Compassion With A Firm Hand

I get the odd out of blue DM’s asking if I can give them a task so I’ve decide to share the odd one. If you get excited to accomplish a given task fantastic! If you want to DM me that you completed one then great. If you don’t want to great as well.

Task 2 - Tight Nipple
Before head out (shopping, dinner, walk, etc) one wide elastic (not thin). With one nipple wrap it around until you can feel just enough pressure before getting too tight. If needed back off one overlap.

Once ready you can put your bra on and continue as intended. While out it’s harder to stop and relieve this pressure. So again not to tight but enough. When you need a break visit a bathroom or private space and release it. With same nipple pinch and pull it to help with some of the tightness. Once good either continue without elastic or put it back on in the same fashion and repeat. Some may make it one round, some a few. Keep count.

** The point is not to have it to tight that it hurts. Please do not wrap it to tight. The point is that if your nipple can get hard and get a regular size elastic around it that it’s just a small amount of pressure. With a bra on it’s felt but not hurting. Again the point is not pain but feel and irritation and some nipples are better at this than others 😄  

You’re not to put the elastic on your other nipple. This is for one breast not both and the other is not to be played with.

I get the odd out of blue DM’s asking if I can give them a task so I’ve decide to share the odd one. If you get excited to accomplish a given task fantastic! If you want to DM me that you completed one then great. If you don’t want to great as well.

Task 1 - Ice
Head off and get yourself a glass of ice (pour yourself a glass of water and put a few whole ice cubes into your water if not home alone so no questions about glass with just ice) then head to the bathroom and strip down taking your underwear off but leaving your tops on. In kneeling position spread your legs and take one or multiple ice cubes and slowly insert into hole of choice. Once inserted hold tight and rest your hands to your knees. Breath slowly feeling the rush of coldness. If you can hold tight not to drip great. If you drip you can clean after.

Once the coldness has subsided you can continue with your day or clean up.

My sub behind closed doors is mine to control, direct, lead and play with!

My sub to the world is my queen, my princess and my EQUAL that I would do anything for! 

Just my own $0.02, nothing in stone here! 

As odd as it sounds and sure it back fires a lot for myself 😄 the best thing to do is chat with multiple even when you have interest in one because he’s nice, or strict or demanding in a way that turns you on. 

Many are still new to either D/s IRL or online and still getting a feel for your own interests, limits and boundaries. 

Chat with multiple to get a feel for their direction, kinks, preference and most importantly connection between the two of you. 

When you have someone of interest they will always be at the back of your mind over another so if you can connect with multiple but have the urge to keep going back to that one then they could be that connection you’re looking for. 

With that said they could move along as well so it is a bit of a cat and mouse game. 

Most importantly be up front and truthful to the other and yourself. Online is easier to open up and being up front from the start can help two either connect faster or end it faster rather than dragging it out and finding there’re differences in opinions, thoughts, kinks and your outlooks. 

Again just my two cents but I feel if two can establish that connection and friendship and still have that D/s dynamic then there is a greater chance for two individuals to jive and build that bond and foundation of respect and trust. 

Happy hunting everyone :) 

Dom, Sir, Mistress, Sub, Slave or one of the many titles we all wear we’re all equal!

Equal is sharing trust, respect no matter Dom or Submissive.

Submissive you need to be strong willed and open but still in control.

Control you can still give up within your desire, comfort and direction.

Direction is to be wanted and never feared or disrespectful.

Disrespectful …. is uncalled for and not deserving of being labeled a Dom!!

Laying to your backside we fell asleep with a firm hold of you pulled into me. I feel your deep breathing with every breath as your stomach and chest push against my rest hand. I feel the warmth of your smooth backside, I feel……… I feel, soft yet pressure? It’s different. I fell asleep purposely with my drained dick in your ass but unlike other times I did not slide out. It’s a different sensation, I’m now soft, limp, and feeling stuck but now with every thought, I can feel a twitch, a surge of flow. It’s a different feeling as I try to slowly pull back but it’s unpleasant. I’m still soft and with each slight pull uncomfortable but still, I can feel myself to be getting firm and harder as I’m already in your tight ass.

As I'm starting to feel myself slowly get harder ..... this is "harder" being already inside you with you gripping tightly so it's not very pleasurable right now but the thought of your tight hole excites me.

I reach up and as you still deeply breathe I softly cup your breast and pull myself into your backside even more and slowly attempt to push myself into you to break free a little bit but I'm still not moving.

With your hand still cupped I reach for your nipple and give it a slight pinch and listen for you. You move a bit but nothing. With more pressure, I slowly start to twist and pull on your nipple. I'm almost at this point full and hard.

"I feel you" ...... you say softly as you wrap one hand around my side.

"Did you fall asleep in my ass?" with a slight laugh ..... "that's new!"

I lean in and start to lightly nibble the back of your neck. I reach up and slightly tilt your head so I can get to your ear. I give it a slight nibble as I intentionally and slowly wet my tongue and lick your ear. I wet my tongue more and drag it along the side and back of your ear. I feel your tension as you know what I'm doing. ......... then I stop, I pause then slowly with a deep breath I breathe a heavy warm flow of air over your wet ear which sends you an immediate shiver and as you try to move i grip you tighter then softly bite down on your ear as I pull my tongue up the back of your ear. I feel you starting to squirm as shivers of pleasure hit you.

I now feel movement, I can start to slide into you more. I can slowly thrust into you, I want you to feel me, feel my pleasure.

With my hand, I slide down to your soft peach and slowly insert one finger to feel your warm wetness. I move my finger around just enough to get some wetness then slide my hand back up to your breast nipple to softly spread your wetness around it's tip. Then with two fingers I softly but firmly pinch and twist your nipple. I feel you arch as I pull on your tipple and at the same time I softly bite and breath heavily onto your ear with again another firm trust into you.

I stop ...... I pause ...... I then whisper into your ear

"On the floor, waiting position ass up!"

Without question, you slowly roll to the side of the bed as I slide out of your tight hole then onto the floor. Not a word is said, you know you're to get to your knees, bend over with hand stretched out above your head to present your tight goodness in the air.

I get up and sit at bedside, I take a moment to look over your smooth sexy body stretched out waiting. I grasp my dick and stroke it a few times as I stand up. I move to your backside and lean over and with my tongue good and wet I take a slow swipe of your tight whole. One slide across slowly to dip the tip of my warm tongue into the shallow of your hole and across to then stand back up.

I reach over to the dresser and with a sound pop of the top, I open the top of the lube, grab it, and from waist heigh slowly pour some into one hand then move above your waiting ass as it slowly drips down ....... you squirm from the coldness hitting your crack before it starts to drip down to your waiting hole.

with a few strokes of my lubed-up hand, I place the bottle down then take a look at my waiting princess on the floor anticipating my tip to be pushing at her hole ..... SLAP!!! A firm slap to your ass cheek without letting go.

........ SLAP!!! another firm grasp of my waiting toy.

I stroke my hard shaft a few more times then pull back from my throbbing head as I lean forward pressing just enough into your waiting hole so you can feel me.

I push slow to start to spared that hole, I move back then push again as my head feels your hole opening up and firmly gripping my tip as I continue to push in. I pause for a moment as i release my grip and rest one hand along your waist side then my other I grab a hand full of hair and as I start to pull back on your hair pulling your head up I thrust my waiting hungry cock into your warm waiting ass as deep as I can go. I purposely try to throb and move my dick around to feel your tight lubed up warm asshole gripping my hard cock as deep as I can down your hole. It feels so warm, tight, and yet so familiar as this hole I use the most.

I release your waist then grasp the front of your neck as I'm still pulling back on your hair and pull you up high enough that you're reaching the tip of your fingers to then give you a soft kiss to your side cheek.

"Good girl! Good Princess!"

I start to slide my hard cock in and out of your ass slowly and with each trust I try to go deeper knowing I can't go any further but I want you to feel me as much as possible, feel my hard goodness deep down inside your hole!

After a slow but pleasuring fuck hole session I release your neck and hair and while still deep in your ass ....

"KNEEL!" ....

You pull your ass from my dick to then kneel down and locking your hands behind you with your face up and facing forward.

"Good girl!" ....

I walk to your front side and with my hand, with a soft but firm touch under your chin and my other hand laying on the back of your head ....

"OPEN" ....

I start to slide my throbbing cock into your mouth and slide it down your throat to then with force hold your face into my goodness tight so you can feel me. You start to get a reflex but you do what you can to stop.

As I let go of your head ....

"FINISH!" ....

Now you release your hands so you can grip my warm balls in one hand as your wrap your lips around me. You start with my head trying to insert your tongue into my tip and move your tongue around then down the shaft into your throat and in a smooth motion back and forth.

Your sweet mouth feels so warm and wet and I can feel my pleasure building and so can you. You slow it down to give me some time to cool down then back to my throb head playing with the hole then back down my shaft and as I start to feel myself arching back with and stomach muscles getting tighter I let myself go, I let my warm fluid jerk into your mouth as you then bury my throbbing cock down your throat pressing tightly against me to push it as far down your throat as possible. You can feel my cock twitching and throbbing with every ounce of cum dripping out and with the warm feeling sliding down your throat.

"Good Girl! Good Princess!" ....

I pull back as you grip my cock tightly with your lips to get every bit of my shaft to its tip.

I pull out of your mouth and with two-finger under your chin I tilt your head up ....

"Good Girl!" .....

As I lean in to give you a kiss on your lips then a bite of your bottom lip to feel your tongue along with the warm stickiness and taste of my goodness still lingering in your mouth ......

Close your eyes, as I come up from behind and slide my hands up your smooth warm skin, arm for arm I grasp your hands and press you up against the wall as I slowly pull myself firmly into your backside.

Keep your eyes closed as I slowly run the tip of my nose ever so lightly along your shoulder, I pull my waist into your backside so you can feel my hardness below. I release your hands “keep your hands against the wall!”. I kneel down and softly slide my hands down your backside to your waist to your tight ass, down your legs. I softly kiss the back of your leg, softy kiss here and there softly as I slowly move my arms along your thighs. I reach ur ass and move across and again softly kiss down your other smooth leg.

I pull back and just stare at you “keep your eyes closed and hands up!”. I quietly stand up and very slowly lean in and as I softly grab your waist side all of a sudden I warmly and softly kiss the back of your ear when you don’t expect it. I slowly and softly slide my hands up, I pull you away from the wall as I continue to kiss the curved smoothness of your neck, and very softly and slow I move my hands around your waist side to firmly pull my hardness into your backside then slide my hands softly down to your warm wet goodness below.

I go back to lightly kissing your ear, you can feel my warm wet lips and warm breath over your ear as I slowly start to turn you around, push you slowly against the wall, I run my hand from your wet goodness up your stomach, up over your breast, around your nipple the slowly I slide my hand up towards your neck, staring into your eyes, hand slowly touches your neck, slide my finger under your chin then lean in, and slowly go to give you a kiss on the lips but right before our lips meet I quickly and firmly grasp your throat and push you firmly against the wall. I have pressure around your throat just enough that you can take a full breath. Your eyes are wide open, you feel your heart racing in excitement.

What’s going to happen here is that you will listen to me, do as I say, and only talk when I ask you a question. Do you agree? I release your throat just a little waiting for your response and as you go to respond I quickly and firmly grasp and push you hard into the wall again.
I release your throat, and with both hands, I slowly start to slide them down your side as I stare into your eyes.

I pinch each nipple and start to pull slowly ……. now I don’t want to hear from you, no sounds nothing! I continue to pull, I can see your face, it’s getting uncomfortable, I’ll pull a little more then let go.
Now turn around, turn around and grasp your ass and spread! You turn around, and before you have time to grasp your tight ass I firmly slap your right ass. You flinch and make a noise “I said I don’t want to hear from you! Stand still!” I slap your ass again and you flinch ……. “I said stand still, the more you move the harder it will be!” I whisper into your ear, do you want me to slap your ass again? “You say no” …….. I slap your ass even harder! …… again I whisper into your ear …. “I asked you do you want me to slap your ass” …….. you say yes then I give it one more nice firm slap …… now that was nice wasn’t it? You have a nice red ass.
Now do as I said, bend over and spread that ass, I want to taste that tight ass. You do as I say, I get on my knees grasp your ass and I slowly lean in …… “now are you a good girl, or are you my dirty little bitch?” …… “do you want me to eat your ass? do you want me to fuck your tight ass with my tongue? …….
Of course, your answer is you are my dirty little bitch, yes you want me to tongue fuck your ass!
I lean in and slowly run my wet warm tongue over your tight goodness, back and forth then slowly circle then lean back and spit on your hole then slide a finger in. As I do this I feel my hard cock twitching and throbbing.

I pull my finger out then back with my tongue but this time I insert it, I grasp your ass firmly and pull nice and hard to bury my tongue into you as much as I can, I can hardly breathe but I continue to my move my tongue around in your ass.
I pull away …… get on your fucking knees, now take a lick off the head of my dick ….. you lean forward and reach for my hard cock …… I reach down and with my hand on your face push back firmly, I said lick it, didn’t say touch it! I let go of your face and give you a slight tap but hard enough that you know I’m serious.
Now take a lick! You go to lean in again and you slowly start to slide your tongue across my throbbing Head …… mmmmm that feels good!
After maybe 20seconds I pull away, that’s enough….. now I want to just watch you! Go grab that big dildo …….. you look at me surprised, you were doing such a good job …….. go the fuck over there and grab that dildo!

Now I want you to turn around and bend over, grab that dildo and I want you to fuck that tight ass, reach behind and get it in there!

I sit back down and say nothing, I just grasp my dick and slowly stroke it.
Ok move closer to me, I want to see how tight that is!
Stop, pull it out! I lean forward and take one lick off your ass then lean back …… ok I’m done with you! Go away until you feel the need to relieve yourself!

Again you look at me dumbfounded …… I said go, I’m done with you for now!

It’s been a bit now, you’ve calmed down and now you have that urge. You come back but know not to talk, ….. you know what, How about a shower? Let’s go to the bathroom.
I want you to kneel down, close your eyes!
Takes a few seconds but you feel calm, not sure what’s going to happen…….. quick grasp at your throat and you open your eyes, I give you a slight tap across the face, I said close your fucking eyes!
I lean forward after you close your eyes, still firmly holding your neck with just enough pressure that you’re slightly gasping for a breath. I lean over and give a light soft kiss to your forehead and let go of your neck.

I lean over, grab your nipples again and pull just a little, and lean over and whisper …….. now I’m going to slowly eat your goodness, but stop fucking shaking!

I lean back then get down and start to nibble on your wet soaked pussy lips that taste oh so good...........

Stepping through the doorway after a romantic night out with candle lit dinner along the water's edge as the sun set over the smooth almost glistening ocean. Ended dinner with a quiet walk along the shoreline skipping rocks to end what seemed like a never ending busy week. It’s good to finally relax, with one another company, cuddle up to enjoy a monte night at the water's edge. 

……. With sand still falling off our shoes getting through the door I take my jacket off, tap my shoes as I place them onto the mat to turn around as you start to undress to your weekend attire. Your red hot, smooth to the touch, skin tight latex outfit that you’ve been wearing all evening starts to show bit by bit. I walk over as you stand in front of me with no words to be said you stare forward as I walk over to my cozy chair to sit down. You finish undressing then kneel down with the sound of your tight ass pushing into the rubbery tight latex bottom. You kneel down into your waiting position. Moments later I ask you to come over. You slowly crawl on all four over to me … “READY Position” you sit down onto your back legs, I lean over with my hand softly cupping and caressing the side of your face. “That was good” …. I lean forward and give you a kiss on the lips, I pause, then lean your head forward for a soft kiss on your forehead. I sit back then open up the latex sitting armside. I open it up and slide your red tight mask over your head and slide it down to cover your face. 

OK…… DADDY is hungry but I’m hungry for that fucking mouth of yours but first, over to the kitchen table and lay down! Daddy wants his evening dessert! 

Without a word being said as you know once we step through that door you’re only to speak when asked a question or when given permission you head over to the kitchen table and crawl up to the table onto your backside with your legs spread and ankles locked to your sides with your hands.

I walk over to the kitchen first to grab a drink of water. As I stand drinking a small glass of water I feel my dick getting tight, I feel it getting firm ……. I reach down with one hand to firmly press against my self and feel my hardness.

I walk over and firmly grab one brest, It’s tight! It’s firm and warm to the touch. For the evening you were wearing it and not allowed to take it off so it’s almost apart of you with every move.

I walk around and pull out my chair then sit down. With my whole hand I firmly press down between your legs with my fingers digging in a downward motion to feel that goodness. It to is warm and wet. 

I reach to each side of your legs and try to pull you up the table towards me but feel and hear the table move with you.

I reach back and start to unzip what is locked away between those legs. My ownership, my property, my evening dessert! 

Open to the air you feel the coolness of the open air on your lips. My god those lips are tight as a peach with the smoothness of silk. I feel my dick get that much harder as I grab your legs and lean in to take a mouth full of your wet lips to slowly suck the juices from. I want to feel your warmth in my mouth, I want to feel your goodness as I slide my tongue and split those tight lips. I want to taste you!

As I enjoy the flavour of my delight I can feel you squirm, I feel you arching that back all while trying to be as quiet as possible.

After a good sitting I can feel your sticky juices moving, I can feel it on my lips and chin as I peel myself away. 

“Do you want to CUM?” …. Yes you answer…… please DADDY! Please Sir ……

At this point I slide in just a finger with your quickly arching with quick pleasure. I feel you qruirming that much more in excitement.You let go of your heels and grip the table edge.

“That’s not the position!” …. You quickly let go of the tables edge and grab your heels but it’s too late. 

Get down, zip your hole up and go get the wand ….. The stick wand! 

Without a word you get down from the table and zip up the fuck hole ….. “Don’t you fucking cum!” …. You’re still shivering from the excitement and pleasure you were receiving moments earlier.

You head to the bedroom to get the wand and while reaching down you pickup one of your dildos and feel it slapping around wish it was that you were getting but it’s the wand, the stik instead. 

You return to the living room where I’m now sitting and get down on your knees in your READY position with the wand laying on the ground in front of you. 

“Do you want a hot red ass from this or do you want to go to bed for the night? You either get one red hot ass cheek or you can be done for the night and go right to bed. Which do you choose?”

As quick as you grabbed the tables edge you say ASS! 

“Good GIRL!” …. Now first, crawl to your toys and bring back the lube and your favorite tail …. Yes you can have your tail right now. 

You turn and head back. You pick out the medium sized stainless steel plug with the soft black fur that reaches to the floor. 

You get back to my side and once into your READY position I tell you to turn. You get to all fours and turn around. 

I lean over and unzip your tight backside. The red bright rubber is just pulling at your skin with every move but you love it.

I grab the bottle of lube and spread some onto my hand then over the end of the plug ….. “What a tight fuckable ass!” …. I slide one finger in slowly to warm you up. I then slide in another then another. I move my fingers around in your tight ass until I feel you relaxed. I then take the plug and slowly, bit by bit pushing into your ass. I stop then pour a little lube over your hole. I then try again until It starts to slide in. 

“Now isn’t that a nice ass?” You can feel me tugging at your tail until it leaves my hand and drops to the back of your legs and floor.

“Ok, so what were we going to do next?” ……………….