While I know that BDSM and life in general has thousands if not millions of twists and turns, I’m going to give my thoughts on young men approaching an older woman. Just a little insight on how I think.
‘I love being with an older woman.’
’Older women are so exciting.’
’I don’t mind dealing with an older woman.’
’I think an older woman could teach me so much.’
Okay, so my instant response is ‘fuck off’. While this may seem harsh, those approaches make me wanna reach thru my phone and smack the living daylights outta ya.
Personally, I’m not interested in someone much younger than me. Just me and my preference.
However, if a younger man would try to think with his big head instead of his little one, he might approach an older woman in a different manner. Again, this is just me, and other women may feel differently. I’m just giving my point of view.
Maybe try this….
Try talking with the lady in question and have a conversation before adding your older woman kink. Find out what she’s like and see if she’s interested. Trust me, if you message, she’ll check out your profile. If she’s interested, and you’ve chatted a bit, then your need to be with an older woman can come to the forefront.
I'm absolutely fine with my age and love my life experiences. To me, this is a respect issue. It’s also an issue of getting to know someone before you tell them they’re old and you’re ok with it. Whoop di do da and good for you.
Thank you for reading and I’m hoping you’re having a lovely day. 😊