Being a neurodiverse adult can just be fucking hard man!
It's more finding a partner that's patience that's the hard part.
When you have ADHD so many extra factors come into just simply having sex.
For example, myself personally can either become very overwhelmed very quickly and just can't perform the way I want to and even worse perform the way I know I can or I'll just be on the brink of orgasm and a silly thought will just pop in my head and all of a sudden I've dropped back down.
Speaking of drop, because neurodiverse people tend to lack dopamine in general and once we get that all time high we all love! It comes toppling down like Jenga bricks!
I suffer with such bad sub drop it's not even funny but I've been beyond lucky that I've had partners that are fully onboard with after care and my particular needs when it comes to it.
I personally need feeding after a scene or long fucking session, anything with sugar will do!
So yeah, if you do meet someone on the scene that admits to be neurodiverse, please be patient. We can't it and get just as mad at ourselves just as you probably are!
