and cared for. They will be so amazing that the scar from your first will fade so much that you will barely remember. This experience is far more special than anything before it.

 

xx

 

 

 

2 months ago. Wed 12 Dec 2018 12:27:22 PM IST

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2 months ago. Fri 23 Nov 2018 06:58:46 AM IST

2 months ago. Mon 19 Nov 2018 01:35:23 PM IST

"I'm sorry I hurt you"


As I heard those words, the burden instantaneously lifted from my heavy shoulders. I received the relief I didn't even realise I needed.

In those words my feelings were acknowledged, and responsibility taken for the actions that caused my heart to ache.

In that moment, I knew I was going to be able to leave it behind and move forward to all the wonders of what is to come for me.

In that exact moment, I felt free.

3 months ago. Mon 12 Nov 2018 01:56:07 AM IST

You told her that you would protect her but little did she know the only protection she actually needed was from you. 

 

3 months ago. Sun 11 Nov 2018 04:01:34 PM IST

3 months ago. Wed 07 Nov 2018 08:42:31 PM IST

No matter where you are, you will always be looking at the same moon I am.

 

xx 

 

3 months ago. Fri 02 Nov 2018 06:40:20 PM IST

 

A reminder for myself and to the others who need it…

 

You have revived your light and you are manifesting your dreams. You are a good woman. Your intentions are pure and you have a heart of gold. You are rare and women like you don’t happen often. You love yourself enough to take the actions for your happiness. Set a high standard for your life and your relationships. Never settle for less than you deserve.

 

People may not always tell you how they feel about you, but they will always show you. It’s time to pay attention. When a man treats you like just one of many options, assist him to narrow his choice by removing yourself from the equation. If he has lost you be assured he will search for you in everyone he meets, but you won’t be found. Walking away from where you were not valued will be the easiest thing you will ever do. You will not stay put, you will let go and break free from what hurts your heart and soul. It’s true some people enter your life as a blessing and others as a lesson. Learn from your experience and next time you will navigate the roads easier. Please never feel guilty for being you. You are beautiful inside and out. There is no shame in self-respect, self-love or self-care.

 

You are strong because you’ve been weak.

You are fearless because you’ve been afraid.

You are wise because you’ve been foolish.

 

You are worth finding,

You are worth knowing,

You are worth loving.

You and all your one million layers.

 

Know your worth and keep it deep within yourself, then find a man who is worthy of you. Remember that.

 

s xx