*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hello - I'm looking for a dom. My husband has helped me understand that I need one and he is not. I'm not sure where to begin. Thanks!

Sat Mar 22, 2025 12:58 am • 3357 Replies • 1389192 Views

How did you get started.

How do you even get started? I'm not sure where to start...

Sat Mar 22, 2025 12:56 am • 21 Replies • 8979 Views

BULL - Anyone Have Experience With One?

I have one that I meet about once a week. It's been a game changer for our marriage. I was hesitant to try it a first but glad that I did. The reality is you need to be able to differentiate between l ...

Fri Feb 21, 2025 5:21 am • 16 Replies • 4209 Views

BULL - Anyone Have Experience With One?

I think he really wants to do it IRL and we use the fantasy to get off but I also think he wants me to leave him because he can't stand me and feels stuck - which then makes it hard to get into the fa ...

Fri Feb 21, 2025 5:15 am • 16 Replies • 4209 Views

BULL - Anyone Have Experience With One?

My husband wants us to get a bull so badly. In fact, his fantasy is to have me leave him and move in with bull. He is a switch too and in bed becomes sub to wife and bull (in his fantasy as we haven't ...

Sun Feb 16, 2025 11:58 pm • 16 Replies • 4209 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hello! Just starting out exploring this side of myself. Nice to see so many people here!

Sat Jan 25, 2025 6:26 am • 3357 Replies • 1389192 Views

Sub healing

So many heartfelt responses on this thread.

Sat Jan 25, 2025 6:20 am • 15 Replies • 3475 Views

Sub healing

Great topic! My view is that healing is down to the individual, whether that be Dom or sub (we all have our own wounds after all). It’s very much a non-linear journey, facing all the shadow sides of y ...

Fri Oct 11, 2024 8:00 am • 15 Replies • 3475 Views