A Brats Life Lessons and Discoveries to a Better Life

Surprise, I’m at home writing this. A nice change of scenery. A Dom who is good at punishment, is a good fit for a brat who loves getting in trouble. But what if a Dom is not good at punishment, does that mean they can’t be a good fit for a brat? Not at all, just means they are able to outsmart the brat. But oh those Doms who are both good at punishment and know how to outsmart the brat make a perfect match. A Dom who can do both is a brats best dream and worse nightmare. And yes, I am speaking the truth about my Dom. So brats don’t settle for one type of Dom, try to find your perfect Dom. The one who can punish you and also outsmart you. 

Until next time, stay bratty my friends. 

I guess work is my new blog location because it gives me the time to do it.

What is everyone’s forbidden go to caffeinated drink? Mine is a Monster Energy. My Dom HATE when I have a Monster. It makes me upset after the caffeine high ends. Do I listen very well? No. And if my Dom is reading this, ummm hi there. Hehe. Before I get in more trouble, I think I’m going to end the blog here and go hide and pray I’m not found. Lol. Wish me luck fellow brats. 

Until next time, stay bratty my friends. 

So as I’m sitting at work I’m doing some thinking. Doms if you have a brat, technicalities are a thing. You have to come up solutions for every loophole you can think of. Brats will take an inch and run a mile. So unless you are willing to play mental chess with a brat, don’t take on one. Brats are masters at mind games. Be prepared to have every loophole thought of and ran with. That’s why you always need to be careful with what you say when it comes to punishments and everything. We are constantly ready to figure out ways around orders and punishments. 

That’s all. Until next time, Stay bratty my friends. 

At work again, surprise. And I’m sitting at my desk thinking. As a brat, most Doms don’t look past that title. They hear brat and immediately draw conclusions and say they can’t deal with a brat. And to me it’s stupid. We are still a submissive. Are you saying you can’t handle a sub? Or are you saying you are too weak willed to handle being challenged? Because that’s all ghosting us brats say. Before just ghosting a sub just because she or he or they say they are brats. Get to know them. Figure out what makes them tick and submit. And don’t judge a brat based on what the media and bad brats portray us as. 

And another thing for all my fellow Brats and masochists out there. Be prepared for a Dom or Sadist to change regular punishments up on you. I found that out. Always be ready to adapt to whatever your Dom throws at you. 

Thank you for tuning into today’s blog. Might be more today but we will see. Until next time, Stay Bratty. 

I’m currently at work as I’m writing this and I just need to let loose some anger. 

I am a real person who needs breaks like anyone else. I’m not invisible. I don’t appreciate being treated like I am. I’m tucked away in a corner and basically forgotten. And it’s getting old. I’m ready to quit and find a better job. I would if I didn’t need the money but sadly I do. I’m pissed off and I want to fight the world. And the fact that I haven’t had any sleep in the past 24 hours isn’t helping. My mind just won’t shut up. That makes doing practically anything difficult. And the fact stands that I’m not alone in this problem. I want to burn the world. I’m angry and tired. 

This is just a rant. Don’t come for me. Just keep your opinions to yourself unless your dealing with the same thing. 

So this blog post is very late. Sorry to all those who follow my blog. So a little thing, I finally have some training taking place. And now, onto the blog. 

So this blog is going to be based on a true story that happened a few days prior to this post. 

I had been having flashbacks all day. And one rule of mine is to inform my Doms every time I have a flashback so they don’t turn into panic attacks. Well, I went the full day suffering in silence and guess what happened.... I had a major panic attack. Well, my Master wasn’t very happy about me not talking. My punishment, I have to relearn all the lessons I learned while in level 4 of brat school. 

And before any criticism comes out aimed at my Master, he did help me through the panic attack before punishing me for not communicating. 

You see, I reverted back to my bad bratting ways. Not communicating and just being bad and not in a fun goofy way. So instead of getting fun times with Cobra and lots of pain, I get lectured and punished. The way I am very goofy and fun loving. I like having fun talks with my Master and My Handler. But instead I get lectured an retaught what I already learned.

So the moral of my story, is always communicate no matter what. Until next time, stay bratty. 

This blog comes a few days late and on a Sunday. This blog will contain my thoughts and opinions. I will not take any hate and you will be blocked. 

As a Pansexual Trans Male, I am met with a lot of resistance from my biological family. I’ve had to block a few and I’m getting ready to cut all ties with them. Being misgendered and misnamed every phone call sets me back on the progress I have made with my Doms. Because I end up hurting and I end up getting myself in trouble and lose my Good Boy streak. The only reason I continue talking to them is for my son. I want him growing up at least knowing my side of the family. But, I have to stoop and ask myself if I want him growing up around that kind of toxicity.

Why do people have to be so closed off when it comes to Trans humans? We all bleed the same, we all hurt the same. We all have hair and skin. We are all human. Some people just were not born the right gender. And for non binary humans, they are still human. We in the LGBTQ+ community are all human. And it’s stupid that we have to defend that right and deal with the straight community and their misconceptions. 

I will not deal with any hate anymore. I’m tired of it. I will not stand by idols and let myself or anyone else get hurt by different people. Biological Family, strangers they passed on the street, or even those they call friends. I am sick of the hate. I will announce it to the world and I will start defending those who need it. I’m ready to take a stand. Message Me if any of you need to talk. I’m here for you all. 

Until tomorrow, Stay Bratty. 

So I got a nice 4 day weekend. Haha. I “forgot“ to ask on Monday and Tuesday what my daily posts were but I think they caught on and I was given this one without asking. So a little background on this topic. It will include some sensitive topics. So please don’t read if it triggers you at anytime. 

So my biological family are not good people. They mentally, physically, and emotionally abused me. They hurt me in many different ways I will not go into detail about. But they caused most of the trauma that my wonderful Master is trying to heal. They manipulated me, they groomed me, and they tried to break me down to control me. I was losing control of my own life bit by bit. 

Now my chosen family starts with my Master. The next people are my other Master And Mistress. Then we have my Pup Pack. Then we have Master’s family. And many others I chose to keep around me to help me. They have shown me what it is like to feel actual love and acceptance where my bio family hadn’t. 

I have noticed certain changes in my health and happiness since cutting out my bio family. Such changes have been I smile and joke around more often with my friends and I’m more of a good brat with my Master. I will always be a brat and have an attitude but I no longer brat to distract people from my problems. I brat because I can lol. 

Thank you for taking time out of your night or day or morning to read my blog. As a note to all fellow subs and brats, maybe mouthing off when your Dom is in a bad mood isn’t such a good idea unless you want to get in a lot of trouble. Until tomorrow, Stay Bratty. 

So, I’m sorry no post was uploaded yesterday. Quite a few things happened. Message me if you want to know or don’t.

Today Blog post is probably going to be a long one. And a lot of things will be talked about. Please bear with me to the end. If you reach the end please leave a like or comment. If you want. And on that note, let’s begin today’s post. 

So, as a Dom/Sub dynamic there are rules and punishments. And there are boundaries I can’t cross. And I respect them most of the time. Unless I feel hella bratty. Then I dance on the rules. And my life is very structured now as opposed to before I met my Master.

Some examples of rules that I have: When flashbacks happen, inform Doms about it to be properly handled safely and Bedtime is 11:00pm. I will explain the reason for each rule and how it applies to this post. 

The first example rule is because I used to think that I could handle Flashbacks without any help. I was very, very, very wrong. And the difference between my Master and my other Doms, is that he gives a crap about my mental health and he gets disappointed when I don’t tell him. There are actual consequences to not telling him. It helps my life stand by letting me drop and give up after a flashback or panic attack. 

The second example rule is Bedtime is at 11:00 pm. I used to stay up til 3:30 or 4:00 am before sleeping the day away. And doing that wasn’t helping me out any. Wasn’t looking for a job or anything to help further me or my son. I was mooching off everyone. But now that I have a steady bedtime, I’m up and I actually am looking for a job and are taking care of me and my son better. 

I have more rules but I don’t feel like sharing anymore. I used those an example. I have a structured life now thanks to the rules and my Master. None of the rules I have are restrictive in any way. They are protective sure but I have the same freedom as ever. Just have boundaries and rules to follow and obey. I can be a brat and poke and push my Master but I don’t cross the boundaries set and never will. 

If you made it to the end, thank you. No prize sorry. But let me know you made it by commenting or liking it. Until tomorrow, Stay Bratty

The above song ties into the entire blog post. Please listen to it either as you read or before or after. Hope you enjoy lovely people. 

I have spent my life being lied to by those who said they cared about me. So as I grew up, I began to believe I was being lied to all the time. And no matter what anyone said, I couldn’t believe them. 

That transferred to my relationships. All of them. I didn’t care. No one could change my mind that people were inherently liars. Cause that’s all I knew. Until I met my Master. I started out not believing that he wasn’t leaving me no matter what. And as that happened, as my mind started believing him, I started healing slowly from all the trauma. As of this day, I believe him when he says something. 

As I continue on this journey of self healing and inner peace with my Master. I realize something. The comfort I find in writing this blog and in my Master’s words, that feeling is trust and harmony inside me. I found someone to rely on, who won’t lie to me. 

I think that’s all I have to talk about today. But as a warning to fellow brats, I won’t recommend cussing at your Doms. You’ll get in a bit of trouble. Lol. But that’s a story for a later date. Until tomorrow my readers, Stay Bratty.