all you got to do is be his mistress and be firm and very disciplinarian to him. Get yourself and flogger, whip or belt and use it on him. He will appreciate it. get yourself a strapon dildo and tie him up and fuck him and he will be yours forever. just be stern and don't have much mercy until he learns you control him.. remember, be relentless and don't give him a break.
I know this because I am a very submissive slave to many mistresses and they fuck me in my ass anytime by whipping or tying me up and and making me their slave. I am a big sissy though and I fear women what they will do to me so I submit to them. I love being a slave a an attractive female. If you want a slave I will be yours?
thanks for reading ,
small correction here and its an important one or my lip will end up bleeding LOL. Not aimed the poster but the content.
If your going to do the above ^^^ suggestion PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE learn the safety that goes with these actions.
Floggers, whips and belts **IF** not used right can and most likely do damage such as broken bones, tearing skin or damage to internal organs. Additionally do you even know if he enjoys pain?
Strapons are not every-bodies friend in truth there are a lot of male submissive that do not like anal play. Some cannot do so due to medical reasons. Adding to this just jamming something up his ass and working it will cause damage, there is a learning curve to the action.
NOT ALL DOMMES AND NOT ALL SUBMISSIVE ARE STAMPED OUT BY THE SAME COOKIE CUTTER.
The only similarity we ALL share is the safety to the actions we might undertake.
I'm writing this not scare you but to make you aware you need to know the safety of the action before you jump in blindly and you need to understand the responsibility you are taking on. You also need to know this HE is what he is consenting too. There is also the emotional side to play too. also Aftercare.
if your not interested in what he wants, there nothing saying you need do it. If your serious about doing this for YOU then do the things YOU enjoy. If he is genuinely interested in you, then he will will wait for YOU to catch up on safety and the direction that you wish play to take. If he doesn't...well then there a million and one "slave gary's that will fill that void, gary just proved that point"
I know your looking for a direction and so far I haven't given you anything but how about starting with what rocks YOUR world. Study and learn about those things. Start small and add. You can always add to play each session, however you cannot take away a wrong action (frackup or damage caused)
You might also like to post when you break down just what rocks your world and and post learn on each specific act from there.
Femdom is about YOU and what YOU want. Then finding a submissive that fits those needs and play happens in the area where BOTH your needs met and sometimes a little on the edges (with more consent)
...if your going to take this path, make sure it is about you. There are many here on cage that will help you create your own journey but there are less that will offer you a blow blow, step step by step guide because being Dominant take more than recreating someone else scene.