Sadie's Sweets

You should’ve known better than to come home late on Halloween. Now your Yandere Girlfriend has the perfect solution—she’s turning you into her favorite holiday decoration. Wrapped tight. Unable to move. And with little switches that make you moan just the way she likes.

For listeners who enjoy possessive devotion, immobilization fantasies, and that sweet spark of controlled sensations.

Yandere • Wrapped Up • Tease & Torment • Soft Spoken

DISCLAIMER - This is NOT how a real M/s or D/s relationship works. This is for entertainment and fantasy purposes.

Are you afraid of confrontation?
If your stomach flips at the thought of saying no, or your heart races when someone challenges you — this week’s Boundary Bungalow episode is especially for you.

In “Confrontation Without Fear,” we explore five gentle reframes that turn conflict into clarity. You’ll learn how to speak up without aggression, hold space for your emotions, and practice soft boundaries out loud — even when your voice shakes.

Whether in daily life or within the intensity of a BDSM dynamic, confrontation is not a threat — it’s a tool.
In healthy power exchange, communication is the backbone of consent. Knowing how to calmly address discomfort, missteps, or changing limits keeps both partners safe, respected, and emotionally connected.

Confrontation doesn’t have to be an explosion. It can be an expression — a way to check in, to realign, and to deepen trust.
Because clarity is sexy. Honesty is safety. And soft power is strength.

Stay kind, grow wild, be soft, and stand strong. 🌿

Not every night or weekend can go as planned. You may have considered the scene, scheduled your partner, lined up your gear, but life just had to life: work issues, kids, travel, timing—whatever the detour, the space for your kink just isn’t present. What do you do to tap into something lighter-but-still-kinky?

For me, I'm usually reading something monster fucker filthy like but if I'm not in a reading mood, I happen to really love . 

What's your go to when you can't go to the party?

Everyone knows you're useless. But maybe... maybe you have a secrete little use that gives your FemDom GF a little bit of amusement... Listen and find out. Verbal degradation is enjoyed by many people for many different reasons. This is for those of you who enjoy it!

Fem Domme * Soft Spoken * Role Play * Hypnotic

DISCLAIMER - This is NOT how a real M/s or D/s relationship works. This is for entertainment and fantasy purposes.

Carving pumpkins at a munch sound messy? Yup. That’s why this month’s ice breaking / fidget activity was pumpkin and monster stickers! I’ve been using these sticker packs, different themes of course, for a while, and munch attendees love them. It really is a soothing way to welcome people. I simply spread them out as invite people to use them.

We really made some interesting creatures! If you want to try these for your munch, or just play with them yourself, you can find the ones I used below. Enjoy!

Collateral Damage: A Sapphic Erotic Thriller Book:

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Exceptional concept. A MFMC seeking revenge justice ends up with an unintended hostage, the FFMC. The intertwining of abuse survivors and romantic love progressed in a genuine, heartfelt, and natural way. The spice scenes were very well done, rather consensual, and steamy hot.

Disappointing Delivery. Three kindle pages of content warnings delivered only disappointment. The romance itself was essentially wholesome and not very dark at all despite the situation that caused the romance being very dark. Content warnings are a promise, and the author did not keep theirs.

The author states that it was difficult to write in American English (the setting is in the US), and that they would use British spellings. What the author did however was use a lot of British slang, expressions, and turns of phrase that completely detracted from the story. Even worse, there’s a court room scene where the judge states “I conclude that the crown has not established…” There is no crown authority in the US. The author didn’t even try. They set it in the US because they wanted to use pew pews in their story and couldn’t even be bothered to watch a couple episodes of Law and Order to have any idea of the criminal justice system.

The writing was also way more ‘tell’ than ‘show’. With two FMCs the author did not do a good enough job differentiating between the ‘shes’ and I had to reread several times. The writing was repetitive. At first, I thought it was to evoke a sense of being trapped and bored, (i.e. held hostage), but there were too many punction mistakes, and it just didn’t work.

The last portion of the book devolves into a (justifiable and valuable) political rant about how domestic violence is overlooked. This would have been better suited as an addendum than part of the story. It was too overdone to be part of the story.

Worst of all, the one content warning that really needed to be on the list wasn’t there. It’s a bit of a spoiler, so I will put it in the metrics near the end. I was absolutely blindsided by it.

With the help of an editor and a localizer this story could easily become 5 star+. I’m so angry with the author for not doing their story justice. Amazon doesn’t allow half stars, but I would rate this 3.5 stars.

The following are just amount metrics and etc. (Potential Spoilers!)

Spice - 4/5 (loss of 1 star for the now in the kitchen, now on the couch, repetition)

Romance – 5/5 (the characters do develop deep love for each other)

World – 1/5 (a localizer is needed)

Dark - 4/5 (child abuse survivor, murder)

Kink – 5/5 (Well developed, accurate, consensual)

HEA? Judgement call.

Stand alone? Yes.

Does the dog die? Yes. The dog dies of old age. There is no trigger warning for this, so let this be your warning.

Woke up to a great article in my email about Danni Ashe “the only person in history to be featured on the cover of both the Wall Street Journal and Juggs.” Reportedly she popularized the subscription as a service model paving the way for sites like OnlyFans.

I thought you might also enjoy the read. #SexWorkIsWork

The brain is often said to be the biggest sex organ. What do you do to mentally (or non-physically) practice kink?

I've been talking about changing hard limits lately, but I want to stress that not every hard limit is meant to change. Sometimes, the most empowering thing you can do is to revisit a limit— and choose to reaffirm it.

As we grow, heal, change, or gain new experiences, it’s natural to become curious about the things we once firmly said “no” to. But curiosity doesn't always mean readiness, and reevaluation isn't a promise of change. Instead, it's a way to ask: Does this boundary still serve me? Or is it holding me back?

When you take the time to sit with a hard limit—perhaps journal about it, talk it over with a trusted partner, or explore it in fantasy—you might discover that it was shaped by something specific: a past trauma, a value system, or a former dynamic. And yet, even with more insight or distance, you may still feel a deep, embodied “no.” That’s valid. That’s wisdom.

Choosing to keep a hard limit isn't regression—it’s resistance to coercion (from others and from yourself), to people-pleasing, to overriding your instincts. It’s saying, I know myself well enough to hold this line. And that’s a powerful kind of consent: not the one that leads to action, but the one that honors your safety, dignity, and right to choose.

You’re allowed to change your limits when you want to—and you’re equally allowed to keep them.

The oft quoted strategy of “assuming good intent” has never sat well with me. To be honest, the first few people who told me I need to do this were people I considered completely untrustworthy. But I’m always open to new ideas, and you can learn great lessons in not so great places. And let’s be honest, it sounds so good. So positive. So personal development. Several rather famous people have quoted versions of it. Truthfully, it is better than the opposite – assuming everyone has negative intent makes you ragey and sets you up for failure.

Surprise, surprise, those individuals who wanted me to ‘assume good intent’ weaponized it against me, took advantage of my good nature, and took me on a twisty-turny gaslit ride. But this isn’t just Salty Sadie having a pity me cry.  There’s another expression we know: when you assume, you make an ‘ass’ out of ‘u’ and ‘me’.

Realistically, assuming good intent is equally as blinding as assuming bad intent. It’s not only that unscrupulous characters use this expression to mask their treachery, it’s that if you’re focusing on one type of intent, you’re missing out on all the others. Speaking of others, there isn’t a binary. Yes, there’s good and bad, but there’s indifferent, self-serving, altruistic, and so many other types of intent.

So, what does work? The phrase I’ve found that keeps you open-minded and curious yet free to pivot in any direction is: “I wonder why they said/did that?” Or if you like to avoid the ‘why’: “I wonder what made them say/do that?” By using this phrase, you don’t poison the meeting/relationship/etc. with negative vibes and you don’t blind yourself to focus on positivity only. You put yourself in a neutral-pleasant state and allow things to play out naturally and see which direction they go in with less bias.