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BDSM/Pride questions

GoddessAlexandria GoddessAlexandria​(dom female)
2 hours ago • Jun 4, 2026

BDSM/Pride questions

1.) What does Pride Month mean to you within the context of the kink community?

2.) How can we make online kink platforms more inclusive for marginalized sexualities?

3.) Have you ever customized your kink gear (collars, floggers, paddles) to feature Pride colors?

4.) If you could design a new Pride flag specifically for your personal kink dynamic, what would it look like?

5.) What is your favorite non-gendered title for a Dominant or a submissive?

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TopekaDom TopekaDom​(dom male)​{Chaos }Verified Account
1 hour ago • Jun 4, 2026
TopekaDom​(dom male)​{Chaos }Verified Account • Jun 4, 2026
My real question is what does the LGBTQ+ vanillas think of the kink lifestyle in particular. Would they approve of Pride related kink activities/merchandise or would they see it as a "corporate" grab as businesses do this time of year.

My time in the lifestyle helped me unlearn many, many bad things I was then sure of about LGBTQ+ people. I was really lucky to find out how wrong I was and make amends to those I had wronged on the subject. If there is a market for Pride Kink merchandise, then go for it.
GoddessAlexandria GoddessAlexandria​(dom female)
1 hour ago • Jun 4, 2026
TopekaDom wrote:
My real question is what does the LGBTQ+ vanillas think of the kink lifestyle in particular. Would they approve of Pride related kink activities/merchandise or would they see it as a "corporate" grab as businesses do this time of year.

My time in the lifestyle helped me unlearn many, many bad things I was then sure of about LGBTQ+ people. I was really lucky to find out how wrong I was and make amends to those I had wronged on the subject. If there is a market for Pride Kink merchandise, then go for it.


First and foremost, I applaud you for taking the time to unlearn those things and to make amends.

As far as what those who are Vanilla think of the lifestyle, society makes BDSM/Kink out to be a bad horrible thing overall however I have come across vanilla people who do not think horribly about the lifestyle but just do not think it is for them.