Doms first blog

So most people would probably label me as a SJW and theyd pretty much be right. That being the case, I get a little uncomfortable with the word slave. In basically any vanilla case, I hope we can all agree slavery is super fucked up. Human trafficking both terrifies me and makes my blood boil, and americas history with slavery reminds me of how horrible racism is in this country. 

In any case, when I hear the word in a non vanilla setting, I cant help but react in a similar way, especially if theres talk about lack of consent, which Ive seen in some BDSM porn. I acknowledge that master/slave relationships can be and probably mostly are perfectly morally fine, and im not even trying to kinkshame, but slavery as a word means so much to me and it just feels so wrong to me to see cases where slavery is treated as a highly realistic façade intended to make things hotter. 

I dont know if having a master/slave relationship of my own would help with this stigma or not, so only time will tell.

Hope all you lgbt folks are having a great month! 

I’m crazy sick tonight. Anyone have any interesting related stories?

”Come here” He stated. 

“Yes sir.”

She crawled on the floor to her daddy. she looked up innocently, playfully laying her chin on his dick. 

“On my lap. Hands behind your back.” 

She silently got up and to her daddys side, then bent down, comfortably laying on him and layed her hands behind her, where they were promptly cuffed up. She bit her lip as he slid down her short shorts, revealing her luscious bare booty. 

He rubbed his hand against her cheeks, groping them. “Are you ready?”

”yes sir.” she spoke with unease in her voice. 

He started lightly. She let out a small breath of air. Another hit, this time a little harder. He alternated between looking at her head and where he was hitting. He spanked her again, this time hard enough that she took in a small gasp. He followed it up with three quick consecutive hits to her left cheek then three more to her right. She moaned, liking the pain she felt. He spanked her again, now using the normal amount of strength he used when they did this. She could feel her juices beginning to drip down her leg. When his hand impacted her ass again, he spoke. “You like that?”

”Yes daddy.” She timidly spoke out.

“mmm yeah I bet you love your ass being spanked. Youre such a masochist.” He spanked her harder on “masochist”.

”Aaah! Only for you sir.”

”Yeah, count them for me.”

He hit her ass.

”One sir.”

Again.

”Two sir.”

and again.

”Three sir.” 

a delay..

..........SMACK

”AHH!” she cried out. “Four sir!”

Her bottom was starting to redden. He smacked her several times quickly, she was barely able to keep up the counting. 

“You can stop now.”

He continued to hit her pink bottom, causing her to moan and cry at each hit, not bothering to put on the illusion that she didn’t absolutely adore being made to be his bitch. 

About 10 minutes later she was a sobbing whining mess. She wet enough so that he could feel her dripping down to his feet. She could almost cum. 

But her ass was a deep shade of red and her limit had at last been reached. 

With one last grope on each cheek he unlocked the cuffs and told her to stand up.

”Youre such a good girl for taking that spanking so well.”

”Thank you sir.” she smiled.

They kissed for a minute and he rubbed her shoulders before kissing her. Later he would lay her face down and lovingly eat her out as a reward, careful not to put his hands on where he spanked her. Then they went to sleep, with her head comfily laying between his legs, where she would service his cock in the morning.

Pretty sure a stripper swiped right on me on tinder tonight. I got her instagram and snapchat. Now that Im not thinking with my dick though, she probably just wants me to send her money in exchange for whats going to only be a tease at my dominant side.

She hasnt even texted me yet and im already onto her shit 👀👀👀

I had a fantastic kinky night last night. I met this sub girl who loved when I smacked her tits around. When I sent her home I ordered her to sleep with a buttplug on. Then she got super horny and I came over to her place for more tit abuse until like friggin 4am in the morning cuz she couldnt sleep for shit.

Only regret is neither of us came. Still a shitload of fun though :)

With just about a week of joining this site, today I met a particularly epicly horny painslut 😊😊😊😊 So glad Ive joined the cage. Its opening up a great deal of wonderful avenues

Day 8.

It was day 8 of Veronicas continuous edging. 

Her mind was a haze, her naked body aching with need beyond all description. 

Her master quietly read in the corner, occassionally bothering to look up and make sure his slave did not deviate from his orders

He had posted pictures of his cock all over the room. The one cock she worshipped, that she longed and begged and lived to suck, to feel, to fuck her holes until she passed out from exhaustion. Veronica adored that cock, and try as she might, it was not possible to see and think about those 10 inches that drove her wild. She can and has came hard and even squirted just from thinking about it.

But she wasn’t allowed to cum. To reach orgasm would decimate her psychologically in how she failed her master. She couldnt allow it, not ever. The inevitable caning/candlewax combo over her entire body was not nearly as bad as the possibility that she might fail her one true love in the world as he sat just a few feet from her desperate cunt. 

She ran her hands along said cunt as demanded and as she had done almost nonstop for the past 8 days. her clit ached and needed like she had never needed anything before in her life. She would trade her life for permission to cum in this state. 

Meanwhile everything else being done to her is functioning like it mechanically should. Her butt plug is still in, she still has her collar and nipple clamps on. The container full of cum is still dripping it drop by drop right into her open mouth as it had been for over a week. Veronica hated that bucket. While she relished the chance to taste her masters cum mixed in with hers it was this bucket becoming empty that determined when she could stop. 

She only ever had to stop eating to go to the bathroom, to sleep (only 3 hours a day and the bucket gets plugged then) to eat proper food or to service her master, who has secretly refilled the bucket twice now while she was asleep. Its not even a third empty! 

Sometimes her master would let her stop rubbing her pussy and lets a vibrator on low do the work. Veronicas arms loved this, as they needed the break, but her pussy was not happy as it would increase her arousal almost as much as the thought of her owners cock. 

So as her nearly permanently edged pussy is continuously denied release by Veronicas cruel master, Veronica waits and wait for this wretched bucket to empty as she slowly drinks her favorite liquid (mixed in with fresh warmer loads from her master cumming on her pathetic face). She waits and waits and waits while her dreary mind solely focused on what makes her hotter than anything else.

Little did the cum-hungry slut know she would be edged for much longer than she had realized even after the session ended

I have just today (technically yesterday cuz its past midnight) realized that the old adage that nothing worth doing is ever easy applies to my interest in BDSM. I figured it would be wise to lay out a series of priorities as a dom in order to become a more well rounded dominant. As long as I commit to making a decent effort, I feel it would also demonstrate that Im not just another one of those fuckboys who call themselves doms because it boosts their pretentious ego, as I have learned plenty of “doms” are that. 

So here are my priorities in no official order.

1. Learn everything I can about BDSM practices. How to train subs certain things, what I I should know as a dom, how to improve my side of performance, etc. This is gonna be the biggest one for sure as it seems theres a lot I need to know, being so new. Ive been pointed in the way of some books and youtube tutorials and of course theres the BDSM community in general. 

2. Work on my physical attractiveness. This means losing weight by diet and exercise (things Ive struggled with for a long time) as well as learn how to present my face better. Beyond that, things like dick size, body shape, height and my face in general are not changeable without certain surgery, so I hope this will be enough.

3. find a local sub. I’ve been so excited about finding a sub that Ive started asking every local sub girl on fet.com to be my sub. I know now that my approach needs to be more respectful, much more patient, and more compassionate. While I obviously would love to find a sub, I know now to do so in a way that makes me seem less desperate. 

4. Expand my toy inventory. No explanation really needed here. There are still some types of toys I dont have yet. 

5. Reach a better financial situation. While this is more of a general life goal, it applies here too. I make very little money and I still live with my parents so there are things in my life right now that make having a sub difficult irl for a variety of reasons. Once Im able to move out however, this sort of thing is going to work out much better for me

Ive heard subs express appreciation for doms in the past as much as the other way around. While it is true that subs have reasons to appreciate doms, the whole arrangement between the two is one that inherently favors the dom more. Heres why. (this applies to slaves too)

Subs are basically always the more selfless one. While part of the reason theyre subs is built into who they are, they also generally wish to please the dom. More on what I mean shortly 

Meanwhile, doms dont have to really care about their subs. Unlike subs, everything that comes from a dom is based on self interest. Being a dom is easy compared to being a sub. They get to act upon a desire to hurt people as sadists, meanwhile masochist subs may enjoy pain, but pain is still pain. It’s still unpleasant on some level. Plus, many subs engage in activities outside their comfort zone where they dont benefit at all, simply because their dom wants them to.

This is accentuated in slave/master dynamics. Slaves do everything for their master and the price the master pays for such a thing is far lower than its value.

This is why subs are so wonderful. Not just because theyre selfless, but because BDSM is a deal which inherently favors the dom, and we still have subs to begin with anyways. 

Subs, youre awesome. Us doms love you (for more than one reason).

Ive heard subs express appreciation for doms in the past as much as the other way around. While it is true that subs have reasons to appreciate doms, the whole arrangement between the two is one that inherently favors the dom more. Heres why. (this applies to slaves too)

Subs are basically always the more selfless one. While part of the reason theyre subs is built into who they are, they also generally wish to please the dom. More on what I mean shortly 

Meanwhile, doms dont have to really care about their subs. Unlike subs, everything that comes from a dom is based on self interest. Being a dom is easy compared to being a sub. They get to act upon a desire to hurt people as sadists, meanwhile masochist subs may enjoy pain, but pain is still pain. It’s still unpleasant on some level. Plus, many subs engage in activities outside their comfort zone where they dont benefit at all, simply because their dom wants them to.

This is accentuated in slave/master dynamics. Slaves do everything for their master and the price the master pays for such a thing is far lower than its value.

This is why subs are so wonderful. Not just because theyre selfless, but because BDSM is a deal which inherently favors the dom, and we still have subs to begin with anyways. 

Subs, youre awesome. Us doms love you (for more than one reason).