Just wanted to wish all our Wonderful Cage Family a Happy and Joyous New Year.
May your good thoughts carry you through a rough time and may your bad thoughts help your playtime become so much exciting.
Big hugs from Lion, Hazel and little man.
Wishing everyone the best this year can bring ❤️
I want to share a thought I had about my perspective of the term Dominant.
I want you to think about the word Leader.
A person who leads.
A good Leader earns respect it is never commanded.
A good Leader leads by good examples.
A good Leader has knowledge and experience to lead in a productive way.
A good Leader has empathy for others.
A good Leader has patience under pressure.
A good Leader takes responsibility for their own actions or mistakes.
A good Leader let's you know their intentions.
A good Leader is not afraid to show they are Human.
My opinion is if you're going to be a Dominant, work on being a good leader.
Your Submissive should be willing to follow you not forced.
Have a wonderful day everyone 😊
Good morning our wonderful cage family, time for my long overdue update.
Sorry for the delay, ever since my mother passed away life has been speeding by like if I had a jet engine strapped to my ass.
Dealing with my father who i don't think has taken the time to properly grieve I know I haven't. Things were as they say rushed along and he's been grumpy at all the little things in life.
On a happier note, Hazel eyes has finally finished her degree, now she just needs to find a job in her field.
At the end of this month, little man will be two years old. Hard to believe that he's walking, talking gibberish and being a complete pain in the ass as a I call him Terror Tot.
Also the sweetest, most beautiful and loving little boy when he's not pissy.lol
On a different note, I catch a few blogs here and there when time permits and I would like to offer a little advice.
First off when meeting whether you're a dom meeting a sub or a sub meeting a dom please remember this.
The interaction between both people should resemble a first date. Hi how are you, what do you do for work, what are your interest. Normal things to discuss and see if you even have anything in common. Think meat eater meets vegetarian, probably not going to work well.
When I met Hazel we talked via here first about normal things, no mention of the lifestyle at all. After we did talk on the phone it was a 14 hour conversation about a lot of things, likes, dislikes, foods, jobs, music, movies until we were comfortable enough to start talking about what we liked and disliked in the lifestyle. We discussed all the things important to us in this lifestyle and we agreed on many things there were only a few things that really didn't make it a deal breaker with what I was used to.
When we did finally meet face to face the first day was kinda awkward but by day 2 it was as if we had know each other all our lives. Things just fell into place, before she left to go home.
A month later she lost her job and I just said come live here I already have a house, pay all the bills all she needed was to find a job to pay for her car payment and insurance at the time. She has a job lined up before we moved her here.
Come October we will be married six years I couldn't be happier and more proud of her, she was everything I was looking for in a partner. We have been through some rough things life has sent our way but together we are stronger.
So to end this update I will say, don't jump into anything that your not willing to take the proper amount of time to research first.
To all of our wonderful cage family I wish you all the best life has to offer, I hope you find your forever person that completes you not just in the bedroom but throughout life
Big hugs from Lion and Hazel Eyes.
Good morning our wonderful cage family. Just a short update.
The boy is growing like a weed, walking, I would say talking but it's incoherent gibberish at the moment. Climbing on things, being a typical boy.
Hazel graduates at the end of April, going to go watch her get her degree. Couldn't be more proud of her. Seems like only yesterday that we met here, so much has happened.
March 10th was my parents 62nd wedding anniversary and unfortunately was the day my mother passed away. My mother taught me how to take care of myself, taught me how to treat women as people not objects, taught me proper manners and to respect people who deserved it. Gave me my stubborn attitude but also a caring and loving heart. I will miss her dearly but will always have her with me.
Our wonderful cage family, please make the time for family, friends, the stranger you say Hi to because this life is short and you may not get a second chance to say I love you.
Much love and best wishes to you all. ❤️
Good morning our wonderful cage family, time for my long overdue update. Hazel is working and still going to school, will be graduating this summer and I couldn't be more proud of her. I so happy she's getting her degree, I missed my opportunity to complete mine while I was working and after the gunshot it was kind of pointless. I can't wait until she gets the job she's always wanted it will make her very happy. The baby is going to be 16 months at the end of the month and he's been walking for over 2 months now. Only seems like yesterday we were bringing home this just barely over 4 pound baby, time flies by way to quickly. Holidays went well, her mother was here for Christmas and new years so she got time to see her grandson. I got covid about 2 weeks ago and I'll say that the body aches at my age were not fun at all, felt like a mule kicked me in the back and my joints felt like I needed dipped in wd 40. Doing better just still kinda run down feeling but no pain thank goodness. Not much else, it's finally winter with snow and cold but we are doing well so I'm happy. Looking forward to spring, want to get the boy outside more since he's getting bigger. Going to get a trailer for my bicycle and take him on the trails by our house i think he will have a blast, want him to enjoy nature instead of being on a tablet or watching TV.
Big hugs to all our wonderful cage family, Stay, safe, happy, healthy and especially kinky.
Hello all of our cage family, good day to you all and big hugs. This last year has gone by way to quick, if time flies if you're having fun then I must be having a blast. On the 30th our little man will be a year old and last doctor's visit at about 18lbs. Hard to believe that a year ago he weighed 3.7lbs not even a bag of sugar. He has found his voice and damn I need ear plugs, also a solid 8 hours of sleep would really be nice.
Really hard to believe that on October 14th Hazel and I will be married 5 years seems like only yesterday. Hazel is doing good all things considered, jeep is back with new windows and a full cleaning. They couldn't find the guy who shot at her I doubt they ever will, I can only pray that Karma bites him in the ass really hard.
A small bit of knowledge, in this lifestyle always remember that life gets in the way sometimes and there won't be time for play. It doesn't mean that someone doesn't care or is avoiding you it means things got in the way or are too hectic. Our playtime is limited now with the baby, her work schedule and me being exhausted taking care of the boy all day. So, on that note remember to take some time when you can to enjoy a little fun and reconnect any way possible.
Have a wonderful day our beautiful friends, stay safe, happy and kinky. Love you all Lion and Hazel Eyes.
Good morning our beautiful cage family, time flies when you're having fun as the saying goes so if it's going at the speed of light are you having too much fun? New update, I turned 58 the 14th of this month, we had our son baptized in the Greek church on the 17th. Then on the 21st of this month my beautiful Hazel Eyes was shot at in a road rage incident because the idiot and I use that term lightly couldn't seem to follow the speed limit laws and was to inpatient to wait until she moved over into the other lane to get out of his way. Blew out her passenger window and driver's side window as the bullet passed through the vehicle. She is ok, has a cut on her right arm due to part the bullet fragment along with a piece of glass in her left arm which will require minor surgery to remove.
As a Master I can only protect my sub from things I can see in the here and now, how do I protect her from the stupidity that is our society running rampart because they feel their right are being violated. My personal opinion I wish every gun on this planet would disappear. I would feel safer knowing that my sub and my kids wouldn't be shot. If it came down to a knife fight, then let the games begin I love to cook and am very good with a knife.
Hazel is pretty shaken up over this and doesn't even want her vehicle back so this is something we are going to have to figure out. Why is it the victims of crime get stuck with the cost of therapy, cost of repairs, a lifetime of feeling unsafe, along with possible nightmares for however long. As her Master, Husband, and friend how do I take away the pain, the feeling of dread, the soon to be nightmares, the feeling of panic at any moment do to something out of my control.
Be safe our friends, enjoy every day like it's your last because it just may be. Take the time to make a change for the positive in this world, vote, make your voice heard, stand up against the things you fear and let know one dictate how you should live your life. Peace be with you, may God watch over you, or pray Karma gets even with your enemies. Big Hug too you all, much love.
Good day to our Cage Family, it's been a while since I've had the time to write something. At this moment the little heathen or little angle is banging into the dog bowls with his walker. Hazel is at work, and I'm left to the antics of this sweet little boy. We truly miss you all and wish you all the very best life has to offer. Little man is now 9 months old, and it only seems like yesterday we were bringing him home from a 10 week stay in Icu. My how time just seems to blast by now days. It's funny how you think about the lifestyle and then life hits you right in the private parts and the lifestyle is distant memory of the great time you used to have prior to children. All I can say is I love children served with a nice wine but seriously I would die for this kid and the smile Hazel has every day is so worth it. To everyone big giant hug, much love our cage family. I'm going to bed, I'm Exhausted.
Good afternoon our beautiful cage family, sorry it's been so long since I last posted anything but it's been a busy last year.
So when Hazel and I met I already had grown children and 2 grandchildren. Hazel always wanted a child but certain circumstances in life didn't make that happen.
So ever since we have been together we were going through ivf, then the pandemic hit and we had to wait. Finally she got a job that paid for ivf and I'm pleased to announce that as of September 30th via a c cection and 10 weeks early we are the very proud parents of a beautiful baby boy.
He's in nic u and will be for a while longer until he gets bigger and can breathe on his own.
He's doing well and is quite a fighter, got Hazels greek temperament so all is good.
I will be back on soon and answer any questions. Oh and as of October 14th we just celebrated 4 years together. Love her more than anything ❤️
Big hugs to you all and hope everyone is doing well ☺️
Good morning our beautiful cage family. I been meaning to write this for awhile, but life just seems to get in the way. Well quite a lot has happened since I last posted on here. Hazel's mother came to visit last November and stayed until January, I love them both but two Greek women in the same house is quite the shit show when their personalities clash.
Hazel doesn't work from home anymore, they changed programs on their system and it locked her out. After two weeks of them not being able to fix it, and then refusing to pay her she had enough and quit. She found a new job as a basic secretary, but about a month in quit because the girl training her wouldn't train her and said things to her she shouldn't have. She has a new job working at a large box store for home improvement, she loves what she does and has already been promoted, they want her to move up in the company which is great but it's a long drive from our house and she works a lot.
The good part of this job is they have good insurance and it's nice yet expensive. We are going through IVF and they pay for it for now anyway (if these damn religious nut jobs don't take that away next with all their judgement on womens rights). My beautiful Hazel wants a child more than anything and I'm willing to do everything to make that happen.
We're both doing good just, her working and finishing up her degree, and me taking care of are 5 fur babies, Yes I said 5! We had my dog already, got the great dane, Hazel decided she needed another, and got us a terrier pit mix named Axel which we call asshole Axel. My youngest cat passed away in June and I wasn't going to get anymore cats, my Hazel had other plans we now have a kitten she got from a co-worker. I will say she is a sweet little kitty, but just like my Hazel she has an attitude. So we have an 8 year old shepard pit mix, a 2 year old great dane lab mix, the terrier pit mix he's 10 months, my old garfield cat he's 14 years, and the new tiger striped hell cat, she's 8 months. Welcome to my household, I'm the master and the domestic god of cooking, cleaning, laundry, and fur kid dad.
We actually discused moving to Greece, because of the shit show this country has become. We were looking at part of the country where Hazel's family is from (Sparta, yes she is Spartan , hence why I am scared some of the time).
I have great respect for our neighbor state they just voted to keep abortion rights for women and I couldn't be happier. But, I'm also sad that the state I live in has some of the most restrictive laws against it. We don't even get to vote on the issue, just shut up and live with it. I would hate to hear those words if I were a submissive and had my state as a dominate oh wait I am hearing it.
I'm turning 56 Sunday and I can say I have never seen such division in our country, oh don't get me wrong I have seen my share of racism. I have been called a "N" lover, because my best friend is black (Hazel actualy found him, and we are back in contact again). I've seen the way women are viewed as nothing but sex objects, only good to breed and fix dinner, take care of kids, nothing but second behind a man. But, damn what's next? Take away voting rights, can't work a job, don't speak unless spoken too, sit and look pretty my dear.
I was raised by my mother to respect all women. My Hazel has the most highest respect I can give her for not what she has been through, but the fight she has to put up just with the assholes out there. Comments from men and women just because she is a woman, they dare wouldn't say these things if she were a man.
To all the people on this site and all of our cage family I say this:
Stand up for the person standing next to you, the man that has no voice, the women that has no voice, the human being next to you that has no voice. Keep in mind that we our all humans and all GODS children if you believe. Please don't judge the human next to you or you may find yourself being judged by the human standing next to you for what you thought was right.
I'm human so I can't promise how soon I will be back with life going like a tornado on a rollercoaster in a hurricane drinking burboun. But, I can say we love you all and hope and wish only the best for you and your family.
Love Lion and my beautiful Hazel