Salacious

n my experience, Alpha Females and submissive vixens are often two sides of the same strong woman: one public side, one private side. I have discovered that many women who are Alpha Females professionally by day often crave the escape to be submissive vixens in the bedroom with No control or decision making.

To be clear, I am NOT saying that ALL Alpha Females are also submissives. I am saying there seems to be a specific psychological profile which makes Alpha Female/submissive a common archetype among women who often are Successful, strong, independent women publicly who crave to be highly feminine & highly sexually submissive privately. Most men view them as a confusing paradox of persona/sexual contradiction that they cannot comprehend or decipher. In reality, they are Alpha Females/Submissive or Alpha submissives – female to only one Alpha male while being dominant over all other aspects of their life?

1.Never put her on a pedestal ( Just treat her like she is)

2.Never make her the center of your world ( But do treat  her like she is)

3.Always remember what she gives she gives freely because she chooses to.

4.Her submission is gifted when it is earned not demanded.

5.Never rush, Always progress by her time, not your own. She will appreciate you for it;)

6.Always recognize the difference between being Dominant vs Domineering.

7.In a D/s dynamic ambiguity does not build trust. When she ask you a question, answer her without equivocation.

8.Always convey the type of dynamic  you want upfront.

9.Never try to change her or make her into your idea of perfection. Rather inspire her to fully embrace the vixen within her,to explore her inhibition, to open her mind to all the many layers of eroticism she has inside

10.Always to remember what is freely given can quickly be taken away, complacency is not a friend?

I believe that healing one's traumas is one of the most important missions you can take on in your life.

BUT if you are trying to get over the wounds of your D/s dynamic/ BF/ or childhood, particularly the limited beliefs that a person has inadvertently programmed into you…

AND you are still in a relationship with the individual who created the original wound …

AND they are still engaging in the same behavior…

THEN the healing won't happen because you're continually being retraumatized.

If this applies to you, the solution is to create boundaries with the offending Dom/BF/Parent, and allow yourself the time to heal. 

You can’t heal PTSD while you’re still on the battlefield.

Remember,You are the only You God created, You deserve better.

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The final phase of my session is Sensual Aftercare.

Aftercare, a subject I don't think gets enough discussion.I want my sub to feel loved, cherished, and desired for her gift of submission to me. I will always give her some type of sensual reward based on her unique individual needs.

One sub of mine loved it when I would brush her hair and massage her head while her body settled into a ready-made Bubble Bath.

And another sub, after a full body massage would fall asleep on my chest as I read to her from her favorite author.

Whatever the aftercare routine is, after offering her body up to such sexual extreme treatments, It's essential that she feels the emotional connection and love from her Dom in the way that only he can give at that moment. ? 

Monday: Cum on Her Breasts Day.

No one enjoys Mondays so I like to have a bit of nasty fun to start our day off right.

Tuesday: Anal Plug Day

Before work, have her remove her panties and get in the doggie position on the bed – ass high, head low, knees wide apart so she gapes open with anticipation and arousal. I take the time to admire, caress, spank and lick her beautiful ass. Make her feel like the cherished fucktoy she is. Then lubricate the anal plug and slowly insert it in her tight ass so she feel every excruciating moment of the insertion. She must wear the anal plug all until she returns home to me. Every step she takes she will constantly know she is my fucktoy…

Wednesday: We-Vibe Wednesdays

The We-Vibe is a wireless vibrator that is worn inserted into the vagina which stimulates both the clit and G-Spot simultaneously and can be controlled by a renote controller or a smartphone app. In the morning, she must place We-Vibe on the charging stand to ensure a full charge. After work, she must wear a short skirt and heels without panties. She will greet me in a chair with her skirt hiked up and her legs spread wide apart so you can clearly see We-Vibe inserted. She will be holding out the remote control in hers cupped hands inviting me to use her for my pleasure.

Thursday: No Panties Day

I like my  sub to  wear a dress or skirt without panties all day long. The garment must be mid-thigh or shorter to ensure there’s a chance people will see her pussy at work or in public. She will be in constant vigilance which will also make her wet all day long. At the end of the day, she must present her bare pussy to me so I can inspect how wet, and aroused she has been all-day.

Friday: Pizza & Lingerie Night

No one wants to cook on Friday after a long week so it’s great time to reconnect as a D/s couple. It’s the Dom’s responsibility to pick up a fresh pizza and flowers and to arrive on time (no stopping for drinks after work). The submissive’s responsibility is dress to arouse and inspire lust. My sub must greet me in lingerie and heels with a passionate 3-minute kiss to set the mood for the evening. Dressing up for roleplay such as naughty sexy secretary, librarian, harem slave girl, sexy cop or cowgirl are also great options to inspire lust and passion.

Saturday: Ben Wa Balls & Dancing Night

As a proud Dom, I need to show off my sexy submissive in public. Saturday is when you have your beautiful sub wear her sexiest outfit to go out dancing. Before leaving for dinner and the club, I have my submissive will remove her panties and blatantly spread her pussy wide on the bed for me to admire and worship her pussy. It is my  opportunity to thank her  for being such a nasty slut all week. Lick and suck her clit while fingering her pussy until she cums at least 3 times. Then insert Be Wa Balls into her pussy. They are weighted metal balls that will move around inside her pussy as she dances and walks in heels with every sway of her hips. It will ensure she extra juicy and swollen when it’s time to fuck. Wear panties to prevent accidents in public of the Ben Wa balls falling out.

Sunday: Naked Chef Night  use your imagination?