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The Lost Art of True Femininity in The West.

intenseoldman intenseoldman​(dom male)
3 months ago • Dec 11, 2025
intenseoldman​(dom male) • Dec 11, 2025
Anna Lynn wrote:
In my personal experience, western society in general, both men and women ( not all but many I have met and dealt with) do not value and even despise submissive women (and men.)

We haven't lost our femininity but it does show up differently depending if the woman is hiding her submissive nature.

On the other side, there are those that despise "feminist" women. I prefer feminine/submissive women but I don't despise women who aren't. I respect people's choices, and despise those who don't. This discussion keeps reminding me of how limited women's choice were, back when they couldn't even vote and how depressing it could be to be so repressed. It reminds me of "The Story of an Hour" ... not all women are cut out to be what society expects and should not be punished for not conforming to the norm, but society should not be constantly bending a woman's will either. There's a balance.
RescuesRock​(sub female)
1 month ago • Feb 6, 2026
RescuesRock​(sub female) • Feb 6, 2026
Londoner here, feminism has gone too far, a guy doesn't know whether to give up his seat to a woman, if he does he's being patronising, if he doesn't he's rude/hasn't been 'brought up with proper manners', fellas can't win. I don't like men wearing ponytails to me it's feminine and I like a man to look manly, good luck to those that disagree, horses for courses an' all that. I only disagree with you OP on one point, I wouldn't want you to slay a dragon for me as dragons are animals and I love animals, perhaps we could talk him down calmly lol
Fairy Doll Fairy Doll​(kinky female)
23 hours ago • Mar 18, 2026
Fairy Doll​(kinky female) • Mar 18, 2026
So....
Thinks we have sex: male & female
Gender: man and woman
(Cultural identity)

So for feminity to be tied to sex mebby not right? 🤷‍♀️ dunno...

May be we should say womanly ?? Since if you go back far enough males and females pretty much did the same as each other, hunt and look after children....

Anyway I get what OP means....🤭

I think also modern life also stressful for the man right?

So think it's about regulation for both.
I like to 'tend' to my partner. ... just what I like doing as long as I get a kiss or place his hands, a little thank you or hug....what evs.....

As long as I'm noticed and valued.... and can pump my music out 🥰

Maybe he needs a massage, a cuddle or a bit of the sexy stuffs ✨️ and the pleasure or smile he gives me in return..... that's probs all I need 💜