Wanting to Switch

Here s a question for everyone



If a submissive who submits, suddenly wants that feeling of control wrong for asking

Does that person become a fake submissive



And if a Dominant wants to try something with another Dominant, and that Dominant submits to the other

Does that mean they a fake Dominant



Why can't people try something new without being labelled as fake??????
It's something different, not saying they going to like it, but thinking about they may like to try