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Advice to the so called Doms

AngelMatcha AngelMatcha​(sub trans man)
2 days ago • Jul 4, 2026
Yes! It’s sadly a universal experience that—let’s be honest— usually comes from male “doms.” I think a lot of the think the BDSM and kink community = easy sex. They’re just a bunch of weirdos!
Superfox Superfox​(sub female)
1 day ago • Jul 5, 2026
Superfox​(sub female) • Jul 5, 2026
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They don’t care to read a profile before reaching out. Rarely have any substance to their own profiles. Mostly just dick pics. I don’t usually respond. But have to laugh when they get upset. Not realizing that I don’t owe them a damn thing.
SirPanther SirPanther​(dom male)​{Dominant }
8 hours ago • Jul 6, 2026
Truthfully,
this type of situation happens when a Dom ,, with a good understanding of a submissive approach , is being pushed out while trying to establish a chat connection with some of these so called submissives and real submissives !
And these so called subs / real subs ,, end up accepting a chat connection with these so called Doms where they are being mistreated !
So here we go ,with the outcome of misjudgements !
SirsBabyDoll SirsBabyDoll​(sub female)​{🍕+☕}Verified Account
1 hour ago • Jul 6, 2026
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female)​{🍕+☕}Verified Account • Jul 6, 2026
SirPanther wrote:
Truthfully,
this type of situation happens when a Dom ,, with a good understanding of a submissive approach , is being pushed out while trying to establish a chat connection with some of these so called submissives and real submissives !
And these so called subs / real subs ,, end up accepting a chat connection with these so called Doms where they are being mistreated !
So here we go ,with the outcome of misjudgements !


Where is the accountability of the Doms in question? Because as written, you are placing ALL the blame on the submissives for the actions of the Dom....THIS! IS! WRONG!

A person may be *A* submissive, but that doesn't give a Doms the right to dom them. It requires consent!
SirPanther SirPanther​(dom male)​{Dominant }
33 minutes ago • Jul 6, 2026
My point is ,
The judgement that pushed away the good Dom and created the opening and let the bad dom in , is not anyone else's fault then the one who let them in ,because of poor judgment.
Have you read any of these profiles ?
Lots of them are not even real subs ,to begin with and wants to blame others for their mistakes .
You use bait to catch a fish ,you think a wrong fish won't get in ?
You will get all sorts of fish and you need to get them out by looking for the right fish you do want to keep .
If you keep them all to cook ,for sure you get a bad taste in your mouth , because all these are not fish for eating .
And you go back to the place you got the bait from to complain that you was given the wrong bait and got some bad fish !
So who do we blame ?
Fish bait is fish bait and you need to watch for the fish you catch to be the right one to cook !
SirPanther SirPanther​(dom male)​{Dominant }
9 minutes ago • Jul 6, 2026
Here is one of the bad situations,
You start talking to someone, you don't explain to this person that it is a get to know each other first time chat .
If you do that, he for sure will not even try to go in his dominant act and if he not listening, cut him off and stop talking to him .
He will for sure leave you be .
If you get in to deep chat ,he thinks he got you and start his BS !
Don't give him that free pass !
Is the same with these so called submissives, you cut them off and end of the story, get the hell out ,ain't none for you here !
I have seen it all in my years of being a Dominant , got in to these BS situations and it is no jokes !