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Miss Anima​(dom female)
6 days ago • Feb 3, 2026
Miss Anima​(dom female) • Feb 3, 2026
CurvingSakura wrote:
TopekaDom wrote:
I fully know what boundaries and limits mean. More than likely, I have been doing this longer than you have (maybe longer than you have been born, but since you have no age on your profile, I can't make that assumption).

Different relationships have different structures and some Dom/mes have much more stringent guidelines than are often found today. Particularly amoung us Old Schoolers. I have, in the past, worked with male property, as well as female property. Everyone knew going in they would engage with same gender sexually. 3 or 4 times before any kind of scene started.

I've been sucked off by men and ass fucked same, but in my mind it does not really make me Bi. I didn't do it because I found them sexually attractive, but to Dominate. To me a hole is a hole.

The reason for this thread is to see if any Lesbians had such an experience and what they thought of it. Which laura was so kind to offer. (tbh: I never thought of a lesbian not knowing how to give a blowjob, which makes me a sexist, or genderist maybe.)


My profile actually does say I'm in my 40s. It also says I've been in the BDSM world for 13 years, so I assure you, my understanding of consent, especially when it comes to forced bi, is not lacking.

Just because the subs knew ahead of time that same sex contact was on the agenda does not necessarily mean they consented to it in their own best interest. That's not to say they didn't, either. I'm sure some did. I have seen a lot of subs consent to things they don't actually enjoy or that would be harmful to them just to please or impress a dominant though, and I find far too many dominants do not take this risk into account when assessing whether or not a scene is safe to play out.

If you have been turned on by sexual contact with men, and/or by instructing them to engage sexually with other men, then you are attracted to men, and would be some shade of bisexual. Straight men do not enjoy this kind of play in any way, shape, or form. I understand you are older and may have a different understanding for this because of the eras you grew up in and how unacceptable homosexuality and bisexuality were. I've witnessed and heard of many older folks who have had similar aversions to being labeled as anything other than straight. Straight people don't willingly engage sexually with other people of the same gender though. By definition, that is not possible. Doesn't matter if it's about power and control and/or attraction to their physical form. Being turned on by someone of the same sex for any reason at all is not a heterosexual experience, and that's okay. It doesn't have to be. Perhaps labels don't mean much to you, I don't know, but they do exist for plenty of valid reasons.

Laura is *one*, singular lesbian, sharing an opinion that would be considered contentious by most other lesbians. I am effectively half lesbian, and have dated and slept with several lesbians, so my point of view here is no less valid than someone who is 100% lesbian -- which, I would say based on her words, Laura may not be, since again, homosexuals do not willingly engage sexually with the opposite sex any more than heterosexuals do with the same sex. The two options here are that Laura is bisexual, or Laura agreed to the act as a trauma response. Lesbians don't want to suck cock, regardless of who's giving the order. And yes, being unaware that a gold star gay lesbian who has never been with a man would not know how to suck cock is indeed problematic. I don't know if it would fall solely under the label of sexist, but at the very least, it demonstrates the thoughts of a man who has little to no experience engaging with real lesbians or how their relationships do and do not function. One singular woman in an internet forum is not representative of an entire community, so please don't assume she or anyone else will be.

Write whatever you like, but if you share it publicly, be prepared for it to be ignored and/or directly criticized by people in the marginalized community you do admit you not understand.



This 💯 and said lesbian loses their lesbian card
WhipTheHip​(switch male)
11 hours ago • Feb 9, 2026
WhipTheHip​(switch male) • Feb 9, 2026
I probably know more about lesbians, than most lesbians know about each other.

For ten-years, I managed a rinky-dink hotel on Miami Beach, when Miami Beach was literally Hell on Earth. The hotel was owned by five partners who were connected with the mob.

I am a cis-gendered, 100% straight, heterosexual male. My only romantic relationships in life have been with male-hating, Gold-star, dyed-in-wool lesbian who did not associate with males. By definition this seems impossible.

So, I am sure you are absolutely certain right now, that I must be mistaken, confused, or lying.

Here is information that will shock you. Genetic (X,Y chromosome) males with AIS have external bodies that are 100 female. They naturally have female breasts, they naturally have a vagina. No one would know they are male unless they had CAT scan of their internal organs.

Many of these males grow up believing they are females. Many heterosexual men are married to genetic males with AIS thinking they are females.

Some lesbians could have genetic male partners with AIS believing their partners are female.

I was born with PAIS. My body looks like a female body except I have non-functioning male genitalia. In terms of my personality, I am neither masculine, nor feminine.

You say I have a rather queer personality, and a rather queer sexuality., which I won't get into here.

I had many butch-femme lesbian couples at the hotel where the butch member earned a living as a hooker. These butch lesbians would financially support their femme lovers.

They hated men. They hated having sex with men. The only reason they worked as escorts was they were not able to earn a living any other way.

Some were illegal aliens who didn't speak English. Some of these couples were too strung out on drugs for either to work a normal job.

Some of these lesbians couldn't work a normal job because they suffered from serious mental health disorders like schizophrenia or untreated bipolar disorder. And some of them couldn't get hired because they were underage.

One of these butch females, eventually became a female to male transexual, grew a beard, and "packed" (if you know what that is. She called herself, "Butch" for obvious reasons. She was hyper-masculine, and everyone called her Butch.

You can say she wasn't a true lesbian, but you wouldn't say it to her face. She stabbed her father to death in Cuba when she was 14. She fled that night aboard a rickety raft that was part of the Mariel flotilla.

She was the only female in that raft, and the only person in that raft who could speak any English. The other Marielitos aboard that raft were all criminals Castro had released from Cuban institutions for the criminally insane.

She was a hyperviolent, charismatic, psychotic, psychopath and sociopath. She eventually turned the Marielitos aboard that raft into a dangerous, notorious S. Florida criminal gang she led. Those criminally insane Marielitos called her, El Loco.

She fell in love with Eva, a beautiful, 19-year-old, bi-polar, lesbian stripper who was another hotel guest.

I allowed both of them to live with me free of charge. I was 22-years-old. I had never dated and never had a female friend.

Butch made it perfectly clear, if I ever stepped out of line with either of them, I'd end up like her father. There would be no touching, and no looking when they were touching.

To make a long story short, after a couple years, I eventually became their wife.

Most masochists get some kind of pleasure or satisfaction from pain. Most Doms don't really want to harm or hurt their subs. I am not submissive or masochistic. However, I am attracted to female sadists who really want to mercilessly hurt, abuse, victimize, terrorize, damage, traumatize me in ways that really harm me and sexually damage me.

This is an irrational compulsion over which I have no control. I am drawn to female sociopaths and psychopaths who feel no guilt, and have no ethical concerns.

I am viscerally squicked, sickened and nauseated by male homosexuality. Needless to say I have never engaged in any kind of male homosexual behavior. I can't watch any kind of porn, because porn websites bombard me with images of naked male bodies that disgust and repulse me.

I could not voluntarily engage in any kind of male homosexuality even if I wanted to.

Doing so would very likely traumatize me, and leave me with permanent PTSD. However, I am okay with whatever male-hating females do to me, whether or not I like it. I consent to being used in this manner.

I expect to regret whatever females do to me. I would not voluntarily have any kind of sexual interaction with any male for any amount of money.

However, if you wish to call me bi or gay because I would allow females to do whatever they wish to me for their pleasure, than so be it. Among the things I would consent to are all kinds of things I would hate having done to me.

Does this make me bi or gay? I don't think so. And I have always felt this way, even as a young child before I had any knowledge or exposure to sex.

Everyone thinks they know everything.

"There are more things in Heaven and Earth, Horatio, than are dreamt of in your philosophy."

Meanwhile, I can't tell you just how many lesbians who considered themselves Gold-star lesbians, shocked the shit out of me at that hotel by telling me they had fallen in love with me. I never believed this could happen.

These were countless lesbian hotel guests and lesbian employees at that hotel, who I treated like guys, who I never made a pass at because it never would have dawned on me in a million years that there was any possibility they could ever fall in love with me, because I always believed lesbians when they claimed they could never under any circumstances, ever fall in love with any male.

Surprise! Surprise! Surprise! It does happen.

Here are a few more shockers. Some Gold-star lesbians in relationships, every once in seven years would have sex with a male because they craved dick. They confided in me because I guess everyone confides everything in me. But they would have sooner died than let anyone in the lesbian community know about this.

Firstly, I didn't qualify as a male to these lesbians because for all practical purposes I can't perform like a male. And secondly, my body doesn't produce male pheromones that turn them on when they are seeking a male. Then they go back to their long-term lesbian partners.

I met a few lesbians who sought out male Doms. I didn't qualify as a male Dom, because they didn't consider me dominant or masculine enough for them.

Lesbians are insanely jealous. I had another lesbian assistant manager. She was a 40-year-old, black dyke who had been just been paroled prison after serving a 25-year sentence for having stabbed her lesbian lover to death when she was 15-years-old for cheating on her.

What is it with so many lesbians stabbing so many people to death all the time?

I was sure, I had struck gold with her. You would think a black, female, ex-con, dyke who stabbed her lesbian lover to death in a jealous fit would have no qualms hurting me all kinds of ways.

Instead, she turned out to be a huge disappointment. She was not the hothead, paisan, homicidal, terrorist dyke with chronic PMS, I had been hoping for. For crying out loud, every day, all she ever did all in her spare time was read the King James Bible, out-loud.

I don't know what this qualifies as. We once had two brothers who were identical twins living in the same hotel room. They were lovers.

They both became male-to-female transsexual sisters.. What they did next was unbelievable, but I leave that for another time.

Nobody, could possibly make this stuff up.

You really have no idea what people do in secret.