Master and the Sub

So as to a blog awhile back, my youngest child will be moving in soon. So for the last 6 months we wanted to get some things done around here, but do to just got last year's tax refund about 3 weeks ago, the weather, life in general, we are just starting now. 

I got rid of a lot of stuff before Hazel got here, but she has added her stuff, we have bought some new things so it started adding up. As I got older I have become more of a minimalist, less stuff to move if we want to. 

So yesterday the dumpster arrived, 14 foot long, 7 foot wide and 5 foot deep. As I'm headed off to bed I inform Hazel to enjoy her day off I will take care of some stuff when I get up.

Now I didn't get to bed until noon about 2pm I'm awakened by our horse barking in the living room, I get up, go to the living room to find she's barking at Hazel throwing stuff in the dumpster. 

Put the horse in the bedroom, back to sleep. 4 pm sound of horse barking in backyard, how did she get out, where and what is Hazel doing. I go to the backdoor, look out to see Hazel talking with the neighbors, dog barking, all I want is sleep.

So I take a seat at the table, light a cigarette and wait for her. She comes in the door ask me why I was up, take one guess as I eye fucked her dog. Apologies made, I said didn't I tell you that I would take care of this stuff.

Her answer was it's a lovely day and she wanted to help, understand that since she works a lot and with school she doesn't have time to help me with stuff around the house. I don't mind it's my job since I have no outside employment. She is to do her school work and her job, all I have ever ask of her. Well besides the stuff required for our lifestyle. 

I can't stress how much I appreciate this woman, my last 2 ex wives did not help much even when they had time. Hazel's always saying she doesn't do enough, I beg to differ. 

So in her day off this is what she did. Cleaned up a bunch of wood from a branch that fell during a storm, picked up all the sticks in the yard, got rid of some old boards and lumber that the trash company wouldn't take. Cleaned out all of the flower beds, applying new soil and mulch. Started planting new flowers and herbs, raked all the leaves away from the fence all while I slept. 

Now before you start calling me a slave driver, in my defense when I got up and after dinner I did do my part. I removed 2 old wooden desk from the basement, a small secretary desk, other miscellaneous furniture, boxes of junk left by my first wife that I missed. Took down an old work bench, cleaned the cat box, vacuumed the house, swept the back patio and tucked my beautiful lioness into bed. 

Today will be another day filled with removing more stuff and getting things done before my child get here.  

I truly can't imagine my life without her, she may think she doesn't do enough but it's the little things she does that our world changing for me.

To you my beautiful lioness, thank you for all the things you do for me. I will make sure you have some kind of bbq on your next day off, grill is needing to be used.

Update, we got a ring pro 2 doorbell, this thing is amazing, she also got the alarm system, will be here Saturday. We got an ecobee thermostat awhile back, I'm starting to get out of the dark ages with all the new technology. 

Big hug to you all, hope you have a wonderful day. Going to bed soon, lots of things to throw in the dumpster. If I disappear from here Hazel has probably thrown me into the dumpster. ?

So I wanted to let you all know what kind of conversations Hazel and I have or things that come out of her mouth most of the time. 

When Hazel first got here, she was doing the laundry and dyed my white socks a lovely shade of light blue. Not quite a baby blue but a blue neither the less, she felt bad about it. I assured her that it wasn't a big deal because they would be hidden by my jeans. 

So one day while out shopping we were having a conversation and I mentioned that she had dyed my socks blue. Hazel looks at me and says well I can color them yellow or brown if you like. I have never mentioned it again. 

Last Thanksgiving we had just her mother, my parents and  my daughter here for dinner. We had to do it the day after because Hazel had to work. I do all the cooking, so as Hazel is setting the table I was carving the Turkey. I sliced of just one of the Turkey breast and put it on a plate. 

My father is sitting next to Hazel I put the plate down by them. My father looks and says thats a big breast, Hazel grabs her left breast and holds it and says yes but not as big as mine. Needless to say my father was left speechless. 

My father and I were on the phone one day and the subject of how we liked our steaks came up. My father says medium well, I replied yes a little pink in the middle. Hazel says well I'm not a lesbian I don't like pink in the middle, once again my father is speechless. 

The other night I'm, let me say trying to clean the cat box but Hazel is trying to poke me in the butt. She thinks this is funny, now remember we just got the new toy. I turned around and said if you don't quit I'm going to attach your toy and poke you in the ass with my toy. She literally picked me up and carried me to the bedroom. 

Next night Hazel wants to go to the store. While I'm putting on my shoes she says you never let me drive when we go out. I replied, well you're still learning your way around here, she says but I know my way to the store, fine you drive. 

On the way to the store, it's nothing but her yelling at all the other drivers. Get the fuck out of the way, use a fucking turn signal, push the fucking gas pedal stupid. I said to her this is why you don't drive. 

Now while we're checking out, I get a whiff of what I can say is someone needs to take a shit because that fart was a clear sign of a turd yielding right of way. We are leaving the store and I asked her was that you? She says if it was me I would have told everyone and been proud of it. 

So my friends this is just a few of the many things that my beautiful lioness has said in the almost two years since we met. I can't imagine having a day go by without hearing the shit she says, she can make my father blush and that's a feat of itself. 

Have a wonderful Sunday, may the sun shine brightly on you. Big hug from Lion and Hazel

I want to first start off with something that happened Monday.

I had a doctor's appointment early morning for a checkup, for those that don't know I'm a vampire.  Most of you have seen me on in the wee hours of the morning so I like to sleep during the day. 

Needless to say I didn't have much sleep come the doctors appointment and my poor Hazel isn't quite awake having not finished her coffee. 

We come to the point in the exam he needs to check my testicles, so I having no modesty, stand up and start pulling down my pants and underwear. He says do you want me to close the curtain, I replied nope she's seen them plenty of times. 

So he pulls up a stool, sits down and starts looking over the boys. After he's finished, he leaves the room so I can get dressed. I turn to Hazel and said were you jealous watching him play with my balls. She doesn't miss a beat and replied nope I was going to tell him "bitch get on your knees and do it the right way ". I so love this woman. 

Now my father on Monday had eye surgery, so later that evening I call to see how he was doing. He replied he was doing good, I then said you do know we both got our balls played with today. He just laughed. 

Now for the review, after seeing a lovely friend Cressida Clytie new toy and hear not only her bragging about it but others here I got curious. So I brought it up to Hazel, she looked it up, while looking at the lush 3 and all of it's glorious she spotted the Ferri. 

It's the panties version with a magnetic clip to hold it in place. She preferred this for outside the house fun and bike riding. She sent me the link and a buying I did.

So Wednesday morning comes and I decide being hump day and she's got the day off why not wake her up in a very good way. Needless to say it was a wet and wild Wednesday morning. 

Now fast forward to dinner time and there's a package on the table, I ask what did you order? You see we've had multiple things being delivered lately, new knives for me, foot bath for her, new tires for the lawnmower, I couldn't think of anything that was going to be delivered. 

She looks at me and says I think it's the new toy, I never got an email saying it had been shipped but low and behold it was here. So after dinner, some errands being done it was time for a test drive. 

She got it cleaned, put in place, I got the app installed, toy connected with my phone, let the fun begin. I first hit the set mode of vibrations, she squirms in the chair, I see it has a make your own pattern feature, turn it up to high. This is where I'm informed that if I want to keep playing with this we have to go to the bedroom. 

Hazel heads to the bedroom, I fix myself a cocktail, put the dogs to bed and join her. She positions herself in bed, I sit in my chair, open the app and begin what I think is giving her a good time. 

After a few minutes she says are you going to start? Hell I thought I was, swore I heard her moan, nope dumbass forget to reconnect the toy. Ok, toy connected lets try this again, I used the make your own pattern function, you can control speed and variation and loop it to repeat a particular pattern. 

After some time, quite a bit of moaning, hearing the words get your ass over here to finish what you started. I can only say I give this product a 5 star rating, two thumbs up, my deepest thanks to the inventors, thanks to the delivery guy or woman for getting it here in only 3 days. 

In conclusion I can honestly say this is going to be a whole lot of enjoyment, I will no doubt have to change the sheets more often but all in all very well worth it. 

Big hug and much love for all, I hope you have a wonderful day. ??

Had to share this one. How my beautiful Hazel's mind works. 

She's at work the other day and one of the other employees spilled a bunch of water all over the floor. My Hazel grabs the mop and bucket and walks up to them going wap wap wap got a mop and bucket. 

Her other co workers and a few customers just started laughing. I absolutely love this woman's twisted sense of humor. 

For anyone unfamiliar with the wap, go watch Cardi b Wap.

Hope everyone has a great holiday weekend, my Hazel is Greek so we're going to wait for her Easter. Think half priced candy and ham, I don't mind waiting. 

Big hug to all. ?❤

Good morning my lovely kinky family, today's mental word spillage comes from reading way and I mean way to many blogs it seems about the same subject. 

Let talk about the perverted elephant in the cage. The so called instant doms, fake ass douche bags, posers, wana bes. This tiny little percentage is causing a disruption to the dynamic force that so many here have worked hard at trying to make a place of community and connection. 

So I propose some thoughts for you on how to deal with, weed out, dismiss, say fuck off to these creatures of uneducated living. 

First off, submissive's by show of hands, raised coffee cups, ask yourself this important question. Who as the power?

Stop, take a minute to look down at those beautiful breast, them big o titties, those personal flotation devices. Look further down at that lovely pussy, that flower of power, that box of pleasure, those lips of love.

Now for the male submissive's I didn't forget you, take a look at that lovely meat pop, flag pole of pleasure, sausage of satisfaction, 

Now yell it loudly I am the one with the power, I'm the one in control of my choices and decisions, without me a dominant is nothing but a lonely, powerless person until I surrender my power to them. 

Now, a few things about online encounters.Think about if you were out in the real world and this lifestyle was not hidden. Would you put up with rude, disrespectful comments, hey baby want to see my penis, cheesy one liners, I must be in heaven because you're an angel. No different here, there should be some set standards for how you require first contact.

Time management, I understand were all busy but if your prospective new dominant doesn't seem to have the time for you then why are they here in the first place. If you joined here for the purpose of finding a submissive or dominant than you should be making the effort and time to do just that. 

Contact then nothing, sorry to say but either they weren't truly interested or their playing the field trying to find someone better, you may be just the settled upon one after they stuck out with everyone else. No explanation, no answer, time to cut your line and row back to shore, fishing sucks today. 

Investment, put as much research into this as you would buying stock, ask questions about everything, ask more questions, write things down, keep track of all communications for fact checking. If you're going to invest your time then make sure it's worth the return. 

Truth, to all, tell the fucking truth, not just on some things, on everything. Good, bad, ugly, this way nothing is ever miss represented. You have the most power when you tell the truth, because no one can catch you in a lie.

Final thoughts, for all the new comers, education is a wonderful thing. If you don't know ask, seek out information, talk with not just one person but many to get a better perspective of this lifestyle and this site.

If it seems to good to be true it's probably bullshit. Listen to those who have been through the bs and give sound advice. Oh and quit thinking my magical dominant or submissive is going to show up as soon as I join. It's a fluke, it happens but on rare occasions, there are some here that have that.

Relax, find yourself, love yourself, learn to live with only yourself, then when you have gotten to the point of being happy by yourself, then start your journey to find that special person who makes you happier. 

I leave you with a short update, Hazel starts a new job soon, she's still busting her ass with school. The fur kids are doing well, life is going well, just busy with projects around the house. 

Much love for you all, remember it's titty Tuesday, so squeeze them if you got them. If not then I suggest Google a pair for today. 

                                                                                 Lion and Hazel 

Now let's start with a show of hands how many here would agree that good old fashioned Christians could be in this lifestyle?

I would say that there's a mix of yes and no out there, not surprising considering that the what I call way to extreme Christians would criticize our lifestyle while the others probably practice it in private. 

Let's talk about submissive's, seems kinda like a new concept for some but it's been around since humans have been. Take a Google minute and type in submissive in the bible, quite a long list of passages telling women and men to be submissive, to God, husbands, to slave owners.

I believe that you can have a wonderful functioning life in BDSM along with your religion, nothing has really changed, except maybe the sex is just a little more interesting. ?? Lets be honest here women have been submissive to men for centuries, the only difference between vanilla life and here is that we seem to cherish our submissive's a little more than in the vanilla world. 

How can you say that you ask, take this into consideration. In the vanilla world relationship, men court a woman, men ask to marry said woman, they get married. Now she either stays home and has kids, takes care of the house, she is a submissive to her husband. She has a job, still, takes care of the kids,house, her husband, more responsibility but still a submissive. Sex may contain some extra things but not to extreme. 

Now in this lifestyle, we take a little more time to properly vet our future submissive or dominant, remember we're letting them have our deepest dark secrets and total control of our trust. In a vanilla relationship how many years if at all are your darkest fantasies told to your significant other? Maybe they are and maybe not because one may not share your desire to slap an ass or be slapped on the ass.

In this lifestyle, we take proper care of our submissive's, not just wipe our cocks on the curtains and head to the fridge for a beer afterwards. We are more concerned about our submissive's health and emotional wellbeing because they have entrusted us with every fiber of themselves. We all see the divorce rate in the real world, I can say that from what I have seen I doubt that after spending so much time investing in a submissive or dominant you're just going to throw it away for the first submissive or dominant to walk by. Lot of time wasted, with having to start all over again. 

Submissive has been around for a long time, what has changed is the dynamic of how it's done. Vanilla lifestyle is changing in my opinion, out with the old in with something a little different. But to the ultra religious it will always be vanilla, because it takes an open mind to change the way you see yourself and things in life. 

Now I want to bring up polyamorous relationships, wait, what, yes it's not my life but I want you all that think about something before passing judgment on it. Think about this, it's been around longer than you, it's in the bible, be fruitful and multiple, can you all say Harem. Read in the bible about the many wives they had, look it up on Google about all the different cultures that had harems, quite a lot. 

Now let me ask you this question is it possible to love more than one person? I truly believe it is, if it wasn't then all the mormons would be wrong, all the polyamorous families would be wrong. They seem to have found something that works, me personally I can't do it.

Not that the idea of having 2 submissive's to enjoy is a really wonderful thing, it's the fact I can only handle one extremely strong, independent, woman and she scares the shit out of me. Imagine 2 of them in the same house and they both get pissed at you, not sleeping for fear of what they can do to you is needless to say terrifying. So to all the dominants that have more than one submissive I salute you, but remember the guy who had a harem, now he is either one tough son of a bitch or just fucking nuts I'll let you decide that one. 

One last thing, sex before marriage, being from a religious family I will say I totally understand why you wouldn't do it. Ever since you were a child it's been drilled into your head that your body is for the person you love and marry. Save your virginity for that one special person, to this I say bullshit. 

Let me explain, so you wait for mister right or misses right, you get married with the most amazing, beautiful wedding. Then comes the honeymoon, mood is right, all systems are go and it's fucking boring or disappointing. So now you're going to spend the rest of your life with total unsatisfactory sex, oh life is wonderful outside the bedroom but even after many years of marriage you're still unsatisfied in the bedroom. Next step will result in either cheating or divorce, why because you bought a car without the test drive. 

My mother and I had a long conversation about this one day, I explained that to have a wonderful marriage things need to work both in and out of the bedroom. I test drove both of my past wives and my beautiful lioness, because if you or them are not totally satisfied then whats the point of the relationship. 

Be honest, how many of you would be in this lifestyle if your needs and wants weren't being fulfilled? I can honestly say that if there was no spark in the bedroom it would have been a dead end before it ever got started with my beautiful lioness. My opinion is a match in both the bedroom and life will be more satisfying than just a match on one side. 

To anyone who waits until marriage I commend you on having patience, trust and faith that it will be a wonderful, perfect life, me I dont have that kind of patience, trust, or faith in humans without some kind of evaluation. 

In conclusion, can you be religious and be in the lifestyle, absolutely, holding strong to your beliefs is essential to who you are, finding someone that shares your beliefs is priceless. Believing in something that makes you a better person as a whole is a wonderful thing, believing in something that makes you judgmental and hateful because it has a label, not so much. 

To all I wish you a wonderful day, my lioness and I are having a date night on one of the few days she has off, so I need to get my happy ass to bed soon. Big hug to all, much love from Lion and Hazel. ?❤

Good Sunday morning, prayers be with you on this wonderful day, lots of prayers for you if you're going to be doing exactly what I think you'll be doing. 

Insane thoughts about life lately, if I thought normally I couldn't stand to leave my padded room. 

So between Hazel working 6 days a week, doing her homework nightly it's left little time for our get togethers as I like to call them. So it's almost come down to a scheduling agreement, ok what day is good for you, no can't got an appointment, how about this day, sorry but we have that thing, well shit. 

Two days over the last week we've got to go to dinner together, both times we got home and the food coma hit. Good quality time sleeping together, but just sleep, no clean up on that side or both sides of the bed kinda day.

We bought a new mattress and box springs the other day, wow that was an investment 1500 dollars. Still breaking it in and not in the way we would prefer, still trying to get a good night's sleep. 

On another note, our lovely puppy horse as had a wonderful bout with diarrhea, needless to say we been cleaning that up in the house. Holy shit, talk about wanting to sniff a skunks ass just to smell something better. 

Grass what a wonderful thing to walk barefoot in, not going to happen anytime soon in my backyard. Oh my gosh I have never seen a supposedly dog tear up a yard like she did. Dug holes one was 2 foot wide and 2 foot deep many smaller one throughout the yard. Got what looks like a horse track around the tree, nothing but mud.

So my list of things to do when the weather gets nice, find lots of dirt, sod, and someone else to fix what's left of the yard, I'm going on a long long road trip. 

Oh, we got 1 gig internet now, Hazel kept getting booted off while doing her exams for class. I will say it's also nice while playing Diablo, now to get my new motherboard and processor put together tonight. 

That's all for now.

Hope everyone is doing well, big hug for all. ?❤

The definition says: having no real value or use.

Ok, I'd like to argue that this word should be removed from all languages. Why you ask? 

Well let's start with the obvious, everything has a value or use. 

People have value, oh but what about the comatose person laying in a hospital bed. Well there's the research going on to find out why, the test of brain responses, maybe new drugs that may revive or prevent a coma. So there's value in education and knowledge. 

Let's talk about even shit, shit has great value, have you priced shit for fertilizer not cheap at all. So many uses for shit, growing plants, leaving on doorsteps ablaze, watching someone step in it, a very useful byproduct. 

Thinking about the people in Texas during the winter blast, even something like trash to burn would have been useful and have value for those who possessed it. All things have a value or use depending upon the situation or circumstances. 

So now I have this, why do we as humans think we're worthless? Ask yourself how many times did you think you were worthless or were told by someone you were worthless. Did you believe it, come to the conclusion that you were worthless, by what measures did you use to determine that you were worthless?

Did you take a poll of the population and determine it, is there a specific machine that can determine ones value and use. Nope, you listened to another human being estimate your value and use based on their own needs. 

We all have value and use, may not be seen by particular individuals but can be seen by many people. So when someone says you're worthless reply back no I'm just more than you can afford. 

I've had these thoughts in the past but I know what my value and use is, I have many skills and talents that determine how much I believe I'm worth and it's quite high. So I say, acknowledge your value, know your use and never let anyone try and talk you down lower than your own worth. 

Remember even in death we are of value and use, our body used for another person in need of organs so they may have life or value of quality of life. If buried naturally, then we may fertilizer the ground in which life may grow and beauty of nature graces others after we are long gone. 

Wishing everyone a wonderful day. Lion?

The old saying goes opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. I disagree. 

Opinion Noun: A view or judgment formed about something, not necessarily based on fact or knowledge. 

So how can you have an opinion about something you have never experienced, know nothing about, or base your opinion on hearsay or someone else's opinion. 

I want to start by saying this blog is going to be light hearted, some will have an opinion, some will take it as my own thought process. Anyway I hope you enjoy and it makes you think. 

Now my personal thought is an opinion is just taste of what you like, enjoy, or have experienced. Take the mona lisa, many people have said in their opinion it's the most amazing painting, millions of people go to see her every year. 

My personal opinion, it's a sad looking woman who probably could have used to be introduced into bdsm, that might have put a smile on her face and made her bloomers a little wet.

Picture your sitting in your highchair, your mother with a jar of Gerbers baby food in hand, putting that first spoonful of bland strained peas in your mouth. Was it your opinion or your taste buds that made you either spit them out or let it run down your lip landing  on your cute teddy bear bib. Giving your mother the insight that in her opinion you preferred the apple sauce a whole lot more. 

Taste, preference, experience, or some kind of influence, maybe genetic predisposition has made you form some kind of opinion. 

Had a guy I used to work with say he didn't eat pussy, now the opinion of us in the shop thought he was nuts. It was our opinion that you'd have to be crazy not to enjoy the trip down south. 

But thinking about it now, maybe he had a bad taste about it. Maybe it was a hot summer day, maybe the flower was a little more fragrant than if it had just been washed and kept in a cool dry place. 

Anal sex, how can you say I would never do that if you've never experienced it. Did someone skip from rookie to expert with the butt plugs, go from finger to fist on the first go round. I get it you had a experience that you formed an opinion on. 

So what if you have never done it,  what are you basing your opinion on? Religious beliefs, hearsay about one person's bad experience without hearing the many who enjoy it. The old saying, try it you may like it comes to mind. 

Taste, preference play a large part in what we like, dislike in this world and this lifestyle. An opinion of someone else's likes, dislikes, preferences or tastes without having indulged into said likes, dislikes, preferences or tastes seems kinda pointless to me. 

My lioness has never tasted mushrooms but has the opinion that they are disgusting and will never ever try them. Why I don't know, but she doesn't judge me for enjoying them. So before you share your opinions with someone maybe you should live the experience first before casting your light on said subject. 

In conclusion I asked you, why do you like the color blue, think chocolate chip cookies are so great, enjoy the sting of the crop on your ass, love eating pussy or sucking a cock? Is it your taste, preference, like, or experience with them that you enjoy or is it just your opinion. 

Live life, have experiences, develop your taste, find your likes and your dislikes before casting your opinion without facts or knowledge this lifestyle doesn't need more critics. 

Stay strong and positive my friends, it's a shit storm out there and I'm running low on toilet paper. Big hug to all ??

The age of my grandmother who died yesterday. 

Please don't feel bad for me, I don't have any feelings for this woman. Sounds kinda heartless but I have many reasons for not feeling bad. How do you feel sad about someone who always kept you at a distance? Conversations with strangers would yield more emotion than a conversation with her. The way she treated my mother was not forgivable or forgettable, not a way to treat a child that loved you unquestionably. 

I do feel sadness for my mother for the time she wasted all those years try to get closer to someone who kept her at a distance. Blamed her for mistakes she made herself, accused her of things she never did. The responsibilities that no child should have ever felt. 

So I say this, children see, they remember, they will in time understand what goodness was given, and what pain was inflicted so one day feel either sadness of your passing or nothing at all. 

Keep your loved ones close, letting them know how much you truly do love and care for them, because someday it will be to late to fix what we had 97 years to do but didn't. 

If only I live that long, Dont piss off a Greek woman. ?

Big hug to everyone, may God bless and watch over you. Lion