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just a hello and some tips

just wanted to but put some tips for all new to cage and lifestyle. and maybe for a few others.
1 week ago. Tue 13 Aug 2019 06:30:50 PM IDT

Family can be anything really though it seems most think or feel that it is a "blood " thing. 

But let me state this loud and clear , my FAMILY is not a "blood " thing . My family is a spirit, sort of thing, they have been there as my "blood " has never been. I don't know any other way of saying it than that. And i am so grateful for them with ever twist and turn on this dark road that is behind me and those yet to come.











Gvgeyuso'i  Why-yah

2 weeks ago. Tue 06 Aug 2019 04:20:35 PM IDT

 just some thoughts:


Have you ever had a dream,  that you were so sure was real? What if you were unable to wake from that dream? How would you know the difference between the dream world and the real world?


 What is “real”? How do you define “real”? If you’re talking about what you can feel, what you can smell, taste and see then “real” is simply electrical signals interpreted by your brain.


We’re not here because we’re free. We’re here because we are not free. There’s no escaping reason, no denying purpose. Because as we both know, without purpose, we would not exist. lt is purpose that created us. Purpose that connects us. Purpose that pulls us. That guides us. That drives us. lt is purpose that defines. Purpose that binds us.


It is remarkable how similar the pattern of love is to the pattern of insanity.


when you stop and truely think about any of these, you will see as so many have over the space of time . 


the real questions dont really have answer we can understand and only lead to more questions:

are we actually real and really here? 

and if not here then where are we? 

if i m not real then whom or what am i?

am i a dream or something made up in ur mind ? or is it the other way around and you are the dream?

what is freedom if we have not real choice. we are what we are and where we are not matter which way we turn.


lol life is a choose your own adventure story (remember those) no matter the choice the ending is always known by the author . so is there really a choice .


2 weeks ago. Tue 06 Aug 2019 03:07:49 AM IDT

ok i am going to try and have a chat with all of you and hopefully my hamster doesn't get in the way.

I may not agree with everything / or even understand alot things, yet i believe in on going growth. So i want to share somethings that i have begun to understand and why so lets begin.


Being poly, we all think we know something about it  but can we look into a bit. 


Polyamory (from Greek πολύ poly, "many, several", and Latin amor, "love")

is the practice of, or desire for, intimate-relationships with more than one partner, with the consent of all partners involved. It has been described as "consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy".


Now i have learn and begun to see that there are different level to this also. Because there are different types of relationships. The main to types are physical and emotional, and while many of us know this . do we understand that both types can be forms of poly in some cases? meaning  only that you can be in emotional relationship with out it ever becoming physical. 

let me explain a bit i have never thought of my self as being  a poly person or in a poly relationship. so it is odd for me to say that i am poly in  "A WAY" and i have grown to understand that . I have my pack and they all know who they are and who the others are. I look to them when i'm in need of comfort ,help to understand, or even just help me slow down. now let me also state that i look to WOLF first, as it should be. And that WOLF has helped and shared knowledge with them. and they all know that WOLF and i will always be there for them, and that there is not hiding of things said between them and either one of us, between WOLF and i. we love them dearly there forth like i said in "A WAY". 


Now that that i have explained some of how i have grown. i want to also explain than to me cheating can happen in poly relationship this is where there are relationships that ARE NOT IN THE OPEN TO ALL INVOLVED. ( so with that being said outside of my pack i am not poly)


I think in a physical poly relationship it is also very important for all parties to know about each of and such. I think that if at all possibles all parties so meet or chat at least because lets say you are talking to someone ( for the sake of being on here we will say a Dom). and said Dom sayes oh yes im poly but my main sub isnt . That should be a red flag at least to me. now if the said Dom says yes we are a poly relationship so she will be ok with it or something. I suggest that you talk to that person your self, because

Although polyamory means being loved or loving multiple people, “it takes supreme trust, communication and intentional clarity,”

Maintaining open communication is integral to a polyamorous relationship so that issues do not arise.


also one of the most important things i have ever see write i think on things dealing with poly relationships is 

"Dos and don’ts for happy polyamorous relationships"  at

and with in that you will find this stated:

Do take responsibility for your actions

"If there’s any rule that’s as absolute as the law of gravity, it’s the law of unintended consequence. Your actions do and always will have consequences, even if they were not what you intended; your life is shaped by the decisions you make and the things you do. And these decisions touch your partners, and your partners’ partners, sometimes in ways you didn’t anticipate.

I have met many people who seem to feel dis-empowered in their lives. This feeling of victimization saves them from having to take responsibility for their actions; but the downside is that it dramatically curtails their ability to take control of their own lives. It can also mean that they use what power they do have carelessly.

Taking responsibility for the consequences—even the unintended consequences—of your actions is sometimes unpleasant. Considering the effects of your decisions on the people around you is sometimes a lot of work. The upside to doing this work, though, is it empowers you, and lets you shape your life the way you want while still being compassionate and responsible to the people around you."



This is so true in all relationships. so take ownership of your actions and really mean it.

i hope my hamster didnt get to much in the way. and as always these are just my thoughts on things.

Be safe


Gvgeyuso'i  Why-yah


2 weeks ago. Sun 04 Aug 2019 07:38:28 AM IDT



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2 weeks ago. Sun 04 Aug 2019 06:18:13 AM IDT


I find it interesting that ppl can be here for over a yr . and all a sudden start allowing words to flow from their lips when they never had spoken a word ( as far as i know ) untill a week ago. And now they come off as " oh listen to me... "" and at the same time they down others who have helped many .


Just my thoughts...


Oh and please stop yelling all the time


2 weeks ago. Thu 01 Aug 2019 06:11:26 AM IDT

when talking to a friend from across the pond, she taught me a new word. now i cant say for sure if its a brit term or scottish now that i think about it, seeing she is a scot that lived in england. 

 so ladies and germs i give you the word of the day:





now you are thinking wtf alawey. but listen and listen closely...


Platter is a guy that always sayes the right thing at the right time, all sugar and honey. trying hard to have you see what a great guy he is, when if you can peek behind the curtain. you will see the dangerous troll from beneath the bridge just wanting your flesh to chew on for a bit. (her words, not mine)


So i offer you a pearl of wisdom. listen closely to what is spoken from their lips it will give you some insight to the falsehoods. just sit back and listen take it all with a hugh grain of salt if need or maybe just a small grain of salt is all you will need. 


and when in doubt , seriously ask around . 1 person saying something is one thing but when you are being told things by multiple ppl you might just want to sit back and do that listen. Or you might walk away shit you might be like some and run from platters when u met them. 


Gvgeyuso'i  Why-yah


2 weeks ago. Wed 31 Jul 2019 05:42:23 PM IDT

3 weeks ago. Wed 31 Jul 2019 02:45:42 AM IDT

***Disclaimer: I know that I can come across wrong to some people sometimes, but I can honestly say that I have talked with some of those that I have. Grant it is sadly afterwards, though how am I to talk to them about it before I say something because I really don’t know what I’m going to say until it hits me and whom that will rub the wrong way. 

And my goal is not to cause issues but to give ALL of you here reading my blogs something to think about and from time to time information that can help in some way. And I know full well that I don’t have all (if any) of the answers, nor am I trying to teach anyone. I am just being me and stating my thoughts and feelings on matters, leaving it up to u to think and make up ur mind about things on your own. Although my door is always open to bounce this off of.***


So with that said be safe in your travels. And lets begin the blog today:  


Ok this is not meant to be a dig on anyone who practices MASTER/slave dynamics, as long as both parties are aware of what they are doing and why.

 But this is to show that slavery does happen in the here and now everywhere. And how easy it can be to fall into a dangerous situation, and tricks that are play to draw people in   


The practices of slavery and human trafficking are still prevalent in modern America with estimated 17,500 foreign nationals and 400,000 Americans being trafficked into and within the United States every year with 80% of those being women and children.





Stages of Trafficking: How It Happens



The Scary Tactics Human Traffickers Use




Gvgeyuso'i  Why-yah




4 weeks ago. Wed 24 Jul 2019 01:10:17 AM IDT

I sit here thinking today about a story i had heard as a child. And after doing some research on it and talking to my Wolf and a few other dear friends (thanks ladies), i think i have a good grasp on it and wanted to share what my hamster has come up with when i sit back and think of how thing have been lately. 


****Now for my disclaimer: I don't think i have the best grasp on the story nor am i trying to say that what this is a comparing to the point of 100%.  Just how my hamster works at times. And this will be my only posting on this matter***


Once upon s time there was a spiritual being who was jealous of things, and rebelled against the very person and place that allowed it to be who it was. And was casted out of the the golden city and began fall away from others there. Losing its way of good things that where within its own being becoming darker and more dangerous to be around seeing that it had thought it had the only way to be and wanted to rule over all (to become powerful). 


Now when this happened there were others that were blinded and choose to rebel also leading to their fall (the fallen angels). These fallen ones showed no more mercy towards anyone just as the their leader didn't. Yet would and do still hide behind beautiful words when trying to pull others over to that side. and to those that don't do as they want or say there are threats and evil words and actions thrown at them..


My sisters and brothers do not  be fooled by the beautiful words for they are spoken with a forked tongue, and are false promises and dreams. Do Not be afraid of the threats or evil words for they have no power over you unless you allow it.They are just the words. I have found in my travels in life to IGNORE  such things, for theses thing thrive off of the attention and chaos they create.




Gvgeyuso'i  Why-yah


1 month ago. Tue 16 Jul 2019 08:02:43 AM IDT



This will be a couple of things:

1) what i am fed up of.

2) why i am 

3) and possibly more



OK I am sorry  if this hits home for anyone. But i look at it as "if the shoe fits", well ya know 


I am so sick and tired of people bullying other for one reason or another. 

I am so sick and tired of hearing lies

I am so sick and tired of woo is me no one cares ( having pity parties just in hopes that someone falls for it 


/ˈbo͝olē/ Learn to pronounce
gerund or present participle: bullying
seek to harm, intimidate, or coerce (someone perceived as vulnerable)

here is the deal people if you dont like what some one is saying ,doing or what ever. you have two choices as i see it 

1 block and ingore

2 talk to them in a repectful manner whether u feel they deserve it or not its just good manners




Lies will haunt you all  day long. needing to remember what you told to lie leads to the next and then your lieing to cover up the first lie. so its just simple DONT LIE.

because i have said it before and i will  and ill say it again

A nd if you think well i just would say anything that way i wont have to lie.  


now you may have not actually lied but you didnt tell me the thruth so thats just as bad really.



And pity parties REALLYYYY .. am i back in grade school???? having a pity party to me is like begging poeple to pay attention to you when they arent for any number other reason









Gvgeyuso'i  Why-yah