Experienced Doms, I'm sure you can relate. Regardless of the type of Dom you are (Sadist, Master, Daddy, Owner, Trainer, etc.) we all have that one or maybe two subs that we come across in our journey that not only make us rise to each and every occasion per session, but that we also connect with on every level. Mentally, physically, spiritually... they react how you envisioned it would happen in your mind. They are scared at first but slowly learn to trust you. They allow you to have complete and utter dominance over them and Lord do they miss you when you're gone. It's rare to find that deep connection with that perfect sub, but when it happens it is something precious and fleeting that we have to strive to hold on to. I don't know if it's because of my intuitive nature or emotional intelligence, or maybe I was in the right place at the right time, but I was lucky enough to have three beautiful, sexy, amazing subs that earned their collars and nicknames from me.
Little One was my longest sub. For almost 2 years when I first moved to Florida, I acted out and accomplished every kinky bucket list item I had with her: public sex, exhibitionism, showing her amazing body off in dungeons and fetish parties and in front of mastrubating onlookers at adult theaters. She literally did everything I wanted her to do, and I'm pretty sure she had no limits. With her was the first time I had to really exercise self-restraint so that we didn't go too far. And she NEEDED dominance. 24-7. This little minx would have been happy spending all day cleaning and cooking then kneeling in a corner until she was needed for sex and sessions. I've rarely come across her like again. She was Jewish, petite, maybe 120lbs with large fake breasts and a milky complexion. Around 24 years old. So amazing.
Sunshine was next, and my longterm collared sub when I had to move back to Texas for work for a year and a half. Sunshine's only flaw was that she moved past the normal and expected feelings of adoration and worship with me and fell for me, outside of the realm of BDSM. This is a very real danger and consequence that can happen if strict control is not maintained at all times. Sunshine was African American, voluptuous, with a gorgeous smile, very busty and a strong will to please. 26 years old and amazing. Her fashion sense was impeccable and she always took a lot of time to make herself gorgeous for me.
Then there was Ms. Yippy. I almost don't even have the words to describe this fiery, fiesty Cuban dynamo brat, who would mouth off to me one moment and as soon as I gave her "the look", would blanch, catch her breath, talk faster and immediately apologize. Highly endearing. Both Little One and Sunshine were experienced subs already, but I introduced the world to Ms. Yippy. Each session literally went further and exposed her to more things sexually for her that she never knew existed. She learned and learned and had an insatiable quest for more knowledge about the lifestyle. She would write long monologues on FetLife about me and her experiences. She experienced for the first time with me: multiple orgasms, her body's ability to squirt, pleasurable anal, double penetration, bondage, mental domination, and improved sexual stamina. I made it a goal each and every session to show her something new and overwhelm her senses to the point she would almost collapse getting out of the bed. I was very close to getting her to subspace when we had to prematurely terminate our unique relationship. She was maybe 126lbs, 27 years old, that sexy Cuban look and strived to make her body perfect for me.
I am going to talk about each of these subs individually in my next few blogs, because they're all worth it and have had the most impact on MY development and learning as a guide and sensory Dom. Oh I can't wait....
