Vega |
1 year ago •
Nov 17, 2022
Looking for advice on starting out.
1 year ago •
Nov 17, 2022
Vega • Nov 17, 2022
Hello. I am extremely new to this kind of thing. I only just recently realized I had an interest in this. The kind of relationship I’m seeking is one with strict rules that I follow, but not a 24/7 master/slave relationship as that would be too complicated for reasons I am unwilling to discuss here.
The rules I was thinking of are mostly related to physical care and exercise. For example “You must get at least x minutes of exercise each day” or “you must drink x amount of water each day.” I am working on setting up an agreement between me and my potential domme, but she has also advised that I make a post here with any questions I may have. So here I am, with questions. What are the most important boundaries to discuss first? How do I increase communication between me and my domme? Specifically, how do I allow myself to be more open to her? What are important things to think about when scening? How do I handle sub drop? If I refer to my domme as “mistress” or “ma’am” should I do that specifically inside scenes or outside them as well? In general, what advice would you give to a sub who is very new to a BDSM relationship? Thank you. Any help is appreciated. |
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