Salacious

Respect yourself and others in all you do

Be a man of value, say what you mean and follow through.

Stop giving away your energy, relax indifference makes all the difference.

Make her continually earn your time and attention.

Never chase, a like on your profile or blog is not an invitation, you're just one of many.

Be selective and live in abundance, high-value men have options.

Keep yourself in check by staying up to date with current events, fashion, and personal health and grooming.

Women are masters of emotions, men are masters of masculinity, stay in your lane.

Most men write a profile like a resume, leaving nothing to the imagination, dull. Instead, write your profile like a screening of must-haves be specific about what you want and a little vague about what you offer.

Long-distance relationships are very hard and require a lot of work. Don't set yourself up for failure if the distance is an issue be upfront early and have that discussion.

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How much sexual experience is too much experience?
   

Is there a place for true love in a D/s a dynamic  Or are they both mutually exclusive?

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Be it male or female, Dom or Sub.

In this game of pain-pleasure,seduction and omission, trust is a valuable commodity not to given liberally. Trust should be earned, through time, consistency, and actions. 

Notice I did not mention “words” because it is  not what is said or promised that determines a person's moral compass, but by the actions taken.

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Scarcity creates value.

The quickest way to get someone’s attention is to remove yours. When it comes to growing a woman’s attraction for you, less really is more. When a man wants to see a woman more than she wants to see him, he tends to try too hard he over pursues and forces things. This causes a loss of attraction and her to back away and test more, because she can sense he is diminished by her lower interest or lack of availability. Women love men who are stable, consistent, happy and indifferent, but grateful no matter how much or how little time they spend together. Men who understand women know that sometimes they will spend a lot of time together, and other times may spend less time together. Either way, they make the best and most productive use of their time. They make time for their women, but if their women are unavailable, they are excited to have the time to catch up on other projects.

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Her lust is the Albatross about my neck, dragging me to the abyss. If I had but one chance to do it all over again, surely I wouldn't change a thing.

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Love is freedom, allowing and acceptance. When you love others in a way that maintains their freedom to choose you or someone else, this gives you peace of mind that you were chosen over all other potential suitors. It’s the mindset of being their best option but creating the conditions that if their effort and interest is not mutual, you will find someone better. You deserve someone who loves, values, celebrate, cherishes and willing to care for you the way you are without having to change or bend yourself into a pretzel to please them. It’s the ultimate take it or leave it kind of non-attached attitude that helps to ensure you only date people who are really into you.

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I love you,

I'm going to fuck you like I hate you.

I love to see you cry but I hate to see you sad.

You know me so well, you know there's only one way this thing will end.

Yet you always return for more.

I'm the albatross around your heart

your the hidden kink in my armor.

This strange relationship.

Your mind can't make sense of it all,

but is it suppose to, because when you hear

my voice  say ”just breathe”

it's like nothing else matters, tonight.

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Mind Fuckery gets my attention 

Intelligence keeps me engaged 

Lacking in either gets you forgotten

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