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Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

I'm a owned and collared. The journey I have been on with Daddy is amazing...and only gets better! This is my daily entries of what is going on in my head and stories of all the things I’m learning with Daddy!
2 days ago. Apr 16, 2021, 5:32 AM

24-7s - When individuals in a relationship engage in some form of BDSM at all times (24 hours a day, 7 days a week).

 

Its this the same as living the life full time? My Daddy and I live the life full time. My rules are not just in the bedroom. My rules apply all day everyday. Are 24-7's the same?

 

Thoughts?

3 days ago. Apr 15, 2021, 5:11 AM

Topping From the Bottom - When a bottom tries to control a scene even though it was agreed that the top would be in charge.

 

Someone please explain this to me. I need an explanation that my brain will understand. I know that im still learning... but I can't wrap my head around this one. And also the why?

 

Please someone...

Top

5 days ago. Apr 13, 2021, 5:02 AM

Top - The person who performs the BDSM acts in a scene.

 

Are you born a top or a bottom? Or is it a choice? I'm thinking that I had a preconceived notion in me to be a bottom... but my entire life up until this point I tried to be a top. Sometimes it worked... but I was never really satisfied or fulfilled. I never even understood why until I was opened up to Daddy. Until he showed me all the things I never knew. It saddens me that I didn't know all the options out their from the get go... that was only taught one basic way. So much time wasted...

 

Thoughts?

6 days ago. Apr 12, 2021, 5:34 AM

Switch - A person who sometimes plays a top and sometimes plays a bottom in a BDSM scene.

 

This intrigues me so much. The idea of switching is really interesting to me. I want to know from those of you that are switches... which one do you enjoy more? Does it depend on who you are with? Does it depend on the scene? How do you choose what you are at that moment? Is it planned out or spur of the moment decision?  Do you switch within the same partner or does that partner need to be different? 

 

Please tell!!! Go...

1 week ago. Apr 11, 2021, 6:10 AM

Submissive - Someone who submits to a dominant person in a BDSM relationship or scene. Submissive can be shortened to sub.

 

There is so much more to this word and its meaning than what I found here. There is so much more behind it than most people would understand. I think that some that don't understand a submissive or how they are would look at then as the weaker one in a relationship. That since you are consenting to the dominance of your partner that it might make you weak. I think that a submissive is extremity strong... and has much more courage than they can even admit to themselves. Any Dom that's worth their weight would know this and respect this from their submissive... and cherish that they submitted to them.

 

Thoughts?

1 week ago. Apr 10, 2021, 5:19 AM

Slave -  A person who gives up total control of one or more parts of their life to a master.

 

Can you be a slave and a submissive? Are you one in the same? I always had the idea in my head that a submissive was a step or two above a slave. I have no idea why... but I did. Everything I read about the two doesn't show that distinction at all. I would really like to hear what everyone else think about the two...

 

Thoughts?

1 week ago. Apr 9, 2021, 4:46 AM

Scene  - The actual BDSM activities or encounters that take place are known as a scene.

 

I have never actually called our encounters a scene. I have called them sessions or play time. The word scene sounds very one act play ish...if that makes sense. I guess there might be a time where we set up a scene... but for me its been sessions. Maybe its because I feel like I'm still learning half of the time...

 

Thoughts?

1 week ago. Apr 8, 2021, 5:38 AM

Soft Limits - A limit that’s more flexible than a hard limit. It might be an act that a person is hesitant to perform but may be willing to try.  

 

Is it acceptable to be open to trying new things and then liking part of it but not all of it? It can be very confusing to feel like you want to be open to everything but when it comes down to it... maybe some it is a little much at the time... but next time is perfectly OK? 

 

Thoughts?

1 week ago. Apr 6, 2021, 4:44 AM

Safe Word - An agreed upon word or phrase that a bottom, sub, or slave can say during a scene to stop the activity or session immediately. Some common safe words are “red,” “red light,” “pineapple,” and “banana.”

 

I'm curious what safe words are out there? How do you remember your safe word if you have never had to use it... but you all of a sudden you need to use it... but you can't remember the damn word!!! How often do you have to use it? As for me...I've never had to use our word... but I have gotten close.

 

Tell me your safe word stories...

3 weeks ago. Mar 25, 2021, 9:41 PM

I look at so many blogs. Some for the interest in whatever topic. Some because I'm curious about what that particular person had to say. Some because I'm noisy and just want to see why anyone would blog about such a thing. Either way I'm becoming more curious to find out how some of these people make money doing it!

 

How in the world does a blog about lip stick become a multi million dollars business! Why can't I make millions of dollars writing about my wonderful submissive life? Or the daily view of a submissive in a vanilla world?

 

Seriously... someone help me!!

 

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