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5 days ago. May 19, 2020, 5:58 PM

1 month ago. Apr 20, 2020, 5:50 AM

As you all know every dynamic is different. Every relationship works in different ways. What works for me, may not work for you and that's what makes this life extraordinary. I have been given permission to write about my dynamic and how we came to be here.
    I'm submissive, a slave, Little (I'm a Princess, daddy says so), I'm a pet. Most importantly I'm his. All his. It took a great deal for us to get here. As we didn't jump head first into it. We got to know each other in and out. We found out what makes each other tick even though I tend push those buttons sometimes. Funishments are fun...the punishments are not. We talk about every funishment and punishment after they completed. It is to ensure that I'm alright as well I get the reassurance that I did good on pleasing him. He is strict with me as I need that stability in my life. I have a schedule on what to do with my day. Even a bedtime and I have discovered that makes my life so much easier and less stressful for me. As I know schedules aren't for everyone. Not everyone needs a dom/domme as strict as mine. We are evolving everyday. We are experimenting more into pet play and I have discovered being in a kennel isn't as bad as I thought. It feels natural. I even have kitty toys, I fairly enjoy the ones with bells. I have figured out when he's not in a good mood just by how he messages me and I know when to stop being playful as I can tell he's starting to get aggravated as he knows when I'm not myself. We're just that way. I'm looking forward to the future and where we're headed. Who knows where it will leads us, as long as we're together anywhere is fine by me. We're a team. Him and I. Granted he's the captain but still a team. I wake up everyday knowing what I'm supposed to do and do it by a certain time. We're getting to the point of me asking to do basic things and I have no idea how it got there but I sure do enjoy it. Never thought I would say that...

1 month ago. Apr 6, 2020, 8:22 PM

Eric Clapton is one of my favorites 😌

2 months ago. Mar 16, 2020, 8:42 AM

It is to my understanding that DDlg is looked down upon and judged harshly by our own community. I will say this my little age is 3-5. And there are dominants out there that adore that, thank you very much!

To say someone isn’t into BDSM just because they are a little is absolutely bullshit, complete utterly bullshit (pardon my language). Some say it’s essentially pedophilia like, that it is super uncomfortable, weird, even abusive, and jus wildly problematic in general. It’s not though, first off, little space rarely forms part of a scene and even if it does for some, as long as it consensual who are we to judge. At the end of the day, we are all consenting adults. That someone has a little doesn't mean he or she is a child.

I know some people don’t like it. Some people are even rude about it. DDlg is not wrong. It’s beautiful, so beautiful. Not every Dom can be a daddy. Some Doms don’t have that caring nature but that doesn’t mean you have the right to say “are you even into BDSM?”...

Every person in this community is different, and that's part of what makes BDSM so great. If everyone was the same it would be pretty darn boring if you ask me.

Another thing I don’t particularly agree with, is that people shouldn’t say "if you don’t understand something about Submission or Dominance, you don’t deserve to be collared or even be offered one"...again, complete bullshit.

I whole heartily believe that a dominant and submissive should work side by side, learn, and grow into their journey together. The collar is sacred, yes I know. But who is anyone to tell people that those are words to live by? When you know nothing about them. When you don’t know how they see this lifestyle or the community! So no, those are your words to live by. Solely yours, and that's perfectly fine but let other's live by their own words. The world is not black and white. It’s full of color, and everyone has different colors in this life.

3 months ago. Feb 21, 2020, 4:28 AM

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4 months ago. Dec 27, 2019, 6:53 PM

When a woman loves
She, she loves for real
When a woman loves
She, she, she loves for real
She took me back
After I broke her heart
About a thousand times
She gave her life to me
With no regrets, she followed me
And she, and she, the girl, she raised me
And I'm forever indebted
And I'm forever indebted
I'm forever indebted to her 'cause
When a woman loves
She, she, she loves for real
When a woman loves
She, she, she loves for real, oh
She filled my soul
With the very touch of her hand
She really did
And she's got more, more faith in me than a beach got sand
And I'd like to tell her, I'd like to tell her
That I'm forever indebted
That I'm forever indebted
I'm forever indebted to her 'cause
When a woman loves
She, she, she loves for real, yeah, yeah
See, a woman's love, it will never die, no
Even when I'm dead and gone
I'm gonna love her from the sky
'Cause she's given me
Something that no other woman has given me
Woo-hoo, when I think about the girl, it makes me sing
When, when, when, when, when a
When a woman loves
She loves for real, oh, eh
When a woman loves, loves, loves
I'm telling you when she loves
She, she loves for real, oh, yeah
Woo-hoo
When she loves (when she loves)
When she loves (when she loves)
When she loves (when she loves)
Oh, when she loves (when she loves)
When she loves (when she loves)
When she loves (when she loves)
She (when she loves)
She (when she loves)
She (when she loves)
She loves for real
Thank you

 

5 months ago. Dec 18, 2019, 12:36 AM

Been flyin' solo for so long
Nobody's singin' the harmony
Up there just me and my shadow
No bass, no guitar, no tambourine
And I found you like a melody
You were singin' in the same key as me
We had 'em dancin' in the streets
I don't wanna be a one man band
I don't wanna be a rolling stone, alone
Puttin' miles on a run-down van
Baby, we can take our own show on the road
I'll lay down the beat, you'll carry the tune
We'll get tattoos, and we'll trash hotel rooms
Baby, take my hand
I don't wanna be a one man band
No
I wanna run down your wild dreams
And I wanna chase every high with you
Count every rip in these old jeans
We'll never learn how to sing the blues
If I'm gonna be famous
Girl, I wanna be famous with you
We got our own little groove
I don't wanna be a one man band
I don't wanna be a rolling stone, alone
Puttin' miles on a run-down van
Baby, we can take our own show on the road
I'll lay down the beat, you'll carry the tune
We'll get tattoos, and we'll trash hotel rooms
Baby, take my hand
'Cause I don't wanna be a one man band
When the spotlight goes cold, and the curtains come down
The chairs are all stacked, and there's no one around
And nobody's payin', we'll still be playin'
I don't wanna be a one man band
I don't wanna be a rolling stone, alone
Puttin' miles on a run-down van
Baby, we can take our own show on the road
I'll lay down the beat, you'll carry the tune
We'll get tattoos, and we'll trash hotel rooms
Baby, take my hand
'Cause I don't wanna be a one man band
I don't wanna be a one man band

 

It’s been in my head for days 

6 months ago. Nov 22, 2019, 11:45 PM

Is it that time already? That we sit around a table and we give thanks. I can tell you so many things I am thankful for. I’m thankful that I have met someone who loves me dearly. I’m thankful for every argument every disagreement that we ever have I’m thankful for the laughs that we share. I’m thankful that I found someone who is like a mom to me SatinDragon I’m thankful that I met you. You helped me in so many ways. You helped me understand certain things and helped me see a bigger picture. We laugh about everything. I’m thankful for my dad. I’m thankful that he’s in good health. He’s a firecracker and I’ve been told I’m just the same lol. God bless my Daddy for that. He has his hands full I guess. But my dad is everything to me we may not agree on everything. He’s strong willed. I’m thankful for my sister and my nieces and nephews. I love them so much. Even though sometimes I wanna beat her with a pillow. I’m thankful for this incredible job opportunity that I might have  And I hope I get it. I’m thankful for my daddy. I’m thankful that I met someone who knows me without me even saying a word. He is by far one of the smartest people I know. He’s opinionated, head strong, doesn’t change his mind once he makes it. I’m thankful for how he is with me. I’m thankful for the days we do movie nights. I’m thankful for everyone I met good and the bad. These people are my family. And I love them dearly. We may not always agree on everything but hey that’s normal in family.