Dominant women/ submissive men

What kind of dynamic are you looking for? Some people in this lifestyle can be inflexible. I think what attracts me most is the ability to choose my own direction. Of course other people's viewpoints are invaluable. Ultimately I can only consent to what feels right for me. And finding someone with similar tastes is extraordinary! The best part of the lifestyle is truly connecting and experiencing a profound love on many different levels. It takes alot to surrender and control. I'm not sure there is a "right" way to do it. Patience, compassion and joy are key.

It's said that submissives are not weak. But I am weak. I am a slave to myself. It is so much easier to relinquish control to you, give away my will to you than attempt to orchestrate the show. I bow to your idealized excellence and superior sexuality. If left in my own hands I will botch it up.
Everything I say is wrong. Everything I do comes to nothing, everything I touch turns to shit, everything I think always goes miserably wrong. All I know is that I am consumed by this craving, I am utterly at your mercy. I want to be forgiven. I need your attention. I beg you to free me, to liberate me from myself. By surrendering I will find victory.

I'm really only interested in women who can appreciate my submission. Which is why I am so happy to know you. You seem to "get" it, understand that I am no longer a man like I was before. I'm actually almost incapable of giving intercourse anymore. I could never be satisfied in that way. I only want to cum internally by being penetrated either with a strapon dildo, hand-held or digitally. I only want to experience erotic love as a recipient. I've changed. I like being the vessel. And more than just the act of role reversed copulation I want the emotional aspect of being someone's slut. I crave the profound realization that I am a hole to be fucked and my mind needs to be consumed by someone who can reciprocate those feelings, someone who can Dominate me sexually, a woman who has realized her own evolution.
Furthermore, I am an inverterate cock sucker(technically a clit sucker), an enthusiastic and devoted cunnilinguist. I love to have my face buried in your wet femininity and feel the extent of your vulva on my lips and tongue. I identify with a woman's sex. I am captivated by your vagina, labia, clitoris, everything!!! My one desire is to lick you until your orgasms wash over me like waves.

 I've always been somewhat submissive. But being pegged really intensifies the feeling. When I'm with guys they always talk about their exploits pounding women into submission. They explain how their partners become simpering sluts by their manly prowess. And I'm thinking in the back of my mind how much I want to be the recipient of that. Not with them or even a man, but I feel empathy for the women they think they are conquering. I firmly believe that females are the superior sexual beasts and I want to relinquish to their power. I want to be your hole for fucking. I want to slurp at your dripping quim. I want to be overcome by the power of a woman who knows the dynamic energy she possesses.!!!!!!!

Is it possible to find a woman who truly enjoys and acquires power by penetrating a man? I am thrilled by the feeling of being overcome by a woman's dominance.

"To love a submissive is to feast upon his form, appreciate his strength, cherish his mind, recognize his pain, understand his fears, admire his will, and treasure hid submission."

"The truly submissive boy does not hide, "this is who I am" he says. "Take me." It's not only his body that he makes available, he invites total intimacy. In doing so, he inevitably makes himself vulnerable. In letting you reach right inside of him, into the quivering core of his being, he runs the risk of being harmed. You can do damage if you aren't careful, but he trusts you enough to run these risks.

I think you need to practice fucking a man, either with a strapon or hand-held. You need to be able to make him cum by massaging his prostate. You can use your fingers too. When you have perfected this then you can deny him penis induced orgasms. You can assure him that the only way he can ever cum is by you fucking him. He will be your bitch forever. You can cage up his cock and throw away the key! He will only be a horny butt slut at your command. This will be the only sex he will ever know. He will always be in the submissive role, begging to be buggered by you so that he can cum in the only way he is allowed. And of course you can always deny him the completion of orgasm. You can work him up into a seething sexual mess and then just walk away. But he will never leave you because this is the closest to sexual fulfillment he will ever know. And you can share him with other women just to humiliate him when they realize that he is an ass slut and no longer capable of intercourse. And they can laugh at him as he moans and begs to cum by being penetrated by a female.