I have an issue,
Is it as a Dom, No, I am happy with my role.
Is it with a sub, No, I don’t have one presently but I am happy I will?
It’s with being a virtual/long distance Dom, I get how instruction can be given virtually, I get how confirmation of completion of tasks can be shown, I even get how corrective actions can be done, to ensure the sub gets better at the task. What I don’t get is the aftercare! Now I am a big believer in aftercare, it is in some ways the most important part of the session, it shows the respect the Dom has for the sub, the care the Dom lavishes on the sub to say everything is good (we are good or the sub saying to the Dom it’s all good), it’s in some ways the most intimate (not sexual, intimate) part of any session. But how does a Dom do it Virtually, it looses its meaning “go and run yourself a bath” instead of “I have run you a bath, let me help you to it”. I suppose both being snuggled up separately and talking, maybe reading to the sub or playing an online game together, both watching the same movie while on facetime are ways to give some aftercare, but its reduced in my eyes, is this ok as the sessions are reduced when done virtually?
So what do people do for Virtual aftercare for what “sessions”, what’s in your virtual aftercare kit?
what are people views on the virtual world, I know some prefer it, and some like me find it hard to fully comprehend how it works