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My Journey of Self Discover...

God gave woman intuition and femininity, use it properly..Submission is a gift to him who has earned that trust...One of the most important things in a D/s relationship is how that one Dom can make that one submissive feel so safe that she submits to him... she honors and respects him...Respect goes both ways...He is her anchor, she is his strength...These are my thought and feelings along my journey...
10 hours ago. Thu 20 Jun 2019 05:10:12 AM IDT

Bon Jovi-Bed Of Roses

 

 

Some Jackson Browne

 

Linda Ronstadt

 

The Bangles

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2 days ago. Tue 18 Jun 2019 06:48:58 AM IDT

 

4 days ago. Sun 16 Jun 2019 02:43:52 AM IDT

First of all I would like to thank my wonderful, amazing Sir, without Him, I wouldn't be as strong as I am during my storm...Thank you for your patience, kindness, clarity and sound wisdom. Thank you for pushing me ever so slightly to talk about things, I'd rather not...Thank you for being my anchor, so I don't have to feel as I'm going this alone....

Sometimes people disappoint us and unfortunately, it's often those who have known us the longest with the strongest "ties" or so we thought... Most often, I like to reflect on positives in my life and of course my amazing Sir. But, we all have times when we are hurt by others, sometimes we feel resilient and other times we feel defeated, at least for awhile, this blog is not about anyone here on the cage but about a "friend" of mine, I've known for many years...In my process of gaining my power back with the help of my Sir, I decided to create this blog....

I'm sharing my feelings for two reasons:

1.  Our Path's are not always straight, oftentimes they turn and curve and sometimes you feel your going in the wrong direction..

2. Because sharing may help someone else, even if one, to process the feelings when someone we trust, proves to be untrustworthy.

Sometimes, a song says it all

 

 

Not Ready to Make Nice
Dixie Chicks


Forgive, sounds good
Forget, I'm not sure I could
They say time heals everything
But I'm still waiting
I'm through with doubt
There's nothing left for me to figure out
I've paid a price, and I'll keep paying
I'm not ready to make nice
I'm not ready to back down
I'm still mad as hell, and I don't have time
To go 'round and 'round and 'round
It's too late to make it right
I probably wouldn't if I could
'Cause I'm mad as hell
Can't bring myself to do what it is
You think I should
I know you said
Why can't you just get over it?
It turned my whole world around
And I kinda like it
I made my bed, and I sleep like a baby
With no regrets, and I don't mind saying
It's a sad, sad story
When a mother will teach her daughter
That she ought to hate a perfect stranger
And how…
I made my bed, and I sleep like a baby
With no regrets, and I don't mind saying
It's a sad, sad story
When a mother will teach her daughter
That she ought to hate a perfect stranger
And how in the world
Can the words that I said
Send somebody so over the edge
That they'd write me a letter
Saying that I better
Shut up and sing
Or my life will be over?
I'm not ready to make nice
I'm not ready to back down
I'm still mad as hell, and I don't have time
To go 'round and 'round and 'round
It's too late to make it right
I probably wouldn't if I could
'Cause I'm mad as hell
Can't bring myself to do what it is
You think I should
I'm not ready to make nice
I'm not ready to back down
I'm still mad as hell, and I don't have time
To go 'round and 'round and 'round
It's too late to make it right
I probably wouldn't if I could
'Cause I'm mad as hell
Can't bring myself to do what it is
You think I should, what it is you think I should
Forgive, sounds good
Forget, I'm not sure I could
They say time heals everything
But I'm still waiting
Songwriters: Martha Maguire / Natalie Maines / Emily Robison / Dan Wilson
Not Ready to Make Nice lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., BMG Rights Management

 

1 week ago. Thu 13 Jun 2019 06:06:19 AM IDT

My Sir, no words, other than your my Amazing!

 

 

 

 

1 week ago. Thu 06 Jun 2019 10:04:52 PM IDT

We are all different,  yet we share similarities,  such as the lifestyle,  even within the lifestyle,  there's a range of preferences and taste.. .Our experiences,  struggles,  our journeys , even those we feel chemistry with,  those we choose to love,  bring into our lives and who we decide,  in the end to open our hearts to,  our choices and timing is as different as we are.. .. No one can say,  what is right for another,  without truly knowing that person ...Let's embrace one another's Individuality,  without judgment because it may be different from ours or we don't fully understand it.. 

 

 

 

Be blessed 💗 

2 weeks ago. Tue 04 Jun 2019 04:01:10 AM IDT

I came to the Cage, not to find anyone but myself... To be given an opportunity to grow and express myself and my submissiveness, without judgement...I am grateful for the opportunity to share my thoughts and feelings through blogs and some friends I've met along the way but most importantly, my Sir....

I have a friend, outside the Cage, who asked me, "why would you chose a Dom?"

 

 

I'm not choosing just any Dom, I'm choosing my Dom, who is a man and my Sir.. He is my rock, my missing piece of the puzzle that is my life.. He is the seasoning to my world of new possibilities, flavors and recipes yet to discover...So, to my "friend" who'll never see this blog, yes, I choose Him....

 

I'm thankful for Him, finding me, in a time in my life that I'm not only able to receive him but also willing to open my heart to Him, as he has for me...I always felt my journey was just that, mine, now I see and feel that He is very much a part of my journey and I wouldn't have it any other way! Thank you, my amazing Sir! I love you!

 

 

 

 

 

 

2 weeks ago. Sat 01 Jun 2019 10:57:56 PM IDT

To my amazing Sir,  who won't be on here until later ...I just want you to know I'm missing you and thank you for loving me,  even though some times,  (ok, often) 😇 my Halo is slightly crooked.. 

 

2 weeks ago. Sat 01 Jun 2019 02:42:22 AM IDT

3 weeks ago. Mon 27 May 2019 11:35:08 PM IDT

What is it that we want. .some men will argue that they don't know what we need,  what we want...perhaps those people have never really listened.. Or took the time to find out. ..It's really simple.. 

A woman wants a man's time,  yes we all have lives and responsibilities but even a quick text , "I miss you"  or "I'm thinking of you" means so much to us. .

A woman wants effort,  passion , honesty,  loyalty,  hearing him laugh, knowing you are the reason he smiled and Him choosing to put her as His priority. .

That's what a woman wants.. 

3 weeks ago. Sun 26 May 2019 07:56:14 PM IDT

I read this today,  thought I'd share.. 

 

Don't be impressed by money,  followers,  degrees and titles.... 

Be impressed by kindness, integrity,  humility and generosity.. 

 

Be blessed 💗