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just a hello and some tips

just wanted to but put some tips for all new to cage and lifestyle. and maybe for a few others.
4 days ago. Jul 11, 2020, 5:57 AM

I know that we all talk about safety over and over here. But I thought I would put a bit of a twist on it . And yes there may or may not be more than one post from me on different  points. 


Now safety  :


the condition of being protected from or unlikely to cause danger, risk, or injury.
"they should leave for their own safety"

Yes we all think  we are being safe when we walk to our cars at night,lock our doors . But let me share a tad bit of knowledge  shared with me years  ago.



Now I also know that I have shared one of my favorite " dont give a fuck" outfits and yes that are all basically  the same. And yes I have my " toys" that can use as ways of protection . But please trust me I'm not as crazy as you think . I have been in some pretty wild places and have been through training ,so I know how to handle myself and my " toys"


But what are some things that the average  person  can do if they are in a position  where they may be in danger.  The best advice I can share was sent to me today as a link from a family  member  who some of you may know from old post . For those that dont he is a cop. This is what  he sent :

Everyone should take 5 minutes to read this. It may save your life or a loved one's life. In daylight hours, refresh yourself of these things to do in an emergency situation... This is for you, and for you to share with your wife, your children, & everyone you know. After reading these 9 crucial tips, forward them to someone you care about. It never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do :The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do!

2. Learned this from a tourist guide. If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse,....... DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM.
Toss it away from you... Chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse.

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy.. The driver won't see you, but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc.)... DON'T DO THIS!
The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your HEAD and tell you where to go.

If someone is in the car with a gun to your head
Instead gun the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car. Your Air Bag will save you. If the person is in the back seat they will get the worst of it.
As soon as the car crashes......BAIL OUT AND RUN!!!!
It is better than having them find your body in a remote location.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
A.) BE AWARE... look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side floor and in the back seat.
B.) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door.
Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
C.) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the passenger side.. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out.
(And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot.
This is especially true at NIGHT!)

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN!
The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; and even then,
it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!!!!
Preferably in a zig -zag pattern!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP!!!
It may get you raped or killed.
(Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked 'for help' into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next VICTIM).

9. Another Safety Point:
Someone just told me that her friend heard a crying baby on her porch the night before last and because it was late and she thought it was weird..She called the police.
The police told her 'Whatever you do, DO NOT OPEN THE DOOR!
The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had crawled near a windrow and she was worried that it would crawl to the street and get run over. The policeman said, 'We already have a unit on the way, whatever you do, do not open the door.' He told her that they think a serial killer has a baby's cry recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes thinking that someone dropped off a baby.. He said they have not verified it, but have had several calls by women saying that they hear baby's cries outside their doors when they're home alone at night.

10. Water scam!
If you wake up in the middle of the night to hear all your taps outside running or what you think is a burst pipe.....
These people turn on all your outside taps full blast so that you will go out to investigate and then attack.

Stay alert, keep safe, and look out for your neighbors!

I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know.
It may save a life.
I was going to send this to the ladies only but guys, if you love your mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, etc.... You may want to pass it onto them.

Everyone should take 3 minutes to read this and SHARE. It may save your life or a loved one's life.


Gvgeyuso'i  Why-yah

4 days ago. Jul 10, 2020, 10:06 PM

1 week ago. Jul 7, 2020, 8:53 PM


Well that is basically  how I felt today , knowing I had to go to Wally World ( Wal-mart) today. So I got into to my fuck you gear.



Of course  the only thing missing is our necklace.  Chain and clasp both broke ugghh .. still waiting  on replacement.  But for those that dont know . This is our necklace: 

So anywho back to my story ...

While sitting nicely waiting for lady with two small kids unload her cart into car. So I can grap the parking spot.  So idiot  steps on gas never looking and almost ( like really with in inches) hits a lady and another car. 

So I'm thinking I'm so glad I cleaned out my car with my mood today having to be here.


Maybe I'll just go look at new bats.. lol... can never have enough bats.


Fuck it to all hell . I'm just going to go home and nuzzle Ms. D and WOlF , and all will be good.


Gvgeyuso'i  Why-yah

1 week ago. Jul 4, 2020, 4:07 AM

Oh my it seems I ticked  someone off at work  today . 

Wait let me backtrack  for a second.  He is actually  a friend who knows a bit about LS any how i was joking around the other day and told him i was going get permission  to buy a bunny rabbit tail plug for him. So the the nick has suck even though the others dont get it . He is known as bunny now.LOL 


So back today . I said sweetly hey bunny can you do this. And he turned to me and was like "sure thing ... mmm wait .. u just called me bunny again" .. as I'm cracking up.. then goes to say "girl u better be glad a real purge doesnt happen" ( remember the movie??)

And I'm like yea wat ever .. I'll just grap my boots and bat , and run around singing and swinging...



Any who good thing we are friends. I tell him.



Gvgeyuso'i  Why-yah


1 week ago. Jul 3, 2020, 5:41 AM

Ok here is something I had noticed . We blog to share our thoughts, feeling,and what ever we want. As long as we follow RULES, which ok we know them , and we follow them. But aren't we supposed  to be trying to help others also??? 

What isn't right for one doesn't  mean that it's wrong. And wats right for some doesn't mean it's the only way. But as a sub I know as well as many here there are those that throw so many red flags .are we supposed  to sit back and allow them to work their charms of evil on others when they are new or newish. The point is that we always say to talk to others , vett them not matter of the side of the slash.  But if say I write a blog .. shit even this blog and someone takes it in their mind ohh that's about me and reports  it even though  NOT WHERE is there any names real or nick. Then my blog is suspended.  How is that right? I'm within the rules. I just dont get it at all . Can someone  explain how anyone is supposed  to vett someone or even know that there are evil in the weeds. 

Yea I know common sense  should be used when talking with ppl but I know we have all heard about sub frenzy and the like for doms. And with everything  going on I get for some the net and here is the only way they can meet ppl. Last time I checked mental health  abuse was just as bad as physical.  

And if for some reason you think this is about you. Then ( there is always music) :



Gvgeyuso'i  Why-yah 

1 week ago. Jul 3, 2020, 2:56 AM

There is a saying that music soothes the beast.  And maybe that is why there is always music  playing loudly at my house,  even if it is just in my head.  Maybe I was a beast deep within hiding yet not hiding all at the same time. Now in a way it makes perfect sense.  You see if you ask those from my life outside  the cage, I have always been the wild gypsie child ready for a fight. Dreaming of wolves, running in the still of night along the dark paths within the woods. And as I awoke they still called to me. 

So being where i am now and with whom i am with ,and have become was always meant to be .

Lover of wolfs, sub to MY WOLF, his cub, a sister wolf to pack mates, a mama wolf to some . 


THREE stages of life in one place one time.


But to I seem to have jump the track a bit. The music the music that sooths the beast. Runs the gambit in many forms








And so many more that I cant list here. But there is one the makes everything seem right and I always think of sissy for some messed up reason when it plays.



Gvgeyuso'i  Why-yah 

2 weeks ago. Jun 30, 2020, 11:28 PM

Was looking at art work today and found this one by david mann and was like WOW . My world in artwork by a great artist.  

Gvgeyuso'i  Why-yah 


2 weeks ago. Jun 28, 2020, 4:01 AM

Ok today my hamster  relieved that time doesn't fly by really, It zooms by . So we ( my hamster  and i ... lol) started thinking  of all the things that have happened,  and blessed we are for  these things :

1 . 22 years 4 months and 28 days ago

     My munchkin  was born


2. 19 years 6 months and 3 days ago

     My monkey  girl was born


3.  3 years 4 months and 25 days ago

       Got my very first message from Wolf


4. 2 years 8 months and 12 days ago

     Wolf claimed me.


5. 2 years and 1 day

     We bought our house  and moved in together 


Blessings these are . And how time has zoomed by . 


Gvgeyuso'i  Why-yah 



2 weeks ago. Jun 25, 2020, 1:16 AM



3 weeks ago. Jun 23, 2020, 5:11 AM

There are  things as subs/ slaves/ ect I know we all hate when we here/see/ feel it from our Dom/ mater/ect. 

The funny thing is for me, it's all based  on something I do. Not that it's bad ( really ) , atleast in my eyes but when he sayes into me . I just ... 


In fact he doesn't even have to sayes the words all he has to do is say " two words" and I know what he is talking about.  And I'm all " shit alawey... " and get up to fix the two words .  This is worst for me than any punishment.  The way I feel when it happens. 


So I guess this is really a blog  in 1. asking  what gets you the worst. And  2. Other than just remembering  because obviously  I cant seem to that.  How I actually  get to where I can remember. 


( ohhhh ... the two words.. shower curtain... 

I can't seem to remember  to close it after getting  out.. lol silly I know that I cant get it right . )



Gvgeyuso'i  Why-yah