What I'm looking for specifically:
A Dom/Sadist who can hold me accountable and help me relax mentally and emotionally while I continue to work on myself and navigate my way out of the hell that my ex left me in psychologically
A protector dynamic where they hold the reigns and have the authority to make me sweat and actually push me to accomplish things (like doing the dishes lol. But also other chores and other junk I struggle with at times)
Someone who's all "pics or it didn't happen"
Someone who wants honesty and to help me strive to be my best cause I'm tired of carrying everything by myself
Someone who reminds me that it's not my job to be everything for everyone and I actually deserve time to relax without feeling guilty about it and can argue with my brain when it's complaining that I'm not doing enough, but they see the exhaustion and that I already did too much and need a break etc
Bias to Aries, Scorpio, Virgo, Libra and Aquarius
Age - 33 to 40
Preferably someone with pet / kitten experience as we typically need specialized care compared to other subs