Sadie's Sweets

Here's my new post welcoming people to attend my munch. I get asked lots of questions and I have some stock answers, I've re-curated them here. What do you think? Would you feel welcome?

The RKE Metro Munch is a chill get together in a pizza place where kinksters meet up to talk about, well, mostly vanilla things and eat amazing food. If we’re lucky and get the place to ourselves (which we usually do) then we can talk about more kinkier things. People wear casual clothes and subtle collars are permitted. I usually provide sensory toys like these to help people relax and create an ice breaker.

There’s free parking in the front and the venue is bus-able. When you walk in you can place your order at the counter (everyone buys whatever they like from the menu on their own – remember to tip well) and join us at the table in the center. The staff are kind enough to serve us in the dining area. We usually push tables together in the center to make one big table. It’s a small place, so finding us is very easy.

Feel free to ask me anything and for those coming to this munch or going to a different one here is some more general munch information for you to explore if you so desire.

Munch Expectations

https://wordpress.com/post/sadiemcmaster.wordpress.com/566

FREE on Kindle Unlimited: Munch 101 Booklet - discover what to expect at a munch! https://amzn.to/4j9yGMt

Six Tips for a Good First Munch

https://wordpress.com/post/sadiemcmaster.wordpress.com/130

Munch 101

https://wordpress.com/post/sadiemcmaster.wordpress.com/126

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It's time to learn a new trick my little pupper! I need you to prance so that you're looking good when I'm showing you.

An interactive audio for individuals who enjoy puppy play with lots of positive reinforcement.

Immersive * Play With Me * Puppy Play * Interactive * FemDom Vibes

More immersive experiences for all the doggies and puppies out there! This audio is designed to allow you to puppy play along if you so choose. Follow your Dog Trainer's instructions and be the good puppy you know you can be!

Well come here my little puppy. Practice makes perfect. And I am going to make you work hard for your reward today.

DISCLAIMER - This is NOT how a real M/s, O/p, or D/s relationship works. This is for entertainment and fantasy purposes. For entertainment purposes only. Any play in public should be done with the consent of everyone, including anyone watching.
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Project MoriKai

I planned to post a different audio but I saw that this one was doing rather well so I want to give a shout out to all my listeners who love large scale size difference. It's a lovely fetish that can be all about comfort or being controlled and so many other things all of the awesome. Enjoy!

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What's a lovely little human like you doing here in the world of Giants? More importantly... what am I going to to with you?

DISCLAIMER - This is NOT how a real M/s or D/s relationship works. This is for entertainment and fantasy purposes.
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A Soul to Keep: Duskwalker Brides: Book One Kindle Edition
by Opal Reyne

A Soul to Keep: Duskwalker Brides: Book One Kindle Edition

by Opal Reyne

Available here:

Kindle https://amzn.to/3Duf0Tq

Paperback https://amzn.to/41EjEIp

Audible https://amzn.to/3ZKdPXo

Not my first foray into the monster fucking genre but certainly one of my best. The author originally wrote this for herself which I think gives it that extra bit of sweet spice. This is the story of Orpheus (a Duskwaker) and Reia (an outcast female) and their pairing.

Reia agrees to go with Orpheus somewhat willingly as an escape from her village. She hopes to run from him and become a Demon Hunter. She attempts her plan unsuccessfully, but her sharp mind keeps her alive. Both characters are deliciously flawed and end up suiting each other well.

The monster fucking sex is super-hot and I really related with how Reia had to come to terms with her own urges. I loved this book so much I bought the sequel. The first book is certainly stand-alone and each book in the series seems to be the same.

If you’re into MonsterFucking, I highly recommend this book – obviously as I’m writing about it lol.

Enjoy!

I bought this book with my own money, it was not an ARC copy, and I’m under no obligation from anyone to review this book.

Class listed here on The Cage!

Just wanted to give you a visual!

My most recent Project Morikai release.

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Hello my little subbies! Time for a little bit of fractionation with your Favorite Hypno Domme.

Hypnosis with fractionation and wake up at the end. Sadistic Hypnosis.

CW Hypnosis

DISCLAIMER - This is NOT how a real M/s or D/s relationship works. This is for entertainment and fantasy purposes.
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Let’s talk about fidget toys. These small, unassuming gadgets have a bigger impact than they let on, and they’ve become an unexpected hit at my munches.

A munch can be nerve-wracking, especially if you’re new to the lifestyle and/or stepping out of your comfort zone. For some, even seasoned kinksters, social events like this can feel overwhelming. A lot of attendees tell me that they’re neurospicy. Tbh, I’m not quite sure what made me think of them but what better way to create a calm, welcoming vibe than a table full of squishy creatures, sensory items, and other colorful toys?

Convenient Icebreaker

When I got to the munch I spread them out all over the table and invited people to “self-sooth” with the toys. Ngl. I had already picked out the ones I wanted to play with. As an introverted, empathic munch host, this was really helpful! The fidget toys seem to work as icebreakers too. I’ve seen so many connections spark over a shared love of a particularly squishy stress ball or someone sharing cool stories of their fav fidget toys that they have.

It’s not just about keeping hands busy, though. Fidget toys give you permission to exist in a space, exactly as you are. They say, “It’s okay to be a little nervous, a little fidgety. You belong here.” And isn’t that what we’re all about?

Secret Stash

So now, I don’t just bring fidget toys; I stockpile them. I order a new batch almost every month. (Seriously, I have a stash that would make a you jealous.) If you’re coming to my munch, you can expect a table full of tactile delights waiting for you. Play with them, take one home, or just let them sit there as a comforting presence. They’re there for you, like we all are.

What’s your favorite fidget toy? Let me know in the comments!

Looking for more support with managing munch time anxiety? Check out my Overcome Munch Anxiety! Online Class listed here on the Cage!

Last month I had to miss my own munch because I was sick with Covid. In my favorite month too!

I'm so looking forward to the next munch!

What do you miss most when you can't attend a munch? The people? The place? I invite you to share in the comments.

She's back to give you that training you want and deserve.

In this audio, she gives more detailed instructions and corrections before a practice run.

Have fun!

Immersive * Play With Me * Puppy Play * Interactive * FemDom Vibes

More immersive experiences for all the doggies and puppies out there! This audio is designed to allow you to puppy play along if you so choose. Follow your Dog Trainer's instructions and be the good puppy you know you can be!

Well come here my little puppy. Practice makes perfect. And I am going to make you work hard for your reward today.

DISCLAIMER - This is NOT how a real M/s, O/p, or D/s relationship works. This is for entertainment and fantasy purposes. *For entertainment purposes only. Any play in public should be done with the consent of everyone, including anyone watching.*

As a 50-year-old sex educator, I’ve spent my career helping others feel comfortable talking about topics often shrouded in stigma. Yet, when it came to my own family, I faced an unexpected struggle. I never broached the topic of pelvic floor health with my mom, partly due to discomfort and assumptions. Now, as she grapples with a pelvic floor issue, I realize how important these conversations are—no matter how awkward they may feel.

Braving the Stigma and Shame

Pelvic floor health affects everyone, yet it remains under-discussed, especially among older generations. Our mothers and grandmothers may not have grown up with the same open discussions around health and wellness that we promote today. Tbh, my mom has only just recently accepted the fact that I’m not a virgin. Like many others, I avoided the topic with my mom, thinking it would be too personal or embarrassing for her. Looking back, I’m disappointed with myself for not breaking the taboo and talking with her about it.

She’s going to be fine. She has to use an insertable spacer *cough* dildo *cough* to help position her bladder correctly and the gyno taught her how to do Kegel exercises.  I can’t help but think if I had spoken up earlier, perhaps I could have helped her access support sooner.

Start Talking Now

Now that she talked about her condition with me, I’ve learned an important lesson: it’s never too late to have these conversations. Even if there’s initial discomfort, talking about pelvic health with our loved ones can reduce shame, provide clarity, and open doors to care. We owe it to ourselves and the people we care about to normalize these discussions.

It’s also never to late to start doing Kegels for yourself. You can find a lot of practical and fun ‘equipment’ similar to this  to help you in your endeavor.

For those who might be in a similar position, my advice is simple: Don’t wait. Start the conversation now. Whether it’s about pelvic health or any other sensitive topic, being open can make all the difference. It’s okay if it feels awkward—you’ll be glad you did it.