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Sadie's Sweets

Wicked and sweet thoughts of a sadist.
16 hours ago. Wed 16 Jan 2019 02:10:41 AM IST

Day 2 – Legs (thighs, calves, feet, knees, etc.)


See Day 1 for Challenge details:


I love my feet because they are very flexible. What I can do with my hands I can also do with my toes, - wink, wink.


By all means, if you don’t feel comfortable posting on a public post and still want to share, PM me! Share in the way that makes you feel most comfortable! Feel free to copy and paste this on your own page, write in the comments, PM me or someone else.


2 days ago. Mon 14 Jan 2019 05:17:46 PM IST

5 Day Body Positivity Challenge – Fetish Style!

Let’s get positive about our bodies and all the fetish fun they can bring us! Each day we’ll focus on a region of our body. Pick a part of that region and share why you love it – fetish style!

Day 1 – Arms (hands, fingers, forearms, shoulders, etc.)

Day 2 – Legs (thighs, calves, feet, knees, etc.)

Day 3 – Head (tongue, lips, hair, eyes, nose, etc.)

Day 4 – Torso (belly, back, chest, breasts, nipples, etc.)

Day 5 – Genitals (anus, cock, clit, balls, vagina, etc.)

Feel free to copy and paste to your own page or answer in the comments.


What I love about my body today:

Day 1 – Arms (hands, fingers, forearms, shoulders, etc.)

I love my elbows because I can press them deeply into my bottom’s bottom or back in delicious sadistic massage!

1 week ago. Fri 04 Jan 2019 01:27:50 AM IST

If I'm going to be honest, my interest in Tantra developed back when I was in junior high school. Unfortunately, I lived in a super conservative region and my interest in Tantra was by far suppressed by my terror of it. As a matter of fact, everything sexual terrified me. I began to become desensitized to that terror as I grew in my Pagan practices. I read and learned about sex magic although still to this day I've never actually tried any per se. Throughout the years I've revisited my interest in Tantra with bursts of intense study. Especially at the Rochester Erotic Arts Festival where nearly every year there is at least one class on Tantra.

Empty Gas Tank

In the last quarter of 2017, I found my energy levels being at their lowest in a long time. As I searched online for inspiration, meditation was a recommendation as always. However, meditation to relax was not what I needed. What I really needed was meditation for energy. And once again I stumbled across teachings I had already studied in Qi Gong only this time I tripped across an article talking about raising your Kundalini to give you energy. While familiar with yoga, chakras, and Tantra I didn't really discover Kundalini until the past couple of years. Delving more deeply into it I began to practice some meditation and yoga at the end of last year.

Reaping The Rewards

I'm certainly feeling the benefits of doing Kundalini yoga and meditation. Definitely more energy. I'm very excited about it and as I continue to learn more about it I'm going to incorporate it into my BDSM practice. Additionally, the Buddhist mindset that sometimes comes along with yoga and meditation has really enabled me to get to through some difficult times in the past few weeks by remaining "present and in the moment". It's definitely been an all-encompassing beneficial success.

Energy Work and BDSM

I'm no stranger to energy work. From working with meditation and energy in my youth through Qi Gong with martial arts in my adulthood I've enjoyed the benefits of energy work even though I haven't applied them to sex or BDSM. I have, however, worked with several clients when I was doing Pro work and partners when I wasn't that participated in BDSM for more of a spiritual experience than a sexual one. They relished enjoying the endorphins brought on from the pain and feeling stronger post scene. I'm really looking forward to bringing energy work as well as some Tantra inspired practices to my BDSM. I can't wait to see what happens in the future!

What about you? Have you ever Incorporated spirituality, Tantra, meditation, or energy work into your BDSM? What works for you?

1 month ago. Wed 21 Nov 2018 01:20:17 AM IST

In a recent podcast titled Long Distance Relationships, we had a discussion about how it's better to not “cheat” on your long-distance Top by trying to skip out on the tasks that they have assigned you. This brings to mind the old saying: “garbage in, garbage out”. I think this can be applied to everything across your life. You reap what you sow, but it’s also true that the more time and devotion you use to tend your garden the higher the yield.


Each Exquisite Detail


When you spend time planning for your scene and adding special elements, I find that it's far more satisfying than pick up play. Don't get me wrong there's a time and a place for a quick, rough fuck and a spontaneous scene. However, there's an equally delicious yet different satisfaction in experiencing a scene for which we have planned for and nurtured in great detail.


Building Excitement 


Just thinking about the scene I may have in the near future starts to get me excited as the anticipation smolders. Carefully planning and crafting expectations is an intense pleasure its own right. I think I even get the benefit of the hormones of excitement if what they say is true, that the mind can’t tell the difference between what is imagined and what is real.


When The Moment Arrives


When the moment arrives for the scene to begin in the flesh, setting it up becomes a ritual. Experts say that things are better after a ritual. Birthday Cake is said to taste better after singing “Happy Birthday” according to researchers. Who am I to argue with experts? Setting each implement in its place in preparation for play is the ritual that makes my play so much the sweeter.


Like Foreplay To Orgasm


A week of teasing and innuendo makes me higher than anyone might believe. Then when it’s time to dive into the scene…it is like the ultimate orgasm. Gods I love to take my time!


What about you? Do you like it hard and fast or excruciatingly planned out? Let me know in the comments!

2 months ago. Wed 31 Oct 2018 11:59:14 PM IST

“Oh, Sadie…you smell so good!”

These are words I love to hear. Especially after I’ve just hugged someone. Scenting your hair is one of the 64 Arts of the Kama Sutra and one that I adore These Arts are not exclusive to women only. I, for one, truly appreciate a man who smells divine. There was a client at a place I worked once who could make all the women swoon just by walking in. I can still smell it now when I think about it.

There’s An Art To It

Anyone can hose themselves down with the latest fragrance. But to truly build a scent takes experience and practice. I coordinate my fragrance like a fashion model coordinates her makeup with her outfit. For me, it all starts with the fragrance of my shower soap. I select fruit flavored soaps. Sometimes citrus and sometimes berry. These gentle smells give me a scent of fresh clean girl.

Choosing By Mood

What comes next depends in part on the season and my mood. I have three main scent profiles:

Naughty? Me?

Another Day In The Dungeon


I Crave.

Depending on my mood I select a base perfume and anoint my hair, breasts, bottom, and nether regions with it. This base perfume mixes with my body chemistry creating a wanton musk that can only be a fragrance of me. Last I may add some floral lotions that are very light in fragrance.

Layering scents like this is an exquisite pleasure for me and the person who hugs me as well. Sometimes, people hug me longer just to breath in my fragrance…and feel my body against them.

What sensual pleasures do you enjoy? Let me know in the comments!

Thank you for visiting my blog and my website.

2 months ago. Wed 17 Oct 2018 11:21:43 PM IDT

That title is exactly what I texted to somebody the other day. That got me thinking that I had not actually seen my dick in a long time. So, I went to the side of the bed rummaged round through my bag of naughty toys and whipped my dick out. It was an amazing sight to behold.


I love my dick. It's big and it's red. The ultimate in red rocket perfection.  I should probably call her Big Red. From what I've heard she’s got a pretty nice head on her. I am especially fond of the heart-shaped pad over which the O ring is that holds the cock part in place is located. It makes me think warm and fuzzy loving thoughts.


There's a lot of things I can do with my dick. Of course, I can fuck people with it and that is always fun (more on those tales another day). That's what we do with a dick right? If I'm in the right mood I can strap that strap-on to my forehead and be a unicorn. A unicorn with a cherry red horn who can tell people to suck her dick.


I can also send people unsolicited dick pics. I mean really, why not? The ladies love dick pics right?  So, the day after I got my dick out of the bag by my bed I started sending people unsolicited dick pics. It made me pretty happy. I send them to guys and gals. I was a little crushed when one of the responses was “cute!”. So emasculating!


I even sent myself a dick pic of my own dick just so I could get the image here for you to look at! From now on, whenever a guy sends me a dick pic, I’m going to send him one right back. Yeah, baby! Power to my penis!


Do you have dick/strap-on? Why or why not? What do you do with your dick? Tell me in the comments!

3 months ago. Tue 02 Oct 2018 01:34:39 AM IDT

Sometimes, you gotta take it where you can get it. Today is one of those days. I find that I can feed my inner sadist with sips of sadistic joy that can be obtained from the vanilla world. For example. I'm a teacher (of adults). Sometimes I need to teach something my students do not like. I can't help but smile. I get to torture them with topics and sometimes that's what I need to keep me going in between play sessions.


Where do you get your kink highs when you can't actually kink?

4 months ago. Wed 29 Aug 2018 03:20:37 AM IDT

Just a little PSA!

If someone is writes you and says that they are so-and-so's friend and they'd love to play...

Make sure you check back with so-and-so to find out info and ensure that this reference is legit.

And if you're the one giving the reference...make sure it's ok to use someone's name before you do. Otherwise, you could end up with a very, very negative referal.

Stay safe!

4 months ago. Fri 24 Aug 2018 01:00:29 AM IDT

I had to meet my new primary care this week. It's always a nerve-wracking experience. I tell my doctor the truth about my lifestyle and I always worry about rejection. So far the response has always been good. 


I had a BDSM emergency once.  We'd done everything right and I still ended up with a hematoma in my breast from some heavy-duty biting play. I had to go in on a sick visit covered in bruises and of course the big-ass lump in my breast.


Knowing about my BDSM activity and lifestyle before something went wrong means that my doctor did not feel the need to call the police. This not only protected my Top, it kept me out of hours of “counseling” where a social worker would try to get me to admit “abuse”.


Tell your doctors what you do, kinksters. It’s the responsible and safe thing to do!

5 months ago. Mon 06 Aug 2018 01:03:44 AM IDT

Today my thoughts have been focused on how much I love anal. I know that it's not quite what you think of as a fetish at first, but so many people avoid it as a forbidden zone. You know, "exit only".

I love it as an enterance...

The rabid moans I make when I feel my ass being anally penetrated are completely primal and arouse me. Having my as be stuffed full of long thick cock is a pleasure beyond words. 

I like to play coy at first, a little reluctant. And then to feel that powerful pressure at the door to my darkest opening...

so delightful!