Scottieb(sub male)
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13 hours ago •
Feb 11, 2026
I’ve been in this game quite some time and the only for sure deal is to hire a dominatrix and go to a dungeon. I know it’s expensive but don’t waste your time on some of these websites cause they’ll just make you pay them and give you false promises. They always come up with a little extra that you gotta keep paying them and then when it comes time to have a session, it never happens. They may not even live in the same city you do, but they’ll lie and say they do.
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dollMaker(dom male)
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7 hours ago •
Feb 11, 2026
Re: Can't seem to meet a dominant women ► GoddessAlex wrote: ► dollMaker wrote: ► GoddessAlex wrote: ► Servitwo wrote: Hello,
I dont know what im doing wrong. Can't find a dominant women in my area. Do dominant women want a relationship with their slave or it is strictly business? Thank you First and foremost, it is essential to recognize the difference between a slave and a submissive. As a Dominant Woman, I have specific qualities I look for when vetting a potential submissive. Like wanting to see the person behind the role rather than just an act. It’s important for a submissive to be educated in the lifestyle or, at the very least, willing to learn. Many individuals like myself value true submission and believe in taking the time to get to know one another, rather than feeling entitled to Dominance. True Female Dominants often encounter many who claim to be submissive but do not genuinely embody that role. To stand out from the crowd, be different and remember to be yourself—this means acting like a genuine person and communicating authentically. A dynamic is a form of a relationship; however, it is not always one where two people are dating or married. Many key components go into any kind of relationship, such as trust, communication, respect, and more. There is more to this type of relationship or dynamic than just the sexual aspects, both in and out of the bedroom, and a significant amount of time and effort is required from both the Dominant and the submissive. It takes time to find the right match; often, I have found that when you are not actively looking for someone, that is when they will find you. I hope this helps! True this, true that..... what exactly does that mean, true to what? I used the word "true" twice, but your question lacks clarity regarding what you are actually questioning. I will do my best to provide an answer. I took a look at your profile and noticed its great detail, which only adds to my confusion about how you phrased your question. "True" can be defined as: Adjective 1. In accordance with fact or reality. 2. Accurate or exact. BDSM is a spectrum, meaning there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Within the BDSM community, there are different types of individuals, including players, kinksters, and lifestylers. What I perceive as "true" may not align with your perspective, and that's perfectly okay. I can only share my viewpoint, as I do not represent every Dominant (D-type) out there. I can explain what I believe real and genuine submission looks like, but the more important question for you to consider is, "What do I see as true?" There are many characteristics that people, whether they identify as Dominants or submissives, can agree on regarding what makes someone inauthentic, as well as what defines a real or true D-type or S-type. I hope this clarifies your question, as your question was quite short and vague. It’s not what I would typically expect from someone with a profile like yours. Thank you, I am aware of all of that, I simply do not like the use of the word true, it feels gatekeepy to me, without any expansion, explanation as to indicate what you included in your original post. To me, without further explanation, it smacks of one twue way energy. |
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dollMaker(dom male)
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7 hours ago •
Feb 11, 2026
Male subs, should get off the net, and go to actual in person events, muches, worshops etc, they stand a better chance of meeting someone genuine, and who isn't a scammer, preying on the amount of desperation and thirst which makes them so vulnerable to being scammed, easy prey.
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Steellover(sub male)
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1 hour ago •
Feb 11, 2026
That's easier said than done, for some people who live in cities such as Boise, Salt Lake City, or some of the mid-west and south, where people tend to be more sexually conservative, and any BDSM scene that does exist, is deep underground and hard to connect with. Such is the case where I live, where the only active group mainly caters to dominant men and submissive women, not submissive men. (and even that group is very small and very close knit.)
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