So I had this conversation w my old high school girlfriend while on vacation in Miami and it was on relationships. Typical girl stuff in which we both describe the types of men we look for or the types of relationships we would like to have... Which by the way she has no idea about me liking BDSM. And since she is a relationship and family therapist, she had posed the ideas of considering a polyandry relationship. Now my mind had envisioned the typical thought of one man with many women but no, she said polyandry, a relationship revolving around one centered woman and two men, or more if the relationship can handle such.
A light went off inside of me as my mind wheels began to turn. She said, the relationship can have many Dynamics. Each man can bring what is best for you in the relationship, you are the prize. One man can be purely platonic, maybe that friendly guy friend that you hang out with and do things with. You may have a romance and find him attractive, sensual, having a sexual intensity w this guy. The other guy may be wild, rough, dominating, alpha who is full of testosterone and excitement. It certainly had me thinking. She pointed me to a page on Instagram in which I followed reading profiles of women in such relationships. I can't lie, the thought of two dominating men who can put their egos aside to fulfill emotional and sexual needs, while treating me like a goddess, seems like heaven. Not sure I'd want to all live under one roof. I still enjoy my solitude, personal space, alone time. I would take turns hanging out with them and yet at the same time have days where we all hung out together (no homo). This definitely has me thinking. Hmmm..