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The complications and triumphs of a sub living in a Dom’s world
1 month ago. Thu 31 Oct 2019 10:41:56 PM IST


1 month ago. Thu 17 Oct 2019 06:21:51 AM IDT









...most important...

A dominant’s hunger 



Mindfully add ingredients, stir-

but take your time and with effort...


end result: a mouth watering treat 😍












1 month ago. Sun 13 Oct 2019 04:22:35 AM IDT

Prepping for the Full Hunter’s Moon tomorrow..

2 months ago. Thu 10 Oct 2019 03:54:22 AM IDT

Finding a suitable connection in D/s has to be one of the most difficult types of human connection to find!


thinking of friendship connections: you connect over things you have in common, humor, interests.


family connections: made at birth (if you’re a parent), connections with your siblings and parents can be more difficult but there is the underlying bond created through shared memories and experiences.


work connections: if you are a professional, you connect through discussions of your career, common goals or venting over the bad parts of the work day.


D/s connections: This is the most intense a deep connection I have personally experienced. And it’s so difficult to find! For me, I need to find someone to stimulate me intellectually, make me laugh, make me feel safe and secure, and cum..hard. And the list goes on and on...


Dom’s and Subs currently in relationships: how did you find each other? Was the connection immediate or did it take time to build and nurture? I love hearing positive stories about this type of relationship! 

2 months ago. Sat 05 Oct 2019 05:12:05 AM IDT


so I know summer’s been over for a few weeks. Weather here has been hot and dry and the feel of summer has lingered so much longer than I can remember it doing. Today I woke up to a cool breeze, the crisp new air has been a reminder of a new beginning each time I was able to be outside. 


I love the change of seasons - especially summer to fall. I always feel a new awakening in the autumn months. The upcoming holidays (Halloween -favorite! Thanksgiving, then Christmas). Good things are on the horizon!



3 months ago. Fri 16 Aug 2019 03:23:06 AM IDT

Virgo horoscope from the 1970’s is spot on

ha ha ha

4 months ago. Tue 23 Jul 2019 11:50:31 PM IDT

SO happy to go to this concert tonight 💕💕💕



4 months ago. Mon 22 Jul 2019 03:05:21 PM IDT

what happens when the person you have recently began seeing goes out of town to enter into an Ernest Hemingway look-a-like contest (lol) and hardly messages you the entire week. 

What happens when his brother runs a social media page and takes a video of him in action hitting on women at the bar.


ha ha ha. Life. Dating in 2019. There is no label for our relationship but DANG. 

4 months ago. Thu 18 Jul 2019 08:40:23 AM IDT

empaths are the people who were placed here on earth to break the cycle of whatever brokenness you have endured. A bully perpetuates the abuse. An empath paves the new road. Let your sensitivity guide you to the path you wish you were given and lead others in that direction.

4 months ago. Thu 18 Jul 2019 08:19:31 AM IDT

There are many things about me that have always made me feel different. I have never fit exactly into one group, clique or crowd of people. I can still remember the first day of junior high school..lunch period..which table would I sit at? Obviously seems small now, but it sticks out in my memory because it is a significant part of life, the ability to conform. I remember talking with my good friend that year and pre-planning that we would be “drifters” going from lunch table to table. Ha. I have always been able to get along and be liked by all but never genuinely fit in with one.

it wasn’t that I was “defiant” to conforming or that I wanted to be offbeat, or eclectic or make a statement. I really just don’t conform.

I don’t have one specific genre of music I enjoy, I’ve never followed a denomination of Christianity, or religion. Even politics..I tend to look at the bigger picture.. We all come to our opinions or conclusions based on upbringing or experiences or nature AND nurture and the list goes on. 

There are things that energize me in life; meeting people with different perspectives, listening to people who have such great self confidence that they really just don’t care what others think, spontaneity, being around others who remind me of my youth. 

And there are things that suck the life out of me; closed-mindedness, quick judgement, the suffocating feeling that I must fit into a box that I was in no way shape or form meant to be in.