I know I am not on here often but I need to get some things off my chest.
I had started a dynamic with a wonderful Dom. One who made me feel myself. Who showed me who I am. Unfortunately things did not work out. We ended things and I feel very hurt.
I know we can't go back and can't move forward together but I miss him.
I am currently healing and working on myself. While difficult I know I need
If you are going to stop talking to me, at least say you aren't talking to me anymore. I get that hearing I'm a BBW is scary for insecure Doms, but at least say "Hey your weight is an issue. I'm gone". I'll understand and try not to damage your fragile masculinity
While I'm not a slave, I have slave tendencies according to the BDSM.ORG test. So it makes me curious about being a slave.
Are there safe words? I've read both yes and no.
Do you submit to everything? I've read where slaves give up control of everything from money, work, family. Is that something done often?
Can you negotiate what is and is not given to Dom/Master? I know that probably is an easy answer, but wanting to be sure.
Thank you for information ?