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Advice on asking my partner to dom me

cageddarrenxxx​(sub male)
22 hours ago • Jul 10, 2026

Advice on asking my partner to dom me

cageddarrenxxx​(sub male) • Jul 10, 2026
I have a partner that I really love.. I have wanted to be dominated for a long time and have always been sacred to ask him. Sometimes he's a little dominate during sex anyway but I want to start leaning toward TPE at least in the bedroom. Possibly as a lifestyle. Any advice on how to approach a conversation like this?
B  L  O  N  D  I  E B L O N D I E​(sub female)
22 hours ago • Jul 10, 2026
B L O N D I E​(sub female) • Jul 10, 2026
You could start by bringing up a general discussion about BDSM in wider popular culture and asking what he thinks about it. Sound him out about what he thinks of the different roles and if any of them appeal to him and in what ways. That will naturally lead him to ask you the same question. You could start by telling him what appeals to you about the idea of being submissive in the bedroom. You can explain how certain things he does gives you that feeling and how much it excites and arouses you and how much you would enjoy it if he did more of it. Then you could maybe lean into suggesting that the two of you start to learn more about BDSM in general and maybe experimenting with things like bondage and spanking. Just a thought. I hope it works out for you.
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