I knew I had anxiety but why does it rear its ugly head when there is no reason to.
Plans had to change this week and my brain automatically says oh he has found someone else to play with.
He knows my tendencies towards being anxious and sometimes he is great at calming me yet other times I think I won't say nought in case he gets fed up but then I know I should say what's on my mind. Its a constant battle
What do you buy a Dom who's dom side is secret from his family even though he is now single?
Is it appropiate to buy him a gift for Christmas?
Why do some doms think they can set a submissive limits?
They are not for you to decide. A submissive limits are there because she has decided that's what she needs.
I am all for limits to be pushed and discussed but never happy for someone to tell me what they are nor for him to decide what they are.
Starting a new trusting relationship is always time consuming. It takes work on both sides to earn that mutual trust.
I should be able to go to him and tell him I'm insecure so if I can't does that mean the relationship is not working or I don't trust him.
I'm an insecure person it turns out. I need lots of reassurances. He knows that. So question is....am I talking myself out of this or do I simply not trust him.. .yet?