Kink and vulnerability

cherilynn​(sub female) • Feb 7, 2022

I can't even imagine an exclusively online relationship. I know it works for others and that is great. No judgement. I just don't have that kind of patience and am easily distracted.

What I was thinking about in my post above was the fact that I find it hard to meet people off of websites like this one in general, whether it be for friendship or just to see if we click.
I just can't seem to connect with words on a screen.

When I do try, like others here, I don't feel a connection especially when I am the only one opening up in an endless ( what feels like ) interrogation.
So, I just quit being vulnerable with anyone except those I call friends.

Scarlett Sophie​(sub female) • Feb 22, 2022

Vulnerability is beyond complex. It is scary and beautiful, and when one feels safe enough to truly allow themselves to open up, share those innermost desires, fears, hopes, dreams, demons, it shows the power in the connection between each person. Some people have no struggle being vulnerable while others find it one of the most difficult obstacles to overcome within themselves. I feel everyone has a responsibility to discover their own relationship with their vulnerable side, and in turn communicate that with partners. I myself, know that I find it hard to be vulnerable with new people in my life, whether our relationship be platonic, sexual, or romantic. However, given the chance to connect with an individual, to feel out their energy in relation to my own, discover and explore one another both physically, mentally, and spiritually, I find myself yearning to not only gift that person my own vulnerability but to feel theirs as well. To simply be raw and real with one another.