I myself am a very independent strong minded female.
My career is demanding and I must maintain full control all day.
In my earlier sexual experiences I was very open minded and was able to separate sex and emotions. I had many open relationships and enjoyed men and woman.
Then I gave up control and put down the emotional walls around me and got married. Dont get me wrong I voluntarily gave up a lot of my control happily. Problem is now that the marriage is over I know have to rediscover who I am.
I hate when I have to fit into a box, meaning, I am classified as a switch. I enjoy giving power, but I also enjoy recieving power. I want to experience everything and truelly see what it is that makes me tick.
Sub in training
So far I am resisting and giving in. I am beginning to trust my Dom. I am letting down the emotional walls and being honest how I truelly feel and what I want.
This is going to take work and trust to fully open up, but I am willing to give in to my submissive side.
I am under construction