BDSM DOM(dom male)
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5 years ago •
Oct 14, 2019
5 years ago •
Oct 14, 2019
I agree with everything Bunnie has mentioned in her forum post. And she is right, take things very slowly. This is not something to be taken lightly. It is an entire world changer. And I also want to point out another thing. She is right when she said this dynamic is formed over months or even years. So if you decide to pursue this lifestyle choice, be 100% sure.
So how do you educate yourself before you enter it. There is a couple of ways to learn about it
1. Visit websites that focuses on TPE. Like the one I gave you earlier (there is quite a few sites out there)
2. Talk to other people who are in to the lifestyle or have been in the lifestyle for some time (Preferably ones that has been in for years)
Those are the two things I would suggest.
But before you really get into it, consider these things:
1. Are you sure you want to do this? Be sure of this. (I cant express this enough)
2. Are your prepared to give up all rights and choices?
3. Are you sure your ready to hand over total control over of your life to that person?
4. Are you prepared that you might have to give up things you enjoy and or like?
5. Can you handle being told what to do, what to wear, how to look, where you can go and cant go, etc?
6. Can you handle having to ask for permission to do things? (there is a good chance, you will have to do this with your Master)
These are just a few factors you need to consider. There is a lot more than the ones above. These are just merely a few. But my biggest piece of advice other than researching this TPE Dynamic is this. Know yourself, know the other person very well. And always always ask questions, voice your concerns, don't hold back.
Because once your Master has total control over you, that will be it.
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