A DOM's muse

A simple piece of advice for those who are perhaps not so simple.

It seems that for some people, it is very hard to understand that they are not gods gift to woman or man.  That not everyone wants to talk with them.  That not everyone thinks they are as special as they do.  That others have a choice to respond.  For some people, sadly mostly Men, this seems to be a very hard thing to understand.  

A non-reply is a NO.  A NO is a NO.  No is not a response that gives you the right to keep sending messages or worse escalate the messages to indignant outrage that you are being rejected.  No means NO.  Do the mature thing, accept it and move on.  Perhaps that's the problem?  It's the mature thing to do.

To all those that have been on the receiving end, please don't allow the darkness to rob you of the joy that is out there.

1. 4DPLM

I've been away from my precious Little Munchkin for just 3 weeks and it has been harder than ever to cope with.  The reasons are many but mainly due to both of us being unwell.  No sooner had I returned back to work, I was struck down by a virus.  This meant I was limited in my ability to chat online.  The mind may be willing but the flesh was weak.  In this case, just exhausted.  It took me over a week to get back on my feet again.  Then Munchkin fell sick and she too struggled to maintain our contact. No sooner had my precious Munchkin recovered she was struck down with a damaged shoulder. The pain killers only just working and causing her to sleep most of the time.  The feeling of frustration at being so helpless is painful to endure.  We have our routine, Munchkin has her tasks and I try to keep positive but sometimes that is easier said than done. These are the times when we are tested.  These are the times we know our commitment to each other is unwavering.   

Munchkin loves it when we have storytime.  She gets to pick the story, "Alice in Wonderland" was a big hit, nows it "The Wizard of OZ".  She snuggles down and is usually asleep before I get more than a few pages in.  I love the fact she feels so relaxed, so content and secure.  I must have read each chapter five times, as Munchkin falls asleep well before I finish and can never remember what happened.  Even though I know she is asleep I always read the whole chapter, partly in case she wakes up but mostly because it's such a special time that we share regardless of the distance between us., regardless of how she is feeling.

Munchkin will be back safe in my arms in 78 days and counting down.  We are off to London, maybe to even see the Queen.  Regardless of what we will be doing, we will be doing it as Daddy and Munchkin.  I'm proud of my Munchkin.  It's a privilege to be called her Daddy.

DPLM

This may seem strange to many but the truth is, the more my Precious Little Submissive follows my rules and tasks the more I am bound to her.

After a discussion regarding needs, my Precious has filled me with pride and a deep longing to be the best Daddy DOM i can be.  Her efforts in following rules, preforming tasks and just acting in a way she knows please's me, constantly remind me of just how privilege i am that she calls me her Daddy/DOM.  Her submission drives me ever deeper to ensure she is nurtured, protected and allowed to be all that she desires.

I know the weight of the responsibility she has given me and gladly accept it.

Thank you my precious. 

She is amazing.

She is not easy.

She is worth every effort.

She is fragile

She is strong

She is open

She is a mystery

She is the one I will protect

She is the one I will endure for.

She is my today, tomorrow and day after.

She is.

The hardest thing to do in life is to accept who you are.  

To embrace all that you can be. 

To accept you for the special person you are

To turn your back on the world that puts you down.

To turn away from those who too easily put you down

To accept that you are truely special, unique and beautiful in your own right

To chase your dreams when others tell you to give them up.

To rise up when those around you are saying stay down

To have the strength to believe, to hope, to dream, to be 

I am special

I am scared

I am imperfect

I choose to dream

I choose to follow those dream

I choose to be me

I am on a journey that knows no end.

I will fight for what I believe in.

I will protect those I love

I will accept me for who I am today and who i will be tomorrow

I will be me

I am

Have you ever been in a crowded room and felt so alone?

Have you ever been in a busy street and felt alone?

Have you ever been with friends and found yourself looking in from the outside?

Have you ever wondered where your life is going?

Have you ever wondered where your life has gone?

Have you ever thought what might have been?

Have you.......

You are why I am strong

You are why I am gentle

You are why  I am driven

You are why I am protective

You are why I am devoted

You are why I am attentive

You are why I am passionate

You are why I am