This blog is my thoughts, observations and experiences about my trip into self imposed chastity as I search for a mistress.
Firstly some background on myself, I am a novice sub with greatly varied interests (basically up for trying almost anything once).
I have recently aquired a bon4m chastity cage, which I plan to use to help me reach an anal orgasm...
My first thought upon recieving my new chasity device, was, oh my god that is heavy, and really quite bulky too...
I was, rather ironically, extremely excited to use my new chastity device, but I did spend a little time cleaning it off and making sure there were no sharp edges on my new toy (that isn't to say it looked unclean or sharp in any way, I just wanted to be careful).
It took a lot of time, patience and lube to lock myself inside (mainly due to my excitement) and I may have gotten more than a little frustrated. Eventually though, as covered in lube as my chair and I were, I was safely locked away. My first half hour were really quite uncomfortable, I kept at it though and soon enough found a reasonably comfortable position inside the cage. The next two hours were almost equally uncomfortable, but for an entirely different reason. I am uncut and therefore the head of my penis is quite sensitive, this meant that as the cage was in contact with my head I would begin to get hard, until my head touched the inner fabric of my boxers, which could be quite painful.
After I got used to these new sensations though, I began to enjoy the close heavy feeling of the cage around my penis. I was able to take more time to see how I fit inside the cage, the way the bon4m is designed my shaft is given no room to expand, however my head has a small amount of "growing" room *wink* *wink* but I am still unable to grow to full size, not even close.
On my first day using the cage I was locked for roughly 8-10 hours, I had to remove it because I had work the next day (unfortunately I have a fairly manual job and didnt want to risk it just yet), you will be happy to note, though, I didn't touch myself while out of my cage.
My second day I spent most of my time at work *yawn* I did however lock myself up when I was showering (I shower as soon as I get in from work.) I then realised that as I walked in my pj's my lock clanked against the cage (no such problem with my boxers) and I was forced to remove my lock to prevent suspicion from my fellow residents, luckily the bon4m has a threaded locking pin which keeps the device tightly shut even in the absence of a lock. I did however, lock myself up again as soon as I got into my room.
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Please don't hesitate to comment if you wish to hear more, have any suggestions, or if you are interested in becoming my mistress please message me privately.
P.p.s
I know I said I am up for almost anything, however I realised that sounds like a novice trying too hard to fit in, I do know my limits (both hard and soft) I just do not wish to discuss these in a public forum/blog etc.