It's been 65 days since my last update. Kitty and I have now been IRL for over 90 days. It's been awesome. We are perfect for each other. She truly is the perfect little for this Daddy.
We have had 2 Loki's, for those counting and this last one gets a new home tomorrow. Our Luci continues to be awesome. Not all pets workout and the two Lokis are no exception. Sometimes the personality of the dog doesn't line up with the perspective master. Loki #1 was too sick when we got him and Loki #2 is too hard headed to be a service dog.
As for my need for daily schedules, well that hasn't worked out either as I failed to include the dogs in the schedule. I am now (still) rewriting Kitty and my daily schedule to try to make it really work out for us.
As for the typical Daddy Dom and little girl activities, that's another issue. The move to the new location, the plumbing and electrical issues with the new residence, my father's health (and his total negative outlook on life) and my retirement has been a little stressful for me and this has left me with a little bit less energy than I need, but Kitty has been very good on maintaining her part of the slash. She has exceeded my wildest expectations and I have decided to celebrate her. We are going to hit the road next month and either do Valentine's Day at my favorite romantic place in Pennsylvania and/or Mardis Gras in New Orleans. She deserves it and we both could use the road trip, not to mention adding a lot more states to the road head listing.
The IRL contract is STILL under revision but now that the budget is complete and the daily schedule is solidfying, the contract should be only a little bit aways.
As for the difference between IRL and virtual dynamic living, well there is definitely a paradigm shift. Some things still remain the same but not many. She still lays out her clothes and I choose but we added that she gets to choose Daddy's clothes. She cooks all meals and I choose them. She cleans her contractual part and I do mine. We have adjusted the cleaning a little to include burning stuff in the burn barrel as well as trash dump days as the garbage guys in the country are not really a worthwhile investment but Kitty loves the burn barrel and loves to see what is burnable and how fast it burns... maybe her name should change to Firey Kitty or Pyro Kitty??? Hmmm, I will have to give that some serious thoughts. We also have removed the cactus from a about an acre of land for Luci to play in as we got tired of pulling Cactus spines out of her paws so that continues to be a new weekly maintenance for us. We also added the dog park for Luci as well as Luci's service dog training to our routines.
As for the future, well we are probably not going to remain where we are now. I have my eye on some property at the base of the mountain that places me about 45 minutes closer to our favorite BDSM club which currently we have had no opportunity to enjoy due to the distance and the dogs... plus I like the area better and the absence of cactus and abundance of well water makes it more attractive.
As for our IRL dynamic, while we certainly have had to adjust from my dream (and her's too) dynamic, I think we can make it be what we both need and want out of this relationship.
To those who seek help, we are both still available, just not as active here. We spend a lot of time just enjoying each other and smiling in each other's faces to be online a lot. If you shoot a private message to either of us, please follow protocol, we will get the message and help anyway we can. It is our hope that everyone can truly get the virtual or IRL dynamic they need and desire and we are always up to be helpful...... but please remember, before I get bashed again by someone I or Kitty try to help, our methods may not be conducive to your needs. Advice is just that. I don't sugar coat and neither does Kitty. If you want all sunshine answers and gentle guidance or help, we probably are not the right people. I don't like beating around the bush and as old guard, my opinions may not match what you may be expecting.
As always, our dynamic is not your dynamic and as such, please feel free to change the pronouns and such and do not leave negative comments. Neither of us wants negativity. It is far better to simply ignore my blog or Kitty's and find a blog that you align with.
[Storytime, for those who have missed it...]
I now have Funimation, Disney +, Netflix, VUDU, and Amazon Prime. I have the Smart TV hooked up to all of them AND the XBox AND the new 4k Player. And yet, I am sitting here staring at 75" of an off TV. Why you maybe wondering.. well the answer is obvious fir anyone that has read any of my blogs... the empty "DO NOT TOUCH" remote box.
"Kitten, have you seen the TV remote???" ... "I see.. so the dog had them?.. Really?!!! And you didn't think to take them away?" ... " No, Kitten, Daddy wasn't raising his voice.. I'm not upset.. no please don't cry" ... " I understand she needed a new toy and she seemed happy with them... But..." ... " No it's ok, Daddy can run to the electronics shop and get more ok?" ... "Is that better?" ... " Wait why do we need to take the dog?" ... " No I don't think she should help pick out the one she wants, they are for Daddy." ... " Ok, ok, we will get her ones too....."
Ah, the life of a Daddy with a kitten and a dog. Who is in charge here anyways???
Remember, any typos, wrong words, or just total nonsensical grammatical issues with this blog are being attributed to artistic licensure of the writer and even if they were not meant to occur by the writer, they were destined to occur.