Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

Hafada
Piercing through the upper part of the scrotum.

OK men... is this a yes or no? What does it do for you?

Thoughts?

Golden Shower
A euphemism for a game involving piss, especially when someone is pissed over.

I know this is a thing for some... but its a hard NO for me. But I do wonder what it does for those of you that are into it? What do you like? How do you like it? What are some rules associated with this type of play?

Do tell...

Given Away
The act of giving a submissive to another Dominant to use or keep.

This one just makes me sad to even think about this. I would be completly broken if that were to happen to me. I understand for some that this is real...can you tell me how it makes you feel?

Thoughts?

Gag
A restraint put into a person's mouth to prevent speaking. Usually a ball put and held in the mouth with a leather strap.

I've had this used once. I can't say if I'm a fan or not at this point...it was for a very short time period. I'm not sure if Daddy liked it either... we haven't used it since the one time and it only stayed on briefly when we did.

I would like to hear everyone's opinion on this...

Thoughts?

Full Head Hoods
Hood used to cover a submissive's head during a scene, used for sensual deprivation.

I have been blindfolded but not a full hood cover. I'm curious to how you handle the hot breathing under that hood?? I think that will be very uncomfortable for me... 

Thoughts??

Fucking
Sex play involving repeated insertion and withdrawal of the cock in either the cunt (vaginal intercourse) or the ass hole (anal intercourse), by extension doing something similar with the cock in other orifices (for example, face fucking, a particularly intense form of fellatio) or using other objects in the cunt or ass hole with a similar motion (for example, fist fucking, finger fucking). A vanilla option that nonetheless occurs in SM play (and not necessarily with the bottom as the receptive partner). Hygiene precautions should be observed with this activity -- see safer sex. See also ass play, cunt torture, insertive toy.

I love this definition. As it uses all the words that should be used when using that term. I also think its interesting that this needed to be in the BDSM dictionary...Lol

Thoughts?

Freeplay
A form of play sometimes employed when the main interest in an SM activity is the physical sensation (see pain) or experience, where no domination or submission is involved and the partners swap roles during the scene or do things to each other simultaneously.

So this got me thinking??? Have you ever switched with your opposite? How did that work? Did both enjoy it?

Thoughts?

Force Feeding -
A variant of the techniques formerly used on hunger-striking prisoners or in hospitals where medical conditions prevent normal eating is occasionally used in heavy control SM scenes to gain control of digestion. It is possible to insert a tube from the mouth into the stomach (an orogastric tube), but a tube inserted through the nose is safer -- see nasogastric tube.

What the what??? Anyone??? Please explain this...

Thoughts?

Flogger
Multi-tailed implement designed for striking the body, similar to a cat but normally with broad, blunt tails rather than those that end in sharp knots or spikes. Using a flogger is known as flogging.

I've never had this used on me personally... so what are your thoughts out there... 

I would love to hear both sides to the discussion... the giver and the receiver...

Thoughts??

Fisting
Fist fucking, FF, handballing. Placing or attempting to place the whole hand (or even both hands) into the rectum or vagina. The hanky code for fisting is red, and the activity is sometimes described simply as 'red'. In fact the hand is only formed into a fist, if at all, once it is fully inserted, a process that requires a great deal of gentleness, care and patience. Moving the fist repeatedly in and out of the orifice is known as punch fucking; it is a dangerous advanced technique and relatively rare.Fisting is not always counted as an SM technique because it actually requires a good deal of collaboration to be successful and has its own circle of aficionados, amongst whom switching roles is often the norm.

😳... I've watched videos of this... and I can't look away... I'm mesmerized. HOW IN THE FUCK can this happen? I mean... my vagina could not handle that...I still bleed just from my masters cock at times...I could not handle a fist...

But that's just me...

Thoughts?