Since I was little if some situation, in which I disclosed the whole truth, occured I always found my self in an argument or being blamed about something I didn't even do, just because the person whom I told the whole truth suspected I only tell her/him the truth to avoide something else... so as I grow up I learned, unconsciously, to avoide of disclosing the whole truth in order to avoid predicaments.
It is only a few days ago that I learned that I was doing it out of fear or out of me being insecure. I found here the most amazing lady on hearth and by her guiding me and her understanding she teach me to change the way I was wrongfuly acted and how to be whole again and not to avoide the complete truth. because the person who care about you will trust you and won't think that you tell this truth in order to avoid or conceal another.
especialy, in D/s way of life it is extra important to be completelly honest and truthful about everything.
establishing trust, honesty and communication in the relationship.
You should always TRUST the person you are submitting to and vice versa. Without that foundation anything that is built on it will crumble. Honesty can take a lot of courage, but once you are able to step out of that comfort zone it will be easier to understand each others’ desires and needs fully. Take the leap and it will be worth it!
I find it extremely relaxing to be able to turn my mind off and simply BE my Lady’s sub. Finding that place with her and knowing where I belong and what is expected of me takes the guess work out of every day.. it gives both Lady and myself control over our relationship on a level we couldn’t have found without D/s.
I want to dedicate this post to my Lady and show her my appreciation and my gratitude.
my gorgeous Lady, lladyluck
thank you for straighting me up and understand me.
and also Happy birthday