3 years ago. June 16, 2020 at 9:52 AM
When people hear BDSM, they tend to associate it with general sadism. BDSM can, in fact, be sweet, fulfilling, and creative. What gets lost is the understanding, effort, and responsibility that comes with being a Dominant or the simultaneous control and vulnerability that comes with being a submissive. In a healthy BDSM relationship, all partners aim to please each other, and the Submissive sets their own boundaries.