My kinky life

With few exceptions I’ve never talked about being bi. I’ve been thinking a lot about it lately as to why it’s so hard.

 It’s never been hard for me to tell anyone I’m kinky or poly, but with few exceptions maybe the orientation on a profile I’ve always let people assume whatever.

 I think perhaps I’ve been afraid people in and out of the lifestyle would judge me for it. I’ve been judged I should say by people in and outside of the lifestyle. I guess like everyone I just want to be accepted. 

 I’m older now and with hindsight I see many missed opportunities at so much fun. I’ve thought a lot about it and I guess this blog is

My baby steps into telling people flat out that I’m bi I suppose. 

My girl and I have been looking for a sub couple for awhile and what we have been finding are couples where they only want my girl to top them while I watch. (I have no desire to be a cuck). 

 My girl is my slave and while she is an alpha slave she is no top. When I describe what I am looking for a consistently get ghosted. 

 I suppose because I talk about safety and actually meeting off-line it scares them away. I can only be who I am and that means online is a meeting place. Then perhaps a munch or public meeting etc.

I wandered a bit there lol.

In any case I am a male bisexual dominant and I can and will enjoy it all.

I had met a woman online who was interested in playing with me and my girl.

Following my safety protocols we met on Friday night for a nice dinner and some time afterwards to talk and negotiate.

I think she was a bit disappointed that there wasn’t any okay that night. I’ve found over time that a first meeting without the tension that comes from an impending play session leads to more open,honest, and leisurely talks.

 We connected again on Saturday after all having spent the night thinking of the chemistry was there. 

 We had dinner and went to a local hotel. Again for safety reasons all first plays happen away from my home.

 I had already been to the room and set the scene. I had vibrators,clamps,floggers, and some electro-stim things out and handy. I love bondage but I never use it the first few scenes. I want my partner to know that they can simply get up if they aren’t feeling safe.

 I’m not going to go into details about the scene suffice it to say, we all ended up in a puppy pile sleeping soundly.

Sunday consisted about taking about drop and the fact We would both be available if she needed to talk be held whatever. We ended up just talking on the phone and that was all she needed.

So a great kinky weekend