A first time Dom.

I am very sorry that I haven't been writing in the past few days. I was having a headache that just won't go away. I would love to ask everyone a few questions. What is the most important that any Dom should do?

How do you get over the fear of asking a submissive to go on a date ?

What should every dom and submissive do for eachother?

With me being new any advice is greatly appreciated. I look forward to hearing your thoughts. Have a great weekend. 

This love is yours . Your's for the taking. This heart is yours for holding. This breath is yours for safety. This kiss is what binds it all. Because this kiss is what takes the breath and wins the heart you will hold in your hand. Because my love is only for you. 

Sorry took a few days away family emergency.. well.

I thought i would just write a little haven't had much of a chance to do anything so not much has changed. Except that I have met some good people here. This is a great place to if anything learn. What everyone is about. Because everyone is got different experiences. So it

Is a great way to think about what your about what makes you different from the person across the room, road, Street even country. Well i have to say evreveryth. Everyone is unique. So that's what I am going to say for today. Have a great night and wonderful day. 

Today i started to read a new book today. It's called spellbound it's by Sylvia Day. It's a amazing book. I definitely suggest it to everyone. I have been so busy with work today that I have not had a chance to dive into it more than the first couple of chapters. But it left me wanting to read every chance I get.

Well I also have been thinking a lot about everything. How I wish I could feel the connection between two people that just have every trust in eachother . I long for the feeling of holding someones hand as we look into each other's eyes just lost into are thoughts and emotionally connect. Then feel the endorphins slowly kick in. Knowing that we have something that nobody else does. Are love. 

That's it for today. Have a great night and enjoyable day. 

I have spent the day in reflection about the grrgr advice I have been extremely lucky to have received. I have done much reading and thinking. As I write this I'm sitting in a hot bath tub. Thinking how nice it would be to have someone with me holding each other. Not having a Care in the world . Knowing that we are together complete as a couple having trust in eachother. Feeling each other's heart beat. Having trust that no matter what happens we will always have eachother. I'm keeping short today really look forward to reading your comments. Have a great night and beautiful day. 

I took the test and here is my results. == Results from bdsmtest.org ==
97% Rigger
97% Brat tamer
92% Dominant
71% Daddy/Mommy
65% Master/Mistress
62% Voyeur
62% Ageplayer
59% Degrader
58% Exhibitionist
58% Experimentalist
49% Owner
46% Non-monogamist
43% Sadist
41% Primal (Hunter)
25% Vanilla
11% Switch

Well it is day 2. 

I have been doing a lot of reading. I think that I have been doing the right thing. I love so much how much a sub is will to give to the one they love. Also today is my birthday. I have been reaching out to people to learn and get to know. I am hoping to find someone that is willing to explain what it is like to be a submissive and what a Dom is like. I enjoy getting to know everyone. 

Well have a good day. 

Well awhile ago I found out that I have a thing for being Dominat. My failed marriage made me question everything from my reason for being happy to my sexuality . But not in finding someone of the same sex . But what I really like in the bedroom. Yes I found out by watching porn. But then I started watching mote bdsm to gagging etc. So i did what most board people do and research. I did for 2 year's researched it and realized what I missed in the bedroom. So that brought me to looking for people that are into things like this and almost gave up. It's extremely hard to find. That is what brought me to this site. I started my profile and right away found a beautiful woman with the cutest voice . We talked a little bit. Not sure if we will talk again but we will see . Till then I'm starting this blog and we will find out together.  But if you are interested please don't be afraid to message me for I don't know if we will talk again or not. 

Well I will tell more tomorrow. Have a great night and safe whippings.