Questions, thoughts and general mayhem from inside my head....

I love it when my day starts out really good.  You know when everything falls into place?  You get up and get ready for a brand new day and everything seems perfect.  You're wearing your power skirt and blouse and your hair and makeup are just right and you feel strong and ready to conquer the world!  Or at least the breakfast buffet at your first conference of the day.  

Reality is when someone taps you on the shoulder and whispers in your ear "I think you're shirts on inside out". 

Yeah life's a bitch like that.  Even when we think we're prepared for battle with our armor in place, we're still vulnerable and just don't know it.  

So I had about two seconds to decide how I was going to handle my utter mortification.  Since the floor opening up and swallowing me wasn't an option, I looked her right in the eye, smiled and said "of course it is... welcome to my world"!  LOL

What is it that makes him so different?  That captured my interest so quickly?  That makes me smile when I see his text?  

For me it was the fact that I gave him so much crap when we first started talking and it only made him more interested.  It's his sexy dimples, big muscular body, blinding white teeth (had to be said) and the man makes me laugh! God does he make me laugh. But what really gets me is his voice.  He has this deep sexy voice that makes me melt.  If all of that weren't enough, he's smart, passionate, treats me with care and allows me to be who I am and doesn't care about my past.  He knows exactly who he is and has the confidence to make me trust him without hesitation.

Well damn I guess I just answered my own questions!

What about you?  What did it for you when you met your person?

Sounds so simple.  But can be the hardest thing you'll ever do. And besides what's the alternative? Bitterness? More pain? 

Letting go is the only way you can start to heal.

I was recently told that "if you don't value yourself then no one else will" 

I know that really resonated with me and is absolutely true. My question is ...do you understand the value of your submission?

As a submissive we are so quick sometimes to try and please a Dom. But it's important to keep in mind that our submission and trust must first be earned.

If you don't understand your worth then how can you expect others to?