Just cause

Hello, i wanted to know if any other subs have gone through or experience this.

I have come to realize that almost the majority of Doms on this platform are only looking for Slaves and many are only Masters.

I want to know if there have been subs who don't fall in the category of Slaves, having to change their dynamic or thinking about changing because of so few Doms interested in a dynamic other then Master/Slave?

I feel that its complicated to find a true Dom that is interested in other dynamics and interested in trying to start off as friends before going into a dynamic.

Every Dom i talk to is either interested in sex or ghosts me the moment i try to set boundaries and try to vet them.

Its frustrating and sad to see and i wonder if its worth it to try and find a Dom or maybe i'm better off by myself.

I'm just curious but are there any other Bdsm groups or websites that are like this one? 

I only see one's that look like people are waiting to scam you or something.

I'm a little and because of certain reasons i've had to lock that part of me up

My question is, how does someone connect with their little side after being forced not to acknowledge it for so long? I can feel that part of me strongly, it's there but I can't reach it. 

I feel lost

Um...i wanted to write this post because I'm looking for some answers if that's okey.

I wanted to ask why there's so much stigma when it comes to (ddlg, abdl, ddlb, mdlg, mdlb)??

I've been feeling outcasted because I define myself as a little and I don't exactly know why being a little is such a weird thing?

Kinda confused actually 

But like with littles, I've seen posts where daddies and mommies get attacked and I don't understand why its such a big deal

Since I'm still new to the lifestyle I would really appreciate any advice, comments etc..

I just want to learn more and at the same time figure out why there's so much stigma in this aspect of bdsm.

(Thank you for reading)

I don't understand the workings in this place

I love coming here and meeting new people and having good conversations but I'm completely hurt and confused.

I just got called a bitch and that I'm not a real sub just cause I was honest with the person.

I put in my profile for any who enters a notice that I can be a very honest person but I mean no harm yet I have a dom writing me as though just because I'm a sub i need to bend to his will and I don't even know him. He doesn't introduce himself properly and on top tries act as though he could act or do what he wants.

When I call him out on it (and mind you I am a bratty sub but I still give respect where its earned)  I get called a bitch and a fake sub.

Does me being honest and telling things how I feel them make me a bitch??

Am I a not a real sub just because I didn't want to bend to this particular dom's will??

I don't know and I just feel utterly confused..

(Sorry for the rant)

I'm so very bored
There's not a single Dom in 3 years that I can say I want to connect with. Every single one of them turned out to want sex or an abusive relationship and to completely honest I just don't feel like I can trust a Dom anymore "sigh" I feel so very lonely 
Anyway that's all.