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I have heard many claim that if all of a sudden the world let go of their religious fears or oppressive judgment of all forms of sexuality, or if nothing seemed to shock or disgust non-kinky people anymore, that kinky sex would lose it's appeal and rush.

The idea that what makes something "kinky" in part is BECAUSE of the fact that it is socially unacceptable, or shocking/offensive to those who we consider weak minded sexually.

The rebellion against our conservative upbringing and the thrill of sexual independence in spite of how bad we were told it was, actually makes us more aroused every time we do it.

Is this true for you??
Perverted Podcast wants to know and explore this conversation!!!

From my point of view...which is of course the correct god-like answer...I say YES...and....ummmm...NO!! lol

This is not just about sex.
It's about identity and how we wish to view ourselves sexually.
I love being a sex rebel.
It feeds my confidence and identity as someone who, "doesn't follow the norm" which makes me feel special, and I apparently have a strong psychological need to feel special and different.

For me...I would admit that certain role play scenarios like religious play or age play are enhanced by societies lack of acceptance for being aroused by such things.

But...on a intimate level...I think in the moment of being sexual with someone...I'm going to love biting and ripping at her flesh even if the world is ok with it.
I'm going to love flogging her, lighting her on fire, zzzzaping her and ALL her damn friends with my violet wand.
And of course, I'm still gonna love putting things in her butt!

I wonder if the people that believe that sex would become lame if the world accepted kinks are avoiding sharing their knowledge of safer sane and consensual kink with the world because they are afraid of their own kink losing it's edge.

I personally would trade a few role plays losing their flavor in order to stop people from losing their jobs over being kinky...and I also know that even if everybody thinks my kinks are ok...my sex is still amazingly fucking hot!!
With or without your approval.

love and cookies!
Boogie

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Written by Abyss

In medical triage the standard of care is doing the most good for the most people, patients are color coded and tagged. Black tags are for those who are past any hope of survival with the allotted resources and are allowed to die, red tag for those who with immediate care have a chance of pulling though, yellow for those who can wait to be treated for a few hours, and is green for those with minor injuries otherwise known as the walking wounded. In life most of us haven’t lived without at least becoming the emotional walking wounded, but sometimes people fall into the critical color codes.

Having to do emotional triage on friends is heart breaking and some of the outcomes to my decisions still haunt me. A friend is a person who you invest your time, support, and love into. Friendship is all about the natural ebb and flow of good and bad, the celebrations with the sorrows, and the give and take of interpersonal relationships. When a friend enters into a critical time in their lives, be it from outside forces or a crisis within themselves. Those who care about them rally support and in medical terms start doing compressions, trying to keep that life blood flowing. Even with all that love and support they receive it is ultimately up to the patient if they are going to survive. The people who have the drive and the will to fight are the ones who normally have the most favorable outcomes. Those who give up or choose to live in a world of denial despite the diagnosis are the ones who code, dragging their rescuers down with them. If that friend is one who is unwilling to take the needed steps in order to overcome that crisis they have broken the arms of those who are trying to help lift them up. It then becomes the responsibility of the rescuer to triage that person; a red tag may have to be downgraded to a black tag, you can’t do compressions forever.

The first rule in an emergency situation is to ensure your safety before trying to help others; you’re no good to anyone if your dead, this apply to emotional triage as well. As a friend It takes every fiber of your being to resist that overwhelming urge to help them as they struggle but one must make sure that that their own life line is in place before reaching out. When that friendship becomes unbalanced and loses altitude it is time to take a look around and see if your assistance is going to put yourself in danger and if so is the risk worth it or are you just turning that unresponsive patient’s sternum into mush. If the friend is still fighting to stay alive, do another set but if they have given up, it may be time to call the T.O.D.

Letting these friends go can be one of the hardest decisions a person can make but if the person they are trying to support is unwilling to do what is needed to survive that relationship becomes toxic and the love shared becomes bitter. As with any relationship both parties must take a personal inventory of the situation, if the efforts of either person are proving to be detrimental it may be time to step back and distance themselves from the friendship. It is hard but for your own safety and wellbeing you sometimes have to just let them go. Secure your own mask before assisting others…

The desire to feel safe and protected, so you can let go of your socially instilled adult poopy pressures, is actually pretty universal.

"Perception" of the activities is the only thing that makes someone fear being a Little or having Little playtime.

" What will people think of me if they see me coloring, or playing in a blanket fort?"
" Talking in child voice isn't something a grown person should do! "

Ohhhhhhhh....but it's perfectly ok for millions of people to jump and cheer and throw chips and beer at the TV while grown men and women are running around on a field, banging into each other to chase a ball??
Or, pay money to see "actors" play cops and robbers in movies and plays???
Rrrrrrrrright....lol

We all play.
We all use activities, games/sports, travel and hobbies to distract us from the responsibilities
we surround ourselves with.
We all need to let go so we can heal and regenerate.
It's part of our physiology.
We are one of the only creatures on this planet who continually engages our sympathetic nervous system (fight or flight response) by continually thinking about our problems or potential problems.
That system is only meant to give our muscles a quick burst to get out of danger in the wild when a crocodile or some predator is trying to make snackies out of our butts.
By having stress and worry in our life, that system is working constantly and engaging our muscles to the point of chronic pain and health issues.

We need to "play" because for many it's the only way to distract our thinking from the worry that engages that stress response and lets us get us back to our Para-sympathetic state (resting, healing).

Our best, natural state of play...for many was stolen from us back when we were kids.

When we played as young children, that was the most free alive time in our lives.
We had the least amount of social pressure, prejudice , body image issues and intolerance for others.
It was an amazing time of creativity, silliness and discovery.
We could be a pirate, or a zebra in a zoo.
We could draw a picture of a horse that looked like a blob and nobody judged us for not being perfect.

THEN...someone told us "YOU CAN'T DO THAT!...ACT YOUR AGE!...STOP BEING A BABY!!...GROW UP!" and our career as a free spirit ended, and shame and guilt became a motivator in changing our behavior to how other adults thought we should act.
Adults who most likely had someone else stop their free spirit, and thus are programmed to think it's healthy to cut off "childish games" at a certain age.

Some of us never even got a little bit of play as a child, due to deaths, and divorces, poverty and poor environments etc., where you had to grow up quicker to survive or care for other siblings.

Well...I'm an adult...and I say POPPYCOCK!!! BULLOCKS!!! and BULLPOOP!!

You can have a creative childhood RIGHT NOW!
You don't need permission from other adults to take breaks from your grown up responsibilities in a way that makes you happy.
You absolutely can give yourself permission to identify with that state of being that is innocent and centering.

Please understand that no one can shame or judge you for pretending to be that young child, if you take away their emotional power to do so.

Some people have Little play in their lives only for a while to make peace with having it taken from them.
Some it is more regular and have Mommy/Daddy - boy/girl relationships.

You can act any age you want when you play, and you
don't have to color in the lines if you darn well don't want to!

love4u
Count Boogie

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