Stranger

Making that connection

I believe that every relationship needs a deep connection if it is to be successful....without it there will be more misunderstanding than needed...trust issues..unecessary fights.you name it. It doesn't matter what roles you choose to play....Dom ...sub....switch...other....it's gonna crash and burn if that connection isn't there....

But how do you get said connection? Maybe it's the tone you use....being genuine? Yea I said that cause there are some of you out there who are very oppressive in nature...abusive even....maybe it's the look you give....that little smile....who knows....I'll leave that up to you to ponder upon...but remember this.... Ppl get off in their dreams all the time...but the body and the mind...dare I even say and soul....when all three are in tune with eachother...and then connects with another person that's also balanced and at peace within....now that....that's what I think makes connecting worthwhile :) peace.

vibes

3 years ago. August 25, 2021 at 3:47 PM

connect with the new little toys u guys got

What to believe?

4 years ago. October 16, 2020 at 9:29 PM

I've been on here for quite some time and I've never really met allot of people who are open to sharing who they really are.

I think it's maybe because of trust issues?

How do people trust eachother?

Do they want to trust eachother?

Without trust what kind of world are we living in?

My biggest concern has been the environment we are putting our children in. Everyone knows we can't hide them in a bubble . So why not work together to create a healthy lifestyle and environment?

I've noticed a trend with allot of people I've met. Both online and in real life. It's about how we choose to survive but leans towards capitalism.

Is there a solution? Have i opened a can of worms? Do we throw it out or do we use it to probably make compost to plant new seeds of life?

Is anyone still looking to grow?

4 years ago. March 14, 2020 at 7:02 PM

When i say grow ...i mean grow with someone... to Build and work on yourself and your partner while being contented with just the two of you making effort to be better at whatever both of you are working on?

No one is perfect... Right? Even though I've been called perfect before...i know i am not and will never be...i have my ideals and always try to work towards them... But i must always accept my reality...

How do i win any battle when I'm still fighting with myself? Sometimes when becoming my own worst enemy! Recover... Withdrawal and???

Don't we all have stuff we can work on while having a partner? Don't we all work on being the best version of ourselves as best as we can?

Always tweeking and adjusting after almost every upgrade we make? 💚 I believe in balance... But to have balance we must come from chaos 😄 or are there people out there who have been at balance and will be forever?