My most recent Project Morikai release.
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Hello my little subbies! Time for a little bit of fractionation with your Favorite Hypno Domme.
Hypnosis with fractionation and wake up at the end. Sadistic Hypnosis.
CW Hypnosis
DISCLAIMER - This is NOT how a real M/s or D/s relationship works. This is for entertainment and fantasy purposes.
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Let’s talk about fidget toys. These small, unassuming gadgets have a bigger impact than they let on, and they’ve become an unexpected hit at my munches.
A munch can be nerve-wracking, especially if you’re new to the lifestyle and/or stepping out of your comfort zone. For some, even seasoned kinksters, social events like this can feel overwhelming. A lot of attendees tell me that they’re neurospicy. Tbh, I’m not quite sure what made me think of them but what better way to create a calm, welcoming vibe than a table full of squishy creatures, sensory items, and other colorful toys?
Convenient Icebreaker
When I got to the munch I spread them out all over the table and invited people to “self-sooth” with the toys. Ngl. I had already picked out the ones I wanted to play with. As an introverted, empathic munch host, this was really helpful! The fidget toys seem to work as icebreakers too. I’ve seen so many connections spark over a shared love of a particularly squishy stress ball or someone sharing cool stories of their fav fidget toys that they have.
It’s not just about keeping hands busy, though. Fidget toys give you permission to exist in a space, exactly as you are. They say, “It’s okay to be a little nervous, a little fidgety. You belong here.” And isn’t that what we’re all about?
Secret Stash
So now, I don’t just bring fidget toys; I stockpile them. I order a new batch almost every month. (Seriously, I have a stash that would make a you jealous.) If you’re coming to my munch, you can expect a table full of tactile delights waiting for you. Play with them, take one home, or just let them sit there as a comforting presence. They’re there for you, like we all are.
What’s your favorite fidget toy? Let me know in the comments!
Looking for more support with managing munch time anxiety? Check out my Overcome Munch Anxiety! Online Class listed here on the Cage!
Last month I had to miss my own munch because I was sick with Covid. In my favorite month too!
I'm so looking forward to the next munch!
What do you miss most when you can't attend a munch? The people? The place? I invite you to share in the comments.
She's back to give you that training you want and deserve.
In this audio, she gives more detailed instructions and corrections before a practice run.
Have fun!
Immersive * Play With Me * Puppy Play * Interactive * FemDom Vibes
More immersive experiences for all the doggies and puppies out there! This audio is designed to allow you to puppy play along if you so choose. Follow your Dog Trainer's instructions and be the good puppy you know you can be!
Well come here my little puppy. Practice makes perfect. And I am going to make you work hard for your reward today.
DISCLAIMER - This is NOT how a real M/s, O/p, or D/s relationship works. This is for entertainment and fantasy purposes. *For entertainment purposes only. Any play in public should be done with the consent of everyone, including anyone watching.*
As a 50-year-old sex educator, I’ve spent my career helping others feel comfortable talking about topics often shrouded in stigma. Yet, when it came to my own family, I faced an unexpected struggle. I never broached the topic of pelvic floor health with my mom, partly due to discomfort and assumptions. Now, as she grapples with a pelvic floor issue, I realize how important these conversations are—no matter how awkward they may feel.
Braving the Stigma and Shame
Pelvic floor health affects everyone, yet it remains under-discussed, especially among older generations. Our mothers and grandmothers may not have grown up with the same open discussions around health and wellness that we promote today. Tbh, my mom has only just recently accepted the fact that I’m not a virgin. Like many others, I avoided the topic with my mom, thinking it would be too personal or embarrassing for her. Looking back, I’m disappointed with myself for not breaking the taboo and talking with her about it.
She’s going to be fine. She has to use an insertable spacer *cough* dildo *cough* to help position her bladder correctly and the gyno taught her how to do Kegel exercises. I can’t help but think if I had spoken up earlier, perhaps I could have helped her access support sooner.
Start Talking Now
Now that she talked about her condition with me, I’ve learned an important lesson: it’s never too late to have these conversations. Even if there’s initial discomfort, talking about pelvic health with our loved ones can reduce shame, provide clarity, and open doors to care. We owe it to ourselves and the people we care about to normalize these discussions.
It’s also never to late to start doing Kegels for yourself. You can find a lot of practical and fun ‘equipment’ similar to this to help you in your endeavor.
For those who might be in a similar position, my advice is simple: Don’t wait. Start the conversation now. Whether it’s about pelvic health or any other sensitive topic, being open can make all the difference. It’s okay if it feels awkward—you’ll be glad you did it.
There’s a medieval torture device called the iron chair. I understand it better than I ever wanted to. Here’s why.
My ergonomic office chair broke. No, wait! Hear me out! While I waited for a new one to arrive, I had to come up with some creative seating options. I’m on camera teaching most of the day, so I needed a solution at a certain height. Unfortunately, my best match was this camp chair/folding stool. https://amzn.to/4enq6GE
Even with a pillow on it, after sitting on it for several hours straight it started to hurt. A lot. The iron chair had spikes on it and my camp stool did not, but you could have fooled me.
First came discomfort.
Then out right pain. I couldn’t sit still and had to tell my students why I was moving around so much. I must have said ‘my butt hurts’ 1000 times. The guests at my monthly munch even got to hear the story.
I can totally see using this for a scene. Warning though, after a couple of days I started to have nerve pain so long-term siting is not recommended. By the 4th day of this just seeing the stool made me want to cry. I was never so happy as when my new ergo chair showed up.
New kinks less pain.
There are so many ways to discover new kinks and if a kink is right for you. If you’d like less painful ways to discover, then join me in my class, Unlock and Share Your Core Kinks Online Class listed here on the Cage.
Also, feel free to post your favorite finds in the comments!
You've gone and done it this time. Really pissed of your Yandere Girlfriend. Now she's saying goodbye... Can you change this?
This audio contains degradation. Abandonment. Individuals who enjoy exploring these themes will be delighted with name calling and put downs.
Yandere * FemDom * Control
Listen here:
Another treat from my Project MoriKai!
You're invited to play along... though only do so if your doctor has cleared you for extreme work outs. Discover how deeply stress positions can torment your body.... and mind... With your favorite FemDom as its conductor...
DISCLAIMER - This is NOT how a real M/s or D/s relationship works. This is for entertainment and fantasy purposes.
Enjoy!
Our most important play partner is ourselves. We so often talk about the search for a play partner. While that can be fun it can also leave you feeling lonely and left out. Even if you do have a partner, there may be times that they’re ill/unable or far, far away. Time to get your solo kink on. Not only is kink possible on your own, it comes with some great advantages!
Self-Discovery
Embarking on solo kink adventures provide a unique opportunity for self-discovery. When you're alone, you have the freedom to explore your interests, preferences, and values without external influences. It's a chance to listen to your inner thoughts, reflect on your aspirations, and make decisions based solely on your desires.
You can try many different things on yourself to see if you like them. As a Top, I always try my toys on myself first before I use them on others. You can take a more scientific approach to see if you like different implements. Without the pressure to please someone, you can truly get in touch with yourself. As a top, target practice is a thing – a thing you can do by yourself.
Risk Management
As with every type of play, make sure you have a comprehensive understanding of your risk profile. What risks are you willing to take? Plan ahead, perhaps even arrange a safe call.
Cupping
Both fire cupping and suction and be performed on oneself. Suction cupping might perhaps be a bit easier. Either way, your thighs and midriff are excellent targets for this activity. Many people enjoy suctioning on their genitals. You have the freedom to experiment with how much suction you’d like the cups to deliver. When you know what you like, you can clearly communicate it to a partner should you choose to play with one.
Self-Bondage
Self-Bondage is a kink in and of itself. It does come with risks you should make sure you’ve prepared for. Ensure you learn as much as you can about it before you try it and make safety a priority. That being said, you can explore how you feel with different types of rope. In a rope class I took I learned a lot by tying my own legs in different knots, etc. While rope is not my strong point, I went to the class alone, I learned a lot and had a great time.
Abrasion Play
I love this as a sensory play. Yes, I love it when I have a partner who can do it for me, I love it just as much (if not more) when I do it for myself. I’m just as likely to drop in that yummy masochist-space when I do it for myself. I have a tendency to go farther when I’m alone – I don’t safe out on myself as quickly as a partner might.
Parasocial Play
If you enjoy hypnosis, tasks, or a wide range of other kinks, there’s a good chance you can find a content creator who has a vast library of experiences in which you can indulge. Solo Kink was one of my motivations for Project MoriKai. You can find some of my library here on the Cage in my blog.
This is just a brief sampling of what you can do alone. Truly, the list is endless. So remember, you always have a partner. Sometimes you’re your own partner. And that’s the best partner to have. Enjoy!
How do you solo kink? I invite you to share in the comments.
Our second visit to the Conservatory of Dark Delights brings us the following listed below. Listen right here on TheCage!
Part One Talking Points
Changing perspective with the questions you ask yourself: What if you come out as X and people like it?
Pro/con lists of being yourself.
Risk assessment.
To find others, be yourself.
The community vs my community.
Part 2 Talking Points
Camio of my bunny
Here me stumble over talking about r*pe fantasy. I left this in to show that I still have nerves about expressing what I like in fiction, and I do it anyway
Conservatory of Dark Delights’ mission is to hold a safe space for individuals with unique identities and interests while fostering acceptance of diverse sexual orientations and erotic expressions through information, education, and joyful presence.