What a wonderful thing we have been blessed with... skin. The pleasures they give us are unmeasurable. From the smallest touch to the intertwining with another. From a cool breeze to a warm fire. The many ways we can use this wonderful sense...
Just take a moment and appreciate it. Be thankful for the little joys it brings you. Soak in all the sensations while your with your love..
Limits
The point beyond which a player in a BDSM game does not consent to go. Can either indicate a particular activity that someone cannot cope with or finds a turnoff, or a point reached in play at which the stimulation ceases to be enjoyable or satisfying, or becomes impossible to cope with psychologically. Obviously the limits will vary between person to person and situation to situation. Note that although limits are usually thought of in connection with bottoms, they are also applicable to tops.
Its been interesting to me in my journey thinking about and learning my limits. I have have some limits that have been learned... and some that are purely mental and can't even get myself to explore. I'm curious as to what my masters limits may or may not be... until I read this definition I hadn't even thought about his. I mean he has been the one introducing me to things to let me decide...I have no idea what his are! This is something I will have to discuss and open up more conversation about with him.
I appreciate that no matter what my limits are... my Daddy respects them. He encourages me to keep myself informed and to build my own opinion... but is always open to exploring with me.
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For those of us that are submissive...I think that those that are not in tune with this lifestyle it would appear that we might be weak. Weak is no where in my vocabulary of how I would describe myself. I personally have experienced situations that I have survived and came out the other side stronger than I could have imagined. I like the control in my work life... but want to be relieved of that in my personal life. I give that to my partner... willingly and with trust. This is in no way my release of my own power. Ultimately my power is precious and should be recognized and respected. Everything I give to my partner to control... is still under my power. To be a good submissive I believe you have to cherish and understand how powerful you are... to be a good Dom you have to recognize this and help your Sub embrace and grow their power.
Thoughts?
Leg Stretcher
Restraint designed to force the legs apart also call a spreader bar.
Tell me follow subs... how does this feel? Dom's... how is b this for you?
Do tell.... Thoughts?
Left-right Convention
A well-know visual code to indicate sexual interests whereby an accessory displayed on the left of the body indicates top or active, and on the right, bottom or passive. Used in conjunction with the hanky code to indicate more specific activities.
Wow...I never knew! What kind of accessory do people wear for this? Is it in public or just in play or group settings? Is there other secret symbols that I'm not aware of? Tell me these secrets!!
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Labret
Piercing into the mouth from just below the center of the lower lip .
I have my nose pierced. I have my ears pierced. I'm interested in having my nipple's pierced. I don't mind eyebrow piercing. I'm personally not a fan of anymore piercings on the face. I think its your prerogative to do what you want with your body... I personally just don't like it.
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Knot
The simplest way to fasten rope bondage and a skill that most BDSMers benefit from gaining some proficiency in.
What is your proficiency?
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Kneeling
Kneeling to show respect is a major part of D/s.
OK fellow sub's... tell me how kneeling makes you feel. For me... everything that honors Master is beautiful and makes me feel amazing to be his.
Thoughts?
Klismaphilia
The obtaining of sexual enjoyment from enemas.
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Irons
Various kinds of metal bondage equipment, the best known being the leg irons with two riveted steel cuffs for the ankles attached to a bar or chain. As with all metal bondage items, they have their own hazards.
Thoughts?