Witchcraft

Many Submissives contact me and beg to be dominated. When I like the look of a potential new sub I exchange messages and set up a meet, usually at my place (It's where I keep all my gear) After the usual discussions, boundries, do's and don'ts, limits and safety etc. the session begins. I won't go into what I do at this point, (Maybe another time) suffice to say that we explore to see if we can meet each others needs. A first meeting is a very delicate time and needs to be handled with great care. I work on the premise that if we get on well, I will want the sub to come back asking for more. If so, the sub will be invited back for another session, hopefully one of many.

So how does Witchcraft fit in.  All my gear, small and large is regularly cleansed (physically cleaned after every use of course, but here I am talking about  cleansing of negative energy through Witchcraft) Negative energy is all around and easily creeps in causing a reduction or prevention of pleasure when using the item. I wont dwell on the spells and rituals for cleansing at this time. All items are cleansed including the play space and furniture that will be used. All this occurs before the sub arrives for the session, so everything is ready. Good preparation is essential and not only involves equipment, toys and the playroom but also myself. A short period of meditation to relax my mind followed by thoughts about the coming session.

The second meeting with a new sub takes the form of an initiation involving the sub dedication him or herself to me. Before the start I explain to the sub that the initiation will require total submission to me and thereafter to become my ongoing personal property until I release them. Once the agreement is made the ceremony can begin.

The ritual takes place within a magic circle which I cast around the two of us. Any viewers who may also be present will not be included in the circle and will observe from outside it. The casting of the circle is not for this post, accept that it happens. 

Within the circle the sub's wrists and ankles are tied and they are naked and kneeling before me. I too am naked and I begin by casting a binding spell which binds the sub to me and subjugates his or her will to mine completely. I am now in total control of the sub who is expected to obey me in all things. I take the sub's head in my hands and guide him or her as I receive oral sex. This activates the spell.

On completion, the circle is closed and if the sub has performed well I reward them, usually by returning the oral to completion. After this, if there are others present and if they wish to do so they may join in the session. Fun to be had by all.

So mote it be.

This is my first ever blog, and this is my first post into it.

I have been into BDSM for over 50 years in one form or another and despite my advancing years my interest and sexual drive is as strong now as it ever was.

Some months ago I decided to become a Witch. I choose the term Witch as opposed to Wizard or Sorcerer as a matter of aesthetic preference, not for any other reason, I like the sound of 'Witch'. There is so much to say about my journey into Witchcraft and Paganism but I will leave that to another post (perhaps).

I was for many years committed to another religion, the Rede of which clashed with my strong sexual drives. My understanding is that this Other Religion does not "do" sexuality, their best offer being "Keep it in your trousers" with a heavy lacing of guilt for even asking the question. Again, I could waffle on about this for ever so I won't.

I never did resolve the conflict between those Other Religious Beliefs and my Sexuality, nor do I think that I ever will. Eventually I gave up trying and accepted that my sexuality was part of me, not to be denied. I put guilt aside and over the years became comfortable with myself.

The central tenet of my version of Paganism is "Do as you will" with the proviso of "Harm none". which resonates with me strongly. There are no rules other than those that I create for myself and there are no written texts instructing me as to what I should/must believe or how to behave. That's it!

Of course, I do have beliefs and rules by which to abide, a good example is "Safe, Sane, Consensual", and being a bit of a sadist "Hurt not Harm"

I bring my interests in BDSM with me in their entirety, I do not seek to understand how they can be explained or justified within the context of Paganism, "Do as you will" is sufficient.